KYM becoming a war zone...

my dear parivaar- members...

although I love everyone over here... the forum is chancing in to a war-zone....

I will request everyone to cool down and respect each others feelings... we dont need to be fighting among ourselves....

the MP and NP fan are trashing each others tread ... may I friendly ask you all to butt out if your not able to say/ write something positive..

coming to the update issue:

the updaters are doing excellent work and we all appreciate them... but the comments are not welcome... so maybe the updaters could post there comment at the end off the update.. and leave it to the viewer to read it or not.....

coming to ryka update: she is posting it in the ED tread... only a handful ppl are reading it and start discussing it... the only time we all are active...we love her updates too...

but now this has become a issue ... there has been a request written to the dev. team to chance there view regarding banning ryka's update ...so please wait and leave the decision to them ...and what ever it may be, we should respect it... cause if we are ready to look for a non partial opinion/decision we also should respect the outcome....

hope you all will understand.....

i agree wid u shanta plz ppl keep ur comments wise and plzzz don't bash. as for Ryka updates y all of sudden this much fuss she is doing it for more than 6months. i don't understand whats the problem 😕

It is sad that when war broke out between Kyunki and kayamath forum...I told in kyunki forum that kayamath forum is the most mature forum on IF and people don't fight and argue ....and its not even 15 days and all this started...I am really upset that thisbeautiful forum has become like others now 😕

Thank you Shanta, one parivaar, hey, how nice 😳

and you know how I feel about the whole update issue. 😊

Shanta, the best way to tackle is just ignore instigatory comments by the trouble makers. I guess Michians should take the lead and follow the non-violent method of tackling this problem. How long can people be instigatory if no one is willing to be drawn into a fight?

I implore fellow Michians who are dying to give their strong views against what they perceive as unfairness on the part of the opposite camp. Just hold your thoughts. It does'nt pay to argue with people who will in any case not change their views because of your comments. Lets think and act positively for our own sanity. KYM is giving us enough headaches without new ones being added by our fellow members from both the camps.

Can someone please tell me what is this update issue all about?

Oh yes, forgot to add, this is a request to all member of the Kayamath forum.

If i see any bashing or instigating posts, I suggest you do what I do just press the report button or pm the mods saara COMB and buttercup of the Kayamath section so they can deal with the situation. I dont understand why members don't do the same instead of wading in and worsening the situation. 😕

opti I have tried to ignore it....but one should know that they are wrong and crossing limits.....

yas... we are a parivaar....and yes I know how you think....and your solution is the best...we all should report post which are turning in to a bash tread...

tv-fan...... although we fight ...I have hope that my parivaar will realize not to go to far....
and offcourse we will always a little fight and disagree without that our parivaar would become boring....

but a war is not allowed...

Originally posted by: optimist

Shanta, the best way to tackle is just ignore instigatory comments by the trouble makers. I guess Michians should take the lead and follow the non-violent method of tackling this problem. How long can people be instigatory if no one is willing to be drawn into a fight?

I implore fellow Michians who are dying to give their strong views against what they perceive as unfairness on the part of the opposite camp. Just hold your thoughts. It does'nt pay to argue with people who will in any case not change their views because of your comments. Lets think and act positively for our own sanity. KYM is giving us enough headaches without new ones being added by our fellow members from both the camps.

👏thank u Optimist I will keep that in mind next time befor do or say anything again thanks😃

Shanta nicely put and I like the butt out part the best.