Riya ke liye...9/11/17..updated

Originally posted by: Mdwst

Omg Maya...welcome back...🤗missed you so much ...

Finally a comment from you...😳😊

Maya thank you so much for bringing this up..this never crossed my mind...

What a heartbreaking scene it was...and toshiji became her mom..and consoled her..brilliantly done by DT...and thatsceen ...still tears me up..well done by the duo..

Wow..hats of to you..you are bang on..Amma was never there when ishita needed her the most...👏

See this is why you need to comment often ...you never miss these things...it doesn't matter what happens in the show however ridiculous it is...but these things help us understand the character very well..

I wonder if ishu is adopted?...the way she sees going on and on about vandhu..and zilch zippo for ishita from pre 1 st leap till date...thanks hon...😊😳👍🏼

Originally posted by: mayasun

Hi Viji,

I stopped watching the show when I realized the core concept of the show was always Raman and Shagun and Ishita as the third unwanted wheel. This became clear to me when Raman abandoned Ishita when she was disowned by her parents and went with Shagun.

Most of us have gripped over the fact that Shagun ruined the golden era of yhm but if you see it clearly from the show starting it was always about Shagun and Raman but due to KP/DT excellent acting we thought it was love story of IshRa

For ex

1. The first time Ishita helped Raman he was only thinking about Shagun and gave money to her to come back near the steps

2. IshRA first marriage was for Shagun as soon as he realized that Ruhi would go to Shagun not even a day they have been married he wanted to file for divorce.

3. Holi dance was for to make Shagun jealous

So if you see like this even in old yhm everything centered around Shagun

<font color="#0000ff">Raman was always a selfish and narrow minded person starting from yhm </font>beginning be it for breaking MiMi because he did not like Mihika or throwing Ishita out even before knowing what happened during Param case <font color="#cc0000">if the person doesn't suit his needs or they were not sacrificing themselves for him he throws them out of his life </font>but <font color="#0000ff">due to KP excellent acting skills I was fooled into thinking that Raman was a sensitiveand caring person.</font>

<font color="#cc0000">Ishita was always a doormat from starting of the yhm.</font>She doesn't respect herself otherwise she would have stood up against Subbu mom and put her foot down while her mom made a spectacle of her because her mom wanted to one up on Subbu mom. She never once fought for her rights as Raman wife and took all the abuse from him from starting of the yhm too <font color="#990000">but DT excellent acting skills made me think Ishita as a strong independent woman</font>

<font color="#3300ff">On the whole I thought I was watching a progressive serial where in the core concept of the show was three lost souls found each other </font>due to excellent acting skills by KP/DT and RD but three years later <font color="#cc0000" size="2">I recognized that the core concept of the show was indeed regressive where in a husband cheats on his present wife with his adulteress ex-wife </font>and abuses the said wife and the wife without uttering a word takes in all the abuses.

Sorry Viji I don't have the patience to see regressive type of serial even though the acting skills are damn good by KP/DT.

Perfectly written. No one could have analysed better than this

Infact this is the most regressive show. They are getting worse day by day.

I read the WU on FB and it's sad to see the state of YHM where all negative influences are highlighted at the prime time.

One hand the pain of a kid who lost his Mother not too long ago is shown to be ignored by his father while the father was so desperate to get hitched to a woman and ignored by his maternal grandparents who have lost all the emotions that one will have when a grown-up child is dead.

On the other hand, it is shown that Ruhi is as disturbed and dysfunctional as she came under the lies of Pihu who is just a child and going along with her stories and lies and be ready to support her with her lies against her parents.

Raman and Ishita as usual playing dumb and lost and clueless parents who has no control over their children. Is Ishita really supporting Ruhi who is 18 and an uneducated and mentally unstable kid to be mother of a 9-year-old child who is neglected and a bully who gave Pihu nightmares and made Pihu wet her bed at the mention of Ria or is she playing the good cop to Raman's bad cop aggression? Or Ishita is butchered by CVS beyond recognition to allow Shagun the "Asli ma to carry her crown and title to impart the wisdom on motherhood to Ishita while Raman one more time showing her the door with his famous "Dafa ho jao?

Ria now comes under the influence of Pihu in the department of lies and lying to her mother. Pooja with her priorities are once again different than considering her child needs.

