Another marriage on shaky ground?

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Seems makers are hell bent on making Boses look bad to justify Dixits. Asha and Bijoy were couple goals in Season 1, they fought and argued but there was no doubt they loved each other

Now they are making it look like Asha doesn't love Bijoy but compromised for the sake of their children, like how Elena is doing for Golu. Asha admitted as much to Sona and she was quiet when Bijoy asked if he was a bad husband or father.

I am appalled that makers are ruining all good relationships and things in the show to justify the bad behavior of Dixits. Very disappointing

Asha has been consistently hiding important things from Bijoy and telling others not to tell Bijoy anything . Why do I feel it will blow up eventually and cause permanent damage to her marriage. Bijoy maybe heartbroken and leave for Kolkata
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Posted: 8 years ago
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And he will be perfectly justified to do so. Can you imagine how Dev would have reacted if Sona had said to Soha to hide something from her dad?
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Sky, please don't take me wrong, but felt like saying something. There is no such thing as perfection. No person is perfect, nor every relationship is perfect. It is just a matter of what is important to you, the person or that person's flaws.
In season 1 they showed how people perceive things. It is true that Bose family was shown as family goals, but even at that time there were a lot of underlying issues there too. But these issues were not so important as the relationship they shared. It was like a part of them, something that made them work. But the flaws was also something that was subtle and did not harm anyone till now. But now that Asha sees how much harm that "facade of perfection" has caused, she is trying to fix that fault and being honest.

If Asha is hiding things it is because Bijoy is pushing her to do it by being impulsive. She has already seen the damage his impulsiveness has done with Sonakshi's life. She doesn't want it to affect Suhaana's life too. She believes that Suhaana deserves her fathers love. Asha has seen and known Dev in a different way than Bijoy. She also knows how much influence he has on Sonakshi and her thinking. It was not just Dev or Ishwari's actions which contributed to the breakup. It was also Bijojy and Sonakshi's actions that prompted the separation. Something shouldn't have happened, the consequences of which Suhaana is living.

What Asha is trying to do is "doing right by Suhaana", by giving her, her parents love and care that she knows Soha deserves. I don't see anything wrong with Asha is doing.

Just my POV. Not intended to hurt anyone or justify every action of Dev or Sonakshi. I am just trying to say that not every action of Sonakshi or Bijoy are justified and they are not correct all the time.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Really felt bad for Bijoy when Asha didnt answer his question abt good husband, good father in the hospital. He is doubting himself and sounds hurt, the least Asha could have done was to give him some reassurance.

Every marriage needs adjustments and hiding certain issues are also understandable. So I dnt think their marriage wud be affected. Bijoy also didnt tell Asha abt his meeting with Vicki or how he told Gunni to spy on Sona. But I want Asha to realise that hiding abt Ronita's mom intentions was not a right thing to do.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Asha hiding things from Bijoy is primarily because of his health , his high BP. Knowing that Soha is suffering from Chicken Pox he would want to go and visit them. And its agreed that no one from each others house will visit...which means breaking the rule ...and again during this tough time if Bijoy acts impulsively it will harm Suhana and Sonakshi ...

And again Asha not answering Bijoy is because she didnt see the need to do it at this stage of their life...and Bijoy is as human as every one...and as Asha rightly said as a husband only she can tell...she never said he was bad...but all she said was he had his imperfection...If he was that bad I dont think a person like Asha will stay in relationship...and that both has to sacrifice a lot to make their marriage successful...

As kids were young she didnt see the need to tell this to Sonakshi , and so Sonakshi assumed that everything was fine betwn her parents...unlike todays generation , earlier generation never fought in front of kids...so Sonakshi never saw that side of Bijoy...

And we were always shown the best side of Bose house in season 1...infact their scenes were more fillers...but in season 2 , we got to see more and also what happens when some one like Dev came to stay with them ...someone they dont like...


If Bijoy decides to go away leaving Asha because she hid something from him...then his and Ahsa's relationship is no different from Dev and Sonakshi's...

At the drop of a pin you dont run away from what is urs...and your spouse belongs to you ...is a part of you ...both Bijoy and Asha has flaws but they are not criminals that they need to leave the other . People can live with flaws but cant live with criminals...

In fact in this story among couples I pity Elina the most ...she has got married to a person like Vicky who has such a criminal mind!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I don't think their marriage is going to be shaky. But now definitely they are not couple goals. I won't talk about hiding stuff..but I am upset with the way asha answered her sick husband. That scene clearly indicated that asha was never in love with bejoy. She lead compromised life.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Pramila.harish

I don't think their marriage is going to be shaky. But now definitely they are not couple goals. I won't talk about hiding stuff..but I am upset with the way asha answered her sick husband. That scene clearly indicated that asha was never in love with bejoy. She lead compromised life.


Exactly..what she said to Bijoy on hospital bed means she has always compromised in the marriage for the sake of society and her children. Certainly not couple goals according to me

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