marriage... a hurdle in career??!!

hello guys...!!

this is one serious topic that v need to discuss amidst all the masti mazaak that v do...!!

sapna is getting married to amit... does that mean she has to leave her job...??she is doctor and bcuming a doctor is no child's play...!

forget doctor sapna...!! this is for any girl...!! in today's times where there is competition everywhere.. is it neccesary for a girl to leave her career for marriage and family after having worked so hard to achieve what they wanted to??

is it right for the boy and his family to stop the girls career from shaping up in the name of family and marriage...?? so what if the guy is rich enough to support 100 families on his own...?? duzn a girl who gets married have any individual identity after that???!!

it is very ridiculous if this is so...!!

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dhwani..!

I dnt think so... you can get married, but keep the kids for later 😆

yea....i agree wid u totally am against any gurl leavng her profession 4 a commitment in her personal lyf!
we neva see men givng up dere jobs wen dey get married so y gurls?? 😕
n its nt onli money...jobs build ppls' confidence n courage 2 face trivial situations....dey expose a person 2 da "real" world n its pros n cons!
i may hurt/offence views of various memebers bt i do not intend 2 do so...dese r mi personal views n apologize 4 offending any1!
bt dr.sapna leavng her job 4 marriage felt liek a very lame excuse 2 make her leave da show!! dey cud hv shown a transfer or sumting...esp. since it is a youth oriented show!

sry again 4 offending any1...n dhwani...a very gud topic startd by u! 👏

Marisha 😳

HEY
DO U KNOW I REALLY AM GOING TO BECOME A DOCTOR WHEN I GROW UP AND I DECIDED THAT I WILL NOT GET MARRIED WHEN I'M A INTERN I'LL ONLY GET MARRIED WHEN I BECAUSE A FULL TIME DOCTOR
SO I HOPE SAPNA COME TO SANJEEVANI EVEN AFTER MARRIGE
😊 SWANSEA 😊 😊

yeh..i wanna b a dr when i grow up and..i'll only get married when i'm a full tym dr lyk swansea sed!

hopefully sapna wont have to leave her career cuz i totally agree that becomin a doc is no child's play like it takes alot of hard work n like money to become that n ya if u become a doc jus to sit at home then u might as well had become something else why go through so much. I plan on being a doc but i have already told my parents no marriage til i am a doc but then i think marriage in itself is a hassle so no marriage at all!! like of course my decision can change but ur right its really retarded how the girl has to give up everything. Now if the guy is really rich, the girl shouldnt have to work as much or as hard but should continue her career as that will keep her career goin n her house like stopping completly wont be gud for career as who wants an unexperienced doc?? right..but ya marriage espeaically in indian/pakistani and many other asian countries mean a road end for many girls. there hard work is all overlooked. great topic by the way 😊

cheers
isha

Originally posted by: perfectpiscean

yea....i agree wid u totally am against any gurl leavng her profession 4 a commitment in her personal lyf!
we neva see men givng up dere jobs wen dey get married so y gurls?? 😕
n its nt onli money...jobs build ppls' confidence n courage 2 face trivial situations....dey expose a person 2 da "real" world n its pros n cons!
i may hurt/offence views of various memebers bt i do not intend 2 do so...dese r mi personal views n apologize 4 offending any1!
bt dr.sapna leavng her job 4 marriage felt liek a very lame excuse 2 make her leave da show!! dey cud hv shown a transfer or sumting...esp. since it is a youth oriented show!

sry again 4 offending any1...n dhwani...a very gud topic startd by u! 👏

Marisha 😳

hmm i don't completely agree with you....jobs do build confidence but its not the only thing that does...i guess the decision is the individuals....some prefer to quit work after marriage...they fiond it to much or thats how they want their future to be....many girls are ambitious...which is fine..alll gals should have the choise to carry on work after marriage....but some still prefer not to....i dnt think thats lame tho...i personally am not a very ambitious person...my dream life would be to not work....but look after a big family...i guess some people are just like that...tho i would stilld o charity work or find something useful to do in my time....cz i agree just being a housewife is not healthy.....buttt if a girl wants to work...i can not see any reason why she shouldnt....

coming bk to dmg...i guess the character sapna dreams of looking after her husband n staying at home looking after her kids....i think its a fair excuse as a reason to quit dmg...

and i 4gt to say...at least they didnt make sum farfetched ekta style exit...like death or something...its a valid excuse...(agreed if she knew she wanted to quit work after marriage then mayb medicine wasnt the ryt choice...but i guess thats also her choice)

true i wanna becum a doctor too and i would never give up my career for my husband just bcoz i m married no not at all but the thing is i wuldnt marry sumone who thinks tht way and wen it cums to kids i think im too young to think bout all that

yeeahh sheee shoulddddnt leave the hospital...
lets see what they have in store 4 her