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@ndivyateja

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Posted: 7 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: Eatifi
What Sukor did was a "Gandharva Vivah" that was practiced in ancient times.
Even the pandit amd his wife readily agreed to the wedding after Chakor's pregnancy was diagnosed.
Imo,Sukor marriage was the most pious one.
A marriage is needed to be sacred,not legal.

I am sure,if Sukor will announce their camp wedding to their parents,they will consent for it.

But I also want a grand Sukor wedding...just for the sake of some celebrations and functions
(Guess,it won't happen)

There are a lot of things that happened in ancient times which changed with the changing society..Its better they wed legally, atleast in the presence of their family..They are in deep love and desparately wanted to stay together..Why not follow the customs and rituals..Why not give Chakor her rite as a legal wife..Agree, souls need to be connected more than anything else..But they are physically connected here..For me, this act seemed irresponsible and impulsive even though they both have the rite to do so..

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sumsukor

@sumsukor

Rocker

Posted: 7 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: ndivyateja

There are a lot of things that happened in ancient times which changed with the changing society..Its better they wed legally, atleast in the presence of their family..They are in deep love and desparately wanted to stay together..Why not follow the customs and rituals..Why not give Chakor her rite as a legal wife..Agree, souls need to be connected more than anything else..But they are physically connected here..For me, this act seemed irresponsible and impulsive even though they both have the rite to do so..

Very right Divya

Rabia I too accept SUKOR being soulmates are fine with the ancient Gandharvivah

but I still debate within myself if the makers really confused themselves about the current pregnancy track. Though we all debated enough in this forum whether "IT" happened or not the following episodes did not give us any slightest hint that "IT" happened) so I really still debate within myself still give SUKOR the benefit of doubt😉.

Now coming back I second Divya while we all believe and value the traditional old rituals but considering the current norms, legalities, SUKOR MUST get married immediately for the sake of the child.. I really feel before returning to Azadgunj SUKOR should with the help of the Pandit marry in the temple as Suraj said while he came during the first time to Benaras he will visit Bolenath temple and take dharshan after he meets Chakor... so he must go there and do a temple wedding in front of the pandit family, get a mangalsutra and fill the maang with Sindoor and return to Haveli as righteous married couple. Suraj can ask Teju and BHUKA to come along with Paakhi to benaras without hinting about the marriage.

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sumsukor

@sumsukor

Rocker

Posted: 7 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: Aslesha99
A court remarriage would be a good option as well for the time being as we have KN, Imli and Ranvijay behind them at least the legal bond would be there and they can have a grand lavish remarriage later. If a court or ceremonial remarriage plans are not on the cards right now than they should show both Sukor considering that bonfire remarriage as valid and living together enough of this living separately and have a grand lavish remarriage later.

Shamelessness like Suraj sneaking into Bhuka's house now and than to meet Chakor can't be tolerated and now especially as a baby is in the picture. I can't tolerate these makers insulting our Indian values like this (some might think I am too orthodox).

@ BOLD RED

I am exactly the same as yours.

Just cannot tolerate the mockery of our values. Even in fact i was very much uncomfortable of SUKOR closeness after they got divorced but anyways now it is enough and the makers have to get them married immediately...

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Eatifi

@Eatifi

Rocker

Posted: 7 years ago

#24

I am wanting a grand Sukor marriage with all customs,rituals and functions,from so long,but I have minus expectations from the heartless cvs,this is what they are.😡

I am sure they will show Suraj filling Chakor's maang with sindoor,just like that and they will start living together[pathetic]🤢

all I am saying is,that rituals,purity,scared fire,and most importantly the heart's consent take upon over anything for me...no official documents in this world are enough to declare a marriage as null and void,no govt stamp can break a marriage that was fixed by God,to which the heart agreed.

there can be married couples living together in one roof,whose marriage does'nt hold any significance[like KN-Tejasvini]

there can be couples who are officially separated and living together,but still the marriage remains alive[like Sukor]

I SEE SUKOR AS A COUPLE WHO HAD BEEN MARRIED THRICE,NOT SOMEONE WHO HAD BEEN DIVORCED TWICE.

I desperately want Sukor to get married publicly,but even now,their relationship holds respect for me,and no way there child can termed as illegitimate.

Edited by Eatifi - 7 years ago

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Eatifi

@Eatifi

Rocker

Posted: 7 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: sumsukor

@ BOLD RED

I am exactly the same as yours.

Just cannot tolerate the mockery of our values. Even in fact i was very much uncomfortable of SUKOR closeness after they got divorced but anyways now it is enough and the makers have to get them married immediately...

I get you Sumi...😊

but Sukor closeness would have been made me uncomfortable,if only Sukor would have like what Chakor and Vivaan were prior to the first wedding.

Both Sukor were never a fresh "kunwaare" couple.😳

about Sukor's closeness after divorce,I had a complete different take on it[something that I had already written in detail]😉

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sumsukor

@sumsukor

Rocker

Posted: 7 years ago

#26

Originally posted by: Eatifi

I get you Sumi...😊
but Sukor closeness would have been made me uncomfortable,if only Sukor would have like what Chakor and Vivaan were prior to the first wedding.
Both Sukor were never a fresh "kunwaare" couple.😳

about Sukor's closeness after divorce,I had a complete different take on it[something that I had already written in detail]😉

hmm right I get that Rabia😉

hahaha Sukor can never be wrong for you and for us but

Still I would prefer a proper wedding for the baby

and I know no one will dare an eye at Chakor with Suraj besides her about the baby but

I want them to enter Haveli directly from Benaras as wedded couple and it will be fun to watch the expressions of that BRUTUS and KN.

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Eatifi

@Eatifi

Rocker

Posted: 7 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: sumsukor

hmm right I get that Rabia😉

hahaha Sukor can never be wrong for you and for us but

Still I would prefer a proper wedding for the baby

and I know no one will dare an eye at Chakor with Suraj besides her about the baby but

I want them to enter Haveli directly from Benaras as wedded couple and it will be fun to watch the expressions of that BRUTUS and KN.

I knew that only YOU will get it..😉

I so very wish that our wish be fulfilled,but now a grand Sukor wedded is only a dream