I have been a silent spectator of this forum now for some time, dropping not-so-important comments here and there in threads having healthy discussions and filled with humor. Have diverted my mind to FFs and short stories. Thanks to the Amazing writers here, this forum is still working good because indeed IB fans are talented. Everybody has some good side that they share here and makes IB forum worth spending time in.
Lately the forum has become a house of all negativities. So much chaos that one can get irritated with so many discussions going on on-repeat like a fish market.
Obviously you will ask me WHY DO I BOTHER TO BUG IN if this is annoying me. Well, I guess we all have been here for almost a year now and been good friends, following up on good stories and FFs and One site this is where all news, episode updates are posted ... all under one roof.
But, the forum is literally a mess now. For two reasons
1) Pinky Mata and The ongoing dark torture going on in the show and
2) The Spoilers coming from reliable and unreliable sources.
I have just a few points to put in here so that I can express my views to as much people here,
1) Out of two above problems, the first one is already making us panic, people are too nervous, some are depressed, too scared to even imagine what's coming, while the second one is what is adding to our already messed up brains.
2) All spoilers need to go to sleep, because
a) Its not helping us or showing any benefit to the show
b) We ain't even sure if what all spoilers we are reading and hearing from sources and friends are even true or no, or has any reliability or truth in it.
3) The On-going tracks has already created havoc and the pouring of sources at this vulnerable state of mind is only making us go AGAINST our show.
4) There is literally NO-POINT panicking thinking about what is going to happen in the next week, forget thinking about what is going to happen 2-3 months from now. Why to spoil the already un-happy mood cursing writers and PH and others for something we have no proof about.
5) Also, if we have followed the show from start, we all are sure about one thing, the show has never failed us till date. We have always got through the track "Jaise-taise and then we end up liking it or atleast we do believe it to have come out better than our worst nightmares.
6) I am not saying all spoilers are possibly wrong or that maybe nothing like said will happen NO I am NOT saying that, but, with the blow on one wind we can't jump to a conclusion especially when the said scene has not yet happened or played out.
7) Take as it comes. Take the show as it comes and drop it when u can't bare it. Certain episodes are unbearably nonsense I agree, count me in there. I have skipped a lot of shit episodes 😆😆. What my point is when u are already thinking negative and already prepared yourself that "Bro- Nonsense is coming, I just know it, I juts heard it, lets shut down, lets fire them before they fire us in all this u will miss what u would have actually loved or maybe tolerated watching and now u only have negative reviews left with u.
8) We all watch for entertainment, some watch for relaxation, some watch it because watching a fantasy story going on makes u happy - it decorates your dream to imagine that even people like this can exist or moments like this can be created. So why waste the whole investment of our time till date panicking and then messing up what we had till date.
I thought this forum did need some positivity, I guess more than fake and unsure positive vibes about the tracks and spoilers , I decided to revive what fun we were before.
P.S Sorry if u think u wasted your time reading this. 😊