Pihu is getting master's degree in lying and none of the parents are is aware of it and the one who is aware of it (Ruhi) is supporting her instead of correcting her.

Is Raman trying to buy Nikhil off is this the repetition of Sarika and Romi story and later when revealed of Romi's condition for Raman to go beg Sarika to come back into Romi's life? Is Ruhi who is going to be wanting to follow the footsteps of Ishita will be shown as infertile as Ishita and Raman after realizing goes to beg Nikhil to come back into her life?

This story needs to go off the air. Such disgusting crap.

Originally posted by: varunike

Very very very sorry for the late post ...extremely busy day...

Bala...what a change...from the ideal husband/ wonderful father ...fab role model to a man with raging uncontrollable hormones, desperate for a woman...irresponsible father, a man who has forgotten his wife whom he had lost just a few months back. This guy has no time to sit and talk to his son and kids and explain the situation..understand them and wipe away their fears of a step mother, a new woman in his/ their life and assuring them that he will never forget their mother and that she will always hold a special place in his heart and life. So disappointed that he's actually yelling at him and expecting a teen to understand everything and not offering any explanations and taking baby steps but a huge leap.

Shravu...typical teenage reaction...a rebel..unable to give his mom's place to any woman...ready to leave home as he can't stand to,see his dad with another woman, in the same house where he had warm memories of his mom..with each and every corner reminds him of his mother. Shocked that even his grandparents have accepted kiran. Wait all of a sudden he's in college?..until last week this kid was in school...when did this change happen?

Kshitija...nothing much to say..but happy to have a mother like figure and looking forward to it. She's too young to understand or can be mounded very easily.

Kiran...this woman is equally desperate..and is not stepping back or giving time for this relationship. I sometimes wonder if she really cares...she definitely has bala wrapped around her little fingers.

Nikhil...this guy will be proved innocent in all this...the minute Raman offered money...he knew and perfectly understood what raman must be going through as a father. He will be the one convicting ruhi not to be angry on her dad.

Pihu...what a conniving liar she turned out to be. Lying outright to her parents with no qualms whatsoever, despite giving her chance to speak the truth. She's definitely not ishitas kid. Good upbringing by asli maa and raman ...kudos..

Ruhi...ok this one..though i understand that she stepped in to protect her little sister when her dad was almost ready to hit pihu...should've stepped back when dad was disciplining pihu. Having said this sisters do step in when a parent makes such a move...cuz it's their little sis...the protective motherly instincts kick In...it's like none one touches my sis...that possessiveness kicks in... What I'm trying to say is she couldn't see pihu getting slapped by her dad. But she indirectly supported pihu's lying..which is very wrong. She is seeing herself in ria..a kid craving for love and attention. She has no guidance from her parents whom by now should've set boundaries..and made clear Ria is NOT her responsibility and that her parents are there for her and drummed some sense to concentrate on her education.

Ishu...Did She spot the core issue..ruhis weakness and her love for Ria and that ruhi sees herself as ishita herself?. Don't think so...until this happens we will see this ishita...if and when it happens she should make understand and hold her reins on ruhi, that her situation is not the same as ishitas ..as there is a huge age difference. And the main issue...ruhi being a step mother of a kid who is of the same age as pihu. For now she is aware of ruhis love for nikhil and unable to forget him..,should've offered advice and guided her on the right path. Ishu is on the guillotine...ready to be severed apart., pving way for shagun. I also feel she will reunite ra...pooja and nikhil.

Raman...his anger is understandable and justifiable..as a father yes was dead on...but the mistake he made...his solution..buying off nikhil. He failed to Understand that the problem lies with Ruhi too...and that needs his full attention. Hoping to see that soon. One more thing I noticed...ruhi and pihu became ishitas kids the minute their mistakes surfaced.

Ishra ...they still have to lay the ground rules And be very very firm with ruhi now...no more delay. There's no point in taking amongst themselves. It doesn't end there..pihu she better be disciplined now...else this kid will turnout to be the biggest trouble maker. On the whole the kids have no guidance be with adi ruhi or pihu and this is where ishra fail miserably as parents, as they are busy involving and solving others prolems.

Miku...apart from shagun...she's another person who gets fashionable clothes...wondering why...

Are surprises on the way?...mmm..