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Posted: 7 years ago
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i am not able to understand one thing
are vatsalya and anami really satdev kid
one can say anami was nurtured by someone else so nurture is powerful than nature
but vatsalya he by nature and nurture both was their kid
both of their kids are not interested in property or money a single whereas their parent are fighting among and with whole world for keeping that money or be the owner of that money
baldev his ego is so much hurt by satrupa that he is not even caringthat his own blood is getting waste and nor he is feeling the pain of wounded
when i watch scenes of vatsalya i think how satrupa has imbibed in vatsalya so much humanity when she doesnt have that
it was not hard for her to make vatsalya hate narottam and father but she never did any of these
vatsalya and anami are so diferent from their parent they have goodness and humanity in them from birth only
everyone will say narottam has turned like this by lalmahal torture here my thinking goes different ya someone become bad due to circumstances
but this is the difference between nice and evil people good or bad people
circumstances allow you to choose a path but it is completely your choice what you want to choose even if narottam was treated nicely he would hve not hesisted that time even of being happy for his brother death as he could get crown
vatsalya could also have became a rich brat but in his soul no wrong was there thats why inspite of having everything he was good natured

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Satrupa seems to be woman having the right values and with a steel demeanour which is necessary to survive. Vatsalya seems to be a nice person and he is a poet. While Anami seems to be impulsive and vindictive. If Anami was in that Mahal, she would have met the same fate as that of Vatsalya. Why she is crying and in a self pity mode when she got pure love from her adopted parents. Her life seems to be as complicated as that of her hairstyle!
My heart goes out to Satrupa, not to Anami.
Edited by leavesandwaves - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Satrupa seems to be woman having the right values and with a steel demeanour which is necessary to survive. Vatsalya seems to be a nice person and he is a poet. While Anami seems to be impulsive and vindictive. If Anami was in that Mahal, she would have met the same fate as that of Vatsalya. Why she is crying and in a self pity mode when she got pure love from her adopted parents. Her life seems to be as complicated as that of her hairstyle!
My heart goes out to Satrupa, not to Anami.

same here
how much i try i dont fell bad for other character except vatsalya and satrupa
i dont know why everyone say that anami is like satrupa she is just like her father
she always cry for those thing which is not with her
i never understood why she not consider or call her foster mother father as ma baba and why she kill her birthday in gangaji every yeare
vatsalya asked right question
kudrat ne justice toh kar diya toh ab kise ganagaji mein duban ke marti
i hope its not too late to anami baldev to realise about satrupa
like today she got the feeling of loosing her brother tomorrow when she get to know her mother truth she will loose it by that time
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Today's episode is fustrating for me . The why anami say i hate u now more. 😭 she is like baldev when it's come about satrupa. Not want to understand any thing. Now if guruji tell her truth then i m sure she say u r "dhongi baba" like banaras have .😕
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Posted: 7 years ago
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As much as I feel for Satrupa, Anami is a teenager ... as a teenager, you have this righteous anger in you when ever you deem you have been wronged. considering her age as well as her nature, she will explode at the person she holds responsible.

She or Vatsalya were never the kind that will value money or richness the least bit. They both will never understand Satrupa , coz they seee her act as one aimed for providing the heir... Satrupa might have her very solid reason of survival ... but I dont think Anami will understand that at her age.


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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: gaushiv13

i am not able to understand one thing

are vatsalya and anami really satdev kid
one can say anami was nurtured by someone else so nurture is powerful than nature
but vatsalya he by nature and nurture both was their kid
both of their kids are not interested in property or money a single whereas their parent are fighting among and with whole world for keeping that money or be the owner of that money
baldev his ego is so much hurt by satrupa that he is not even caringthat his own blood is getting waste and nor he is feeling the pain of wounded
when i watch scenes of vatsalya i think how satrupa has imbibed in vatsalya so much humanity when she doesnt have that
it was not hard for her to make vatsalya hate narottam and father but she never did any of these
vatsalya and anami are so diferent from their parent they have goodness and humanity in them from birth only
everyone will say narottam has turned like this by lalmahal torture here my thinking goes different ya someone become bad due to circumstances
but this is the difference between nice and evil people good or bad people
circumstances allow you to choose a path but it is completely your choice what you want to choose even if narottam was treated nicely he would hve not hesisted that time even of being happy for his brother death as he could get crown
vatsalya could also have became a rich brat but in his soul no wrong was there thats why inspite of having everything he was good natured



