Originally posted by: Merav
May be avni tubelight is thinking Neil is with her becoz of marriage not becoz of love. Neil never directly said he loves avni and this tubelight can't understand the signs symbols mannerisms. So probably she is insecure.
The problem is Neil said many times that he "Loved" Juhi. Yes past tense, but he said it. But he never once told Avni that he "Loves" HER. Present tense. The thing is, it's all good to give Ishara and all that. Yes, she's a tube light and Neil thinks he's obvious so he has NO clue that to Avni it's not that obvious.
Avni is the type of girl who didn't have any interest in love or believe in it. So for someone like her to take a man's feelings seriously, he needs to not just show "Signs" of being Into her, he needs to TELL her in so many words what those signs are trying to convey. Yes, she knows Neil has "Some" feelings for her. She knows he likes her. Even she said to herself "Why would he come close to me if he doesn't like me?" But then she once told herself that Neil was just trying to "change" her and he probably didn't have those sort of feelings for her. Maybe if she was like Juhi he might?
Even before she found out about Juhi, when she decided to stay in K house for Bebe, she told herself that she cant "Expect" anything from Neil. He was just being nice, doing Ehesaan to her etc. It's clear that now Juhi is back, she thinks there is a chance Neil will want to see where his feelings stand. In all her confusion she wont even realise that Neil has told her many times how he feels about her, if not in so many words, then in so many ways! But he needs to tell her "I love you and only you!" THAT is the only time she will understand her importance in his life. He is not with her coz they got married. He's with her coz he's in love.
That is what Shweta was trying to tell Avni as well? WHY did her son want to stay in a marriage that was not his choice? The ONLY reason was, whatever way the marriage happened, the girl WAS his choice. Simple as that. It took her all these months to understand that her son is only staying in this marriage coz he's in love with the girl he married. Consent or no consent. Doka huwa tha, lekin feelings ke maamle mai nahi! Now it's time Avni understands that too. Until then this insecurity will remain.
Edited by MrDarcyfan - 8 years ago