Anyone annoyed of Meghna?

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Cutiepie_Rani

@Cutiepie_Rani

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Posted: 8 years ago

I mean I know she only wants best for her sister like any older sister would want for her younger sister. But anyone think she's overdoing it? It's Naina's life. If she is ok with everything who is Meghna to intervene? She's being a pain in the ass right now.

I know it was wrong for the family to hide this truth about Karan like that. And I understand Naina's wedding did not happen in the ideal way. But Karan and Naina seem to be in a happy place. And Naina seems to be ok. Why is Meghna all over ruining this happiness? Does she not see that her sister is fine and is happy?

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malikakas

@malikakas

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Posted: 8 years ago

Naina seems fine and happy.. but she also put on a show of being fine and happy when she wasn't and Meghna wasn't able to pick that up. So now Meghna can't trust Naina saying she is fine and happy. Not when her life's happiness is at stake because of her.

Also Meghna knows Naina is self sacrificing person who may find a way to be satisfied with less than she truly deserves.

The whole problem is Naina chose to marry Karan to protect Meghna's marriage against Meghna's wishes. So now Meghna feels like she has to protect Naina's happiness even if it comes at the expense of Naina's wishes.

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Tahitien-moon

@Tahitien-moon

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Posted: 8 years ago

I for one agree she is crossing all the lines here she needs to lead her own life concentrate on her own marriage let her sister handle her own life just as Naina also needs to let her sister lead her own life😆

Both sisters needs to understand they both are mature grown adults who are highly educated and needs to respect the fact both made their decisions and choices in their marriages and leave eachothers to lead their own lives do their own mistakes and learn on their own 😆 respect eachothers choices 😆they were too dependent on eachothers so far sometimes too much dependence is not good for anyone and might lead to one trying to takeover life of the other like it's happening here😆forced marriage or not forced marriage nor marriage for the sake of saving her own marriage meghna has no rights to dictate what Naina should do or not😆 it's her own life and she is gonna lead it her own way😆 and this is exactly what Naina gonna say and stand for the stunt her sister gonna pull😆 may be the distance Naina gonna put stand she is gonna take hope will bring meghna back to her more better straight thinking and get it in to her head her sister wants her marriage to Karan even if the beginning of it the choices was out of her hands😆

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Esha Singh

@eshasrk

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Posted: 8 years ago

I said this in an earlier post and I will say it again : Meghna should let go !!!!
I know she feels guilty and all, but Naina made a conscious choice by marrying Karan, although Meghna didn't want her to, so Meghna should leave Naina to make whatever she wants from her marriage...on the other hand Naina also should leave Meghna to make whatever she wants from her marriage.
Both sisters are highly educated, they are mature, they made choices regarding their life partners irrespective of the marriage was forced, or under pressure, or with conditions...they both made a clear choice, so now its time to live with those choices and the consequences...period!!!

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Adhya

@Agni_Jytsona

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: eshasrk
I said this in an earlier post and I will say it again : Meghna should let go !!!!
I know she feels guilty and all, but Naina made a conscious choice by marrying Karan, although Meghna didn't want her to, so Meghna should leave Naina to make whatever she wants from her marriage...on the other hand Naina also should leave Meghna to make whatever she wants from her marriage.
Both sisters are highly educated, they are mature, they made choices regarding their life partners irrespective of the marriage was forced, or under pressure, or with conditions...they both made a clear choice, so now its time to live with those choices and the onsequences...period!!!

Exactly well said 👏

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manny136

@manny136

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Posted: 8 years ago

I think its not just the karan lie, her own guilt n the whole family being complicit in some way or another in this situation that have pushed meghna to react like this. Everyday there is something new to deal with and there is the constant attack on her mom, her sister(sandy n her plots) and now they have roped in her stupid chote mama.

