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What a beautiful writeup👏 Sigh, It really was a beautiful scene. And now you've made me want to watch it again😆
Originally posted by: angel_nonu
beautiful post. Indeed scene was beautiful. I know everyone is high on happiness and I shouldn't be spoiling it but after this this underline green line made me comment on this. Since you are a great writer :) I though it would be good to get answer of my confusion from you :)First of all I liked his admission of all to himself but I am still hoping that he admits it directly to her rather than her seeing this video at first. Video can reach to her later but before video plays in front of her I want him to admit his feelings directly to her and not in any indirect way because annika deserves this.@green unline: This point stuck me. He explained all what she has done for him/to him/for his family. So all this made him love her and not her individuality ? He did not say anything about her individual quality or what is on her that made her special and he fell for her. Falling in love bcoz of someone's good act/sacrifice is different but falling for individual is different and I am hoping against the hope that we do get such scene. Like annika had described him when she realised her love with all shade cards ke color dialogues, I would love to see something similar from him that what is that of annika which made him love her rather than explaining about her acts/sacrifices for him/his family.Now my biggest confusion is:About his not being expressive, He was very expressive all this while when he was pushing her to say ILU. He needed to hear those words but when she said, he was shocked that she really loves him. DId he really not know that she loves him?but in friday episode his confession he said"hmare bich itna kuch ho chuka h ke kuch kahne ki jarurt hi nhi padi" ( but then why was he pushing her then to say ILU, did he really not introspect this before asking her to spill about her feelings)?"ek dusre ke liye goli kha li, ye enough hai to proof that love was there" (if so then again why was words needed from her and after she said why shocked reaction? was he expecting something else)?"ye feelings itni strong hai ke feelings ke sath nainsaafi hogi unhe 3 words me sum up karne se" ( So annika's feelings can be sum up in 3 words? but he found his feelings so strong that they can't bw sum up in 3 words? He was behind her to say the words so after listening why such reaction, did he really not know that she loves her? or was he expecting her to say something else?)Is it really fair with annika that he made her say those words and now he wants her to give his feelings in form of a recorded video? does she not deserve it in direct way where he should let her know what made him fall for her and what is she for him?PS: This is really not any comparison or bashing or anything. I am genuinely confused on these questions and looking for answers.Anyways cat lady is not gonna answer so looking for answers here 😊
@Red bold: Doesn't your characteristics make you who you are? Isn't that why we call ourselves 'individual'? Whatever the attributes is within her is what makes her Anika and that's what he has fallen for. I see what you're saying...that why is that after the sacrifice had triggered his love? why does she has to do something big to make him realize about her love?
But let's not forget who Shivay was before Anika stepped into his life - a successful business tycoon, with NKK being his biggest priority, considering every relationship a deal, and most importantly, absolutely no belief in love...and his distance from love was so much that he found it hard to accept that he loves Anika, even long after he had fallen hard for her.
From her 1000 volts smiles that she always puts up hiding her million other worries and complaints of her life, her way of handling every situation with courage and confidence despite not having any influential background, from taking care of Sahil and putting him to a school to running the house with her own little earning from her small business and proving herself to be the most independent woman he had ever come across to, her ability to see through someone's heart (i.e. Shivay) and understanding the depth of someone's situation and hardship instead of jumping into conclusion from what we see (i.e. when she convinced shivay about Maya's situation) - all these attributes of her had ALWAYS triggered something within him and he found something extremely fascinating about her character.
However, as I said, from where Shivay comes from (second para of my comment), just those stuff (^) ain't enough for him to fall so hard for a woman. The toxic potion Pinky has been pouring inside him since his childhood has covered him with SO many layers that Anika's unique traits could only fascinate him at the most, but for him to fall for her the way he has now, his layers had to be scraped off first - which Anika succeeded in doing by all her devotion and sacrifices. And after his final layer of NKK vaporizing, he can finally see what she actually is, how beautiful she is as a person inside out.
So yes, it was important for him to judge her love and value by her acts and sacrifices and it's only valid for Shivay because of the person he was. It would never be reasonable if they show something like that for Anika because She has never been a person with a persona even close to Shivay.