I think both Vatsalya and Anami are by genetics righteous... Both got parents who instilled good morality and strength ... Satrupa was a brilliant mother to Vatsalya

But for Anami she is the mother who left her behind and moved on ... no matter how much her foster parents loved her, she was rejected by the one who was supposed to love her unconditionally ... she doeesnt care about her mothers reasons ... because no mother should have any reason thats above her kids...

Just my thought 😛 everyone is flawed in show ... so Anamu too have her vices... her anger being one...
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I like the quiet dignity of Satrupa. She is not wallowing in self pity because Baldev did not love her. Her love for Vatsalya does not make her hate anyone. I think its a challenge for her to provide the right heir than any greediness for wealth. She is not buying diamonds or having an extravagant lifestyle.
What destruction can Anami bring on Satrupa who can take everything in her stride with calmness and dignity. Satrupa lost so much and some more loss wont make much difference.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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they say na...if we have everything we don't value it but when we lose we crave for it .
property is different thing kids don't value it but parents do because they know the importance and in this world no money ppl don't value .
sadrupa wants to secure her kids so she fights ...
this is happening since mahabharata time so fighting in this era is not surprising .
sadrupa is not greedy but ya she always stands for her rights
she marrying a man with kid is harsh realty it is not easy tolerating that through out her life .
baldev he is always be controlled and punished he did a blunder and has a gift narootam but his dad threw him away from duty and his rights was also harsh reality so he is what he is just a robot and has no emotions (minus vatsalya his son was everything)
anami is also not wrong being a girl and abandon kid who was given away how the girl must be feeling she might feel like a trash thrown by sadrupa in this world she has her foster parents but back of her mind the thing being abandon can't be taken easily later the family is taken away and sadrupa forcing her to return no kid will take it .
its not easy for girl kid to understand it why her bio mom had to give away her ..
daughter-mom equation is bit tricky if enmity arise it stays a while that equation of mother and daughter will change once daughter marries and go till then that equation is difficult to explain (opposite works dad-son don't get along and daughter-mom don't easily but dad and daughter/mom-son works smoothly)
only thing works is time .
anami needs time experience the depth of chakravyu thrown on her once she swims out she might even understand her mom easily ..
this is chess game and one day anami will stand for sadrupa to shock the other players like sudha-narootam-pujan-adhirajdad..
till then let the odd things go on

Edited by rockstar.sj - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Satrupa seems to be woman having the right values and with a steel demeanour which is necessary to survive. Vatsalya seems to be a nice person and he is a poet. While Anami seems to be impulsive and vindictive. If Anami was in that Mahal, she would have met the same fate as that of Vatsalya. Why she is crying and in a self pity mode when she got pure love from her adopted parents. Her life seems to be as complicated as that of her hairstyle!
My heart goes out to Satrupa, not to Anami.

Anami has not witnessed the vulnerability her mother has. See, from her point of view, her mother gave her away like an unwanted child. Think about it, what if Pathak family were awful people, then what? She then never looked back. Only sought her when she needed an heir. Then threatened the parents who raised her, loved her unconditionally without ever questioning her religion, caste and defended her from the world. Then she found her brother was the sweet friend she met with whom she had a connection. We as viewers know Satrupa has her reasons but Anami only saw her iron lady avatar. You cannot expect her to see reason or warm up to Satrupa. And Baldev is an adult. Comparing the response of a teenager who has had drastic changes in her life in a short span of time to a guy who has lived long enough to loose a son is unfair. Baldev is a whiny man child whereas Anami is a child.

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