If i were in her situation i would want an answer. Yeah naina is a grownup n its her own life but the moment she chose to marry karan for meghnals sake she linked her life to her sisters n that makes it meghnas business coz she n the family were in a big way lied to about karans condition.

Yeah nairan r in a better place now but what if that hadnt happened and there is no gaurantee karan will be cured, so they might never be able to have a normal healthy hubby wife relationship?

Meghna is coming off too strong but she just got all this info overloaded on her its not even been a day it will take time for her to think clearly and its not like naina has ever said she loves karan, i think that might be the only reason meghna might ease off coz saying how karan is such a good guy might sound nice for a friend but staying with him despite his condition is not that conducive.

Naina herself needs to get off her appeasement train, seriously all she does is understand n make excuses n lets sandy n nk off the hook. Its ok in small issues but its become a patern n they keep on abusing it coz they know naina will keep quite n evenforce meghna as well coz of shardas sanskar. There is a saying fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me. Ppl should never let themselves become the victim over and over again just cause they avoid conflict.

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Adhya

@Agni_Jytsona

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Posted: 8 years ago

Well actually naina believes in reformative justice she prefers changing the wrong doer through her goodness shouting and confrontation is not her thing

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sgc68

@sgc68

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Posted: 8 years ago

I agree. Meghna is reacting the way anyone of us would in the situation. First there was the financial burden of the wedding. Then there was the constant bickering about how the Chauhan family does things. Humiliation of the people she respected. And then the demand that Naina be married to Karan. She would have been okay if Karan was healthy. But finding that Karan had a 'communicable' skin allergy (I still think allergies cannot be transmitted) would have been the last straw that broke the camel's back.

She is not over-reacting. Yes her words would have hurt Karan - but she is reeling from the shock that her sister does not have a normal marriage. She is only thinking of her baby sister.

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Esha Singh

@eshasrk

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: adhyakumarijha
Well actually naina believes in reformative justice she prefers changing the wrong doer through her goodness shouting and confrontation is not her thing

I understand that Naina is soft spoken and all, but she should also understand one thing : not everyone can be reformed by doing good, some people never change no matter how much good you do to that person and Sandhya is one of this sort. Maybe NK can change , coz there have been a few instances where one can see him being genuine like when Karan went through the next round in the dance competition...NK was genuinely happy for him and lastly in the case of Kunal

The problem with NK is that he is always walking with his nose in the air and he thinks he can buy everything and everyone with money...Sandhya on the other hand is just pure evil !!!

And Naina should also understand and learn maybe that sometimes ppl should get punished for their deeds , coz there is a limit for everything in life...

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Adhya

@Agni_Jytsona

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Originally posted by: eshasrk

I understand that Naina is soft spoken and all, but she should also understand one thing : not everyone can be reformed by doing good, some people never change no matter how much good you do to that person and Sandhya is one of this sort. Maybe NK can change , coz there have been a few instances where one can see him being genuine like when Karan went through the next round in the dance competition...NK was genuinely happy for him and lastly in the case of Kunal
The problem with NK is that he is always walking with his nose in the air and he thinks he can buy everything and everyone with money...Sandhya on the other hand is just pure evil !!!
And Naina should also understand and learn maybe that sometimes ppl should get punished for their deeds , coz there is a limit for everything in life...

Agreed not everyone can be reformed and naina is shown a bit too soft spoken at times

They can apply reformative justice to nk but not sandy

But i m having a feeling that cvs is purposefully making it to be sandy vs naina and nk vs meghna

Not only will it help to do away the evil but will also help the sisters grow as person

Meghna is the rebel who believes in treating bad people the way they did and she tried to many tricks to teach nk a lesson but none worked and now finally she had taken the path of reformative justice and most probably it will work it will help meghna tone down a bit

And naina is the softer one but her kinded hearted nature had hardly helped her so now maybe while tacklung somebody as evil as sandy she herself will grow a bit and learn that we cannot cure everyone by love and for some people stern actions has to be taken

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