Why the need for telling society that I am a kinnar?

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Kowshik or Kow

@chocolate_boy

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Posted: 8 years ago

I love the show and the story but I think it's illogical. One family tries to hide owns faults and flaws. Soumya doesn't look like a kinnar, so why do they need to tell that she is a kinnar? I mean Harman fell in love with her beauty, then slowly her nice personality alluded him more. Harman considered her as a human. If Harman accepts her the way she is why do the whole city need to know she is a kinnar. I think kinnar people have the right to have medical attention, and soumya can seek medical help from another city too. So why care? And she can be operated too.

Why soumya is so dumb that she fell in Preeto trap. Though I really love the role of soumya

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sparklingeyes

@sparklingeyes

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Posted: 8 years ago

Because u can not always live a life of fear that anytime ur identity can come out

The one who ha story go through this is the one who knows the pain of it... Being living a false identity

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Kowshik or Kow

@chocolate_boy

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Posted: 8 years ago

I know. But if Harman loves her than the family can get her treated. She can have an operation. No need to tell the society bedroom secrets. Unless Harman loves her . It's like soumya is the whole city wife. Unless she is a nice person they society should not be told her secret. The family can make her feel better about herself like Nani, surbhi

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sparklingeyes

@sparklingeyes

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: chocolate_boy
I know. But if Harman loves her than the family can get her treated. She can have an operation. No need to tell the society bedroom secrets. Unless Harman loves her . It's like soumya is the whole city wife. Unless she is a nice person they society should not be told her secret. The family can make her feel better about herself like Nani, surbhi

Saumya asked harman to go to doctor but he said he loves her as she is and she should accept herself this way

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Kowshik or Kow

@chocolate_boy

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Posted: 8 years ago

I didn't know about the doctor thing. However if Harman loves her in every way, why society needs to know about it. Soumya has fallen in Preeto trap. If Harman would have told society truth everything would be fine but there is no need to.

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@Flora15

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Posted: 8 years ago

It's true that Saumya is beautiful and didn't look like any kinar ...Her family can also hide her truth and raised her normally. .Harman loved and accepted her with her identity but my dear all of this isn't enough...How Someone can all his life living hiding his identity and insecure...It's hurtful living in lies without your real identity...SaumYa can look with Harman perfectly happy but inside her she's insecure..She has alaways that fear if anyone knows about her identity and what will happen..No one can feel what is in Saumya heart ...Saumya is suffering double silently ;no one feel can her great wish to be free from that cage of lies&fears...She's tired living without any identity &not having existance...She's feeling like a stranger...Can you imagine her deep pains and sufferings being kinars and adding to it living in darkness like she's not existing ..Even having family or love that 's can't pacify her soul;who is living tortured and in a big fear...Hope have time and explain more the importance of living with your true identity or defects.

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meenji22

@meenji22

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: sparklingeyes

Saumya asked harman to go to doctor but he said he loves her as she is and she should accept herself this way

BT SOMYA FORGET THIS MAIN THING N DOUBT HARMAN LOVE

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MaryamMary

@MaryamMary

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Flora15
It's true that Saumya is beautiful and didn't look like any kinar ...Her family can also hide her truth and raised her normally. .Harman loved and accepted her with her identity but my dear all of this isn't enough...How Someone can all his life living hiding his identity and insecure...It's hurtful living in lies without your real identity...SaumYa can look with Harman perfectly happy but inside her she's insecure..She has alaways that fear if anyone knows about her identity and what will happen..No one can feel what is in Saumya heart ...Saumya is suffering double silently ;no one feel can her great wish to be free from that cage of lies&fears...She's tired living without any identity &not having existance...She's feeling like a stranger...Can you imagine her deep pains and sufferings being kinars and adding to it living in darkness like she's not existing ..Even having family or love that 's can't pacify her soul;who is living tortured and in a big fear...Hope have time and explain more the importance of living with your true identity or defects.

Flora, my dear,

what a beautiful way of explaining on Saumya side

Yes, saumya lives in fear & on edge, ever since herself came to know about her truth, and this is not for any human being to live whole life...in fear & on edge

Saumya has to be satisfied herself of her identity

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@jyoti06

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Posted: 8 years ago

Why the need ?? Err to progress the story ahead 😆 .. well its a daily soap and they do need something to forward the show na ... Kinner truth is the biggest and main concept of this show .. So they hv used it to bring this highpoint ..

From a character's POV , see every person want to live a fearless life and its only possible if u r living with your true identity .. Also being a kinner is not a defect ,, they r normal people too .. God has made them like this .. Its a third gender just like man and woman .. If a man and a woman can proudly tell their gender to all , why cant a kinner do so .. they r part of this same society too ..

Edited by jyoti06 - 8 years ago

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Kowshik or Kow

@chocolate_boy

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Posted: 8 years ago

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The show will lose its focal point after the kinnar truth is out. That's why I m Afraid of the show ending. Love stories don't last much unless it's a family drama.

If they want the show to run many years they should also focus on other characters including more love story of haya