Originally posted by: ltelidevara
Unbelievable...Dev of present will hardly get time to even look at others barring his children. Looks impossible. Shaavi,what do you think?
Lakshmi
Lakshmi, one of the things that God has done to use humans is we have been given the ability to think and freewill. Anytime we have to decide, we are given multiple choice. Depending on what we select, we have some outcome which is combination of both what we wanted and something that we didn't want too. Also the decisions usually has an effect not just on us, but also to the people near you, like your family, your spouse, kids etc. There is always ripple effect of the consequences. When you are making decisions, your family members maybe making their own decisions. The only thing you can control is your action and try to make a decision which will not harm anyone. But if your action has a negative consequence then own upto it.
Here Dev is also a human, a person. And everyone has their breaking point. As per segments and promo released so far, Sonakshi will become too busy in her work and will not have time for Dev. If she doesn't have time for Dev, how much time will she have for the kids. And Dev doesn't mind making mistakes, but has it was shown towards the ending episodes, he wanted to do things himself. He feels Sonakshi knows everything and he doesn't know anything. He wanted to show her that he can do things without her as he told in the last episodes.
One of Sonakshi's flaws is to focus on other people's flaws and kind of tell it in such a way that, that person feels incompetent and feels that she is right and he has to do as he is told by her. If she makes fun of his attempts of child care and try to correct him every step of the way, I don't know how long he will be able to take it. Also if she is not available to him and behaves to be perfect in every way, Dev might find himself on backfoot and look for some external support, someone who is sympathetic to his state, someone who has time for him. He might find solace with such a person and it may lead to what is said in this spoiler. This might lead to Sonakshi "losing him" and for her to realize that she needs to pay attention to her family.
Conversely, it can also be the other way too. Sonakshi may become paranoid because of her guilt. She already knows that she is not telling the truth and not accepting the negative consequences. The more Dev loves her unconditionally, the more she might feel guilty of not being right for him. This might make her insecure like Ishwari and start acting suspicious because she has the fear that Dev might leave her. I mean in the last episode, she said she thought Dev and Ishwari will stop loving her if she showed mood swings. This showing of perfection has a toll on any person and she may reach her breaking point where she wants to be normal, but is unable to since she has gone too far in her acts. Since she knows she has made mistakes, she might rely on that one identity with which she can continue to justify herself, just like Ishwari. Ishwari stole the bangles and felt guilty and justified herself that she did what she did as a"mother" for her children. For that , she only kept that role as her identity. Similarly, Sonakshi might feel that she has failed in all her roles and the only role she has succeeded is as the "daughter" and want to keep that. But similar to Ishwari fearing that if Dev came to know the truth, he will leave her, Sonakshi might feel the same. She might feel that if Dev know how imperfect she is, that he will leave her.
Sonakshi acting the same as Ishwari will be an eye opener for Bijoy. He might see a completely different shade of Sonakshi and realize the damage he has done. This may be the makers way of showing Bijoy finally understanding Ishwari and what drove her to do the things she did. Just like Sonakshi's act in Khatri track and subsequent events that led for Ishwari to realize her errors and contributions, Ishwari might be the one to make Sonakshi realize the duties of a wife(not intended to hurt anyone, but she never really tried to be his wife both during the initial marriage phase and also after she reconciled with Dev after the leap. She did come back to IN of her own will, but refused to take responsibility of ownership of her relationship with Dev). In a husband - wife relationship, both need to compromise and be there for each other. Here Sonakshi has not embraced her role as Dev's wife. She has refused to call herself "Mrs. Sonakshi Dixit" outside of IN citing the reason that she wants to keep her identity of Dr. Sonakshi Bose. But the truth is she is the wife and her name should be "Mrs. Sonakshi Dixit" both inside and outside of IN. And for that she needs a strong trigger and a jolt. She needs to accept the truth similar to Ishwari.
Just like how Ishwari's insecurity consumed her and put her son's life in jeopardy, Sonakshi's insecurity regarding her unwillingness to accept her imperfections, will lead her to jeopardize her relationship with Dev. Just like how Ishwari realized that she was losing her son for her insecurity, Sonakshi needs to learn that she is losing relationships for her insecurity. Similar to how Ishwari had to learn to accept people beyond relationships, Sonakshi needs to learn to take ownership of relationships and embrace the belonging. i.e. she needs to make Dev as "her husband", not just "a husband". And his being friendly might act as that trigger. Dev might just talk friendly with that teacher, but Sonakshi in her insecurity might misunderstand and act out leading to her other side coming out, just like Ishwari.
What I have written is just a possibility and the makers might not go this way. It is just an analysis of this segment and what it might mean to the season, just some prediction to pass time. I don't really know what is in store and what the makers are actually planning to show. I only know the theme. And that is the shattering of Sonakshi's perfection image, her accepting that she is imperfect and has committed blunders, that her family is not perfect, that Bijoy had his contribution in the breakup, her understanding the meaning of unconditional love and truly becoming "Mrs. Sonakshi Dixit", wife of Dev Dixit, mother of Suhana and Shubh Dixit and the DIL of Dixit family.
Not intended to hurt anyone.