@blue bold: I had mentioned it in one of my posts as well that I was a tad bit irritated at Shivay's confession and his inability to reciprocate to Anika's confession. But imagine yourself in his shoes. You never had or believed in love and when you had started to embrace the beauty of such heartwarming feeling, you lost a person with the hope of never getting her back. And now you've gotten her and she confesses that she loves you, do you really think you would have your mind, heart and soul under control to speak something with sanity? Shivay has never been good with words, he can't even say sorry or thank you properly, then is it really reasonable of us to expect him to tell her right away about his feeling when he himself was going through a hard time to process the overwhelming sentiments?
@green bold: For thisquestion, I would like to draw your attention to this bit of my post:
Originally posted by: Mushfika
"Kya kuch karna pada hai tumhare liye, haan anika?"
When you love a person to the point where your own life doesn't matter to you anymore, the gravity of the endearment becomes so strong that it pulls you inward with such force and leave you in an incomprehensible phase where even you don't even realize to what extent you can and have gone for her, until you actually sit back and play those incidents on a loop. And it will nothing but make you question yourself, "how did I even gotten myself to fall so hard for you?!"
It's just a matter of realization. When he had been after her all day to have her say the 3 words, it was just for the sake of it - you can call it teasing, desperation to win by making her confess first, a mere childish act. But the gravity of her words only dawned upon him when she had let the words out of her mouth and he had found himself tongue-tied to say anything. Now when it's his turn to confess and he has gotten all the time (to first confessing directly, then attempt writing a letter and finally the video), the realization that had always been there in his heart was just poured out... and he found the three words too small and insignificant to express what he feels for her, hence he said all that.
Hopefully, you ended up reading the entire thing. Sorry for the long comment but it was necessary to give an explanation to your confusions and questions, though I don't know if it made sense at all LOL.
And no, of course you're not trying to bash. Considering the fact that we are seeing such complicated characters and deep relationships, such questions are bound to arise. I'm glad you asked :)
Originally posted by: Mushfika
is it really reasonable of us to expect him to tell her right away about his feeling when he himself was going through a hard time to process the overwhelming sentiments?Nope It is not. But didn't he already go to Om and admitted before that he has fallen in love and waiting for right moment to tell her, so he did not realise his love then when he said all this to Om?Ok right away he said thank you to her as feelings were so overwhelming for him to process but even after that one full day and he did not say anything to her. Although annika did not say to him but didn't she also have some expectations to hear words from him?It's just a matter of realization. When he had been after her all day to have her say the 3 words, it was just for the sake of it - you can call it teasing, desperation to win by making her confess first, a mere childish act.
Atleast from the way CV's show it did not look at if just winning challenge or childish act. He was so desperate to make her say ILU. and he was kind of sure that this is what she is going to say. And about himself he was already sure as he admitted to Om. Why this childish game then?
But the gravity of her words only dawned upon him when she had let the words out of her mouth and he had found himself tongue-tied to say anything. Now when it's his turn to confess and he has gotten all the time (to first confessing directly, then attempt writing a letter and finally the video), the realization that had always been there in his heart was just poured out... and he found the three words too small and insignificant to express what he feels for her, hence he said all that.
so CV's forgot that he admitted to Om or he just admitted and have not actually thought over it? and my point is his expressing that his feelings can't be sum up in 3 words but then annika's feelings can be sum up in 3 words which he pushed her to utter? Won't him telling all this to annika directly would make her more happy than her watching it in video as if playing some movie?😕😭Mainly Shivaay-Om scene and then Shivaay pushing annika to say the words and then his reaction to that.So Shivaay wasn't sure that she loves him before she said ILU to him? So ILU from her was needed to make him believe that she loves him?
Hopefully, you ended up reading the entire thing. Sorry for the long comment but it was necessary to give an explanation to your confusions and questions, though I don't know if it made sense at all LOL.
And no, of course you're not trying to bash. Considering the fact that we are seeing such complicated characters and deep relationships, such questions are bound to arise. I'm glad you asked :)
Thank you so much for answering this by taking your time out 😊
