Either way Sona would have left Dev.

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Sona would have left Dev if she stayed infertile,inspite Dev's support

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Please note that my purpose is not to de-glorify Sonakshi. Rather it's an attempt to know more about the character of Sona.

Imagining Dev & Ishwari had changed and were very supportive of Sona. Evenif Sona couldn't conceive, they were very happy with her to the level that she was pampered by all Dixits & Mamaji (other Tripatis exempted).

How many believe that Sona would have accepted the truth and stayed with Dev, especially since she knew how Dev & Ishwari had yearned for a baby.

I don't believe that a woman is complete only if she gives birth. But, I have seen lots of woman who are affected a lot by this. Sona's dialogue in Episode 219 after she comes to know that she has less chances of getting pregnant also portrays the same feeling, where she says 'Mein kabhi fail nahin hui...I am incomplete...etc etc.' prompted me to make this poll. Also since she had always taken things at its face value instead of concentrating on how much Dev loved her, I have my apprehensions on how long Sona could focus on the love she was getting and move on. Instead, I feel the more she was loved she would have focused on she not being able to give a baby to them. Also she was not that much a religious person who believed in miracles. This is strictly my POV. So, I would request all to see it in that way and be courteous enough to agree or disagree...please don't resort to any type of bashing.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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If Dev and Ish would have supported her and loved her inspite of that, I don't think Sona would have left.
Even i thought that she might be in trauma and would have felt that she is not good enough for Dev and/or she can't give her loving family what they wanted but I don't think she would quit if her family would have loved her nonetheless. That just ain't Sona's character.. to stop fighting. She only left Dev when he failed to give her support during that period and (supposedly) gave many wounds to her family after he threw them out.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Anyhoo, Asha wouldn't have let her in that case.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Nice topic let me tell u devakshi are beautiful souls there love for each other was so pure now also they hold that somewhere in there hearts.
Dev is good in many ways knowing she can't conceive he married her that's big high we can't ignore that greatness in him .
But sona always been a principled in life truthfulness is big thing for her she felt bitrayed by dev because she didn't like the fact dev hid that from her and her mom ish .she felt his mom changed after knowing she is pregnant and Indian society is such they believe with kids couple complete each other ( nonsense).
Dev big hurdle was his mom instead of understanding sona problem she only did big hungama about hiding things and sona responsible of changing dev blah blah that temple drama to honeymoon drama she irritated dev the most the thing with dev is he couldn't handle his mom and he was so stuffed he couldn't console sona .
Sona was so heart broken and felt alone in this when such situations needed couple to be one team .
Even sona felt what if things don't work she had her fear will ish except her as daughter in law she expressed it to dev but he was so much over powered by ish he looked for instant solutions than permanent trying to make his mom understand it was not easy to him because ish can go to any extent the sleeping pills episode really shook dev the most till now he fears that's why dev and mamaji don't try to make her understand because she is stubborn and dangerous too.
Infertility in women is big thing in women's life turmoil which women go through its hell .they need husbands support more than parents if husbands assure them they feel eased out but sona never got that from dev not that dev ignored her it's that dev was stuffed .in honeymoon too ish only embarrassed sona by revealing to the staffs that she had a problem.
I think the relationship would have broke anyway thanks to ish .
Ish believes that with kids women is complete hope her believes go crashing when her own daughters face such situations till then she won't realize the pain which sona faced and want dev to taunt ish u too did the same so deal with it types .


If dev and ish supported sona why would she leave she would have been happy and devakshi would have adopted a kid if ish was free spirited lady
Edited by rockstar.sj - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ananya.

If Dev and Ish would have supported her and loved her inspite of that, I don't think Sona would have left.

Even i thought that she might be in trauma and would have felt that she is not good enough for Dev and/or she can't give her loving family what they wanted but I don't think she would quit if her family would have loved her nonetheless. That just ain't Sona's character.. to stop fighting. She only left Dev when he failed to give her support during that period and (supposedly) gave many wounds to her family after he threw them out.


Completely agree with this
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: rockstar.sj

Nice topic let me tell u devakshi are beautiful souls there love for each other was so pure now also they hold that somewhere in there hearts.
Dev is good in many ways knowing she can't conceive he married her that's big high we can't ignore that greatness in him .
But sona always been a principled in life truthfulness is big thing for her she felt bitrayed by dev because she didn't like the fact dev hid that from her and her mom ish .she felt his mom changed after knowing she is pregnant and Indian society is such they believe with kids couple complete each other ( nonsense).
Dev big hurdle was his mom instead of understanding sona problem she only did big hungama about hiding things and sona responsible of changing dev blah blah that temple drama to honeymoon drama she irritated dev the most the thing with dev is he couldn't handle his mom and he was so stuffed he couldn't console sona .
Sona was so heart broken and felt alone in this when such situations needed couple to be one team .
Even sona felt what if things don't work she had her fear will ish except her as daughter in law she expressed it to dev but he was so much over powered by ish he looked for instant solutions than permanent trying to make his mom understand it was not easy to him because ish can go to any extent the sleeping pills episode really shook dev the most till now he fears that's why dev and mamaji don't try to make her understand because she is stubborn and dangerous too.
Infertility in women is big thing in women's life turmoil which women go through its hell .they need husbands support more than parents if husbands assure them they feel eased out but sona never got that from dev not that dev ignored her it's that dev was stuffed .in honeymoon too ish only embarrassed sona by revealing to the staffs that she had a problem.
I think the relationship would have broke anyway thanks to ish .
Ish believes that with kids women is complete hope her believes go crashing when her own daughters face such situations till then she won't realize the pain which sona faced and want dev to taunt ish u too did the same so deal with it types .


If dev and ish supported sona why would she leave she would have been happy and devakshi would have adopted a kid if ish was free spirited lady


Bolded - Probably, this would have made her stay...😊
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Posted: 8 years ago
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i dont understand y child. if child is there it is happy situation. if child is not there, wat is the problem.
if childless couple decide to adopt it is again a happy situation. if they dont want to adopt then also they can stay happy.
I feel that having a child or not shud not bother any one in the world except the couple. their parents also shud not interfere.

coming to a woman like sonakshi, even mental people will beg her to be in home. she is ghar ki lakshmi.

in our indian puranas it is told that once lakshmi devi got angry with vishnubhagwan and left him and so on.

like that sonakshi also went due to devakshis bad phase of life.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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No. Sonakshi would not have left Dev, If he had supported her. The only reason why Sonakshi left Dev because she felt that he didn't support her, and betrayed her trust
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Posted: 8 years ago
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She would not have left. She only left as she felt let down by Dev when he asked her to Get Out...twice..anyone else saying it did not matter to her. Only Dev mattered. So, basically he ruined it for her. After the first break up, she was convinced by him/Ish that he wont leave her again on the whims of her mother. That actually happened and prenup was the nail in the coffin.
Infertility was never the reason for her quitting. She was frustrated though. But she would fight with Dev , not leave him for this.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: gaurimisha

She would not have left. She only left as she felt let down by Dev when he asked her to Get Out...twice..anyone else saying it did not matter to her. Only Dev mattered. So, basically he ruined it for her. After the first break up, she was convinced by him/Ish that he wont leave her again on the whims of her mother. That actually happened and prenup was the nail in the coffin.

Infertility was never the reason for her quitting. She was frustrated though. But she would fight with Dev , not leave him for this.


true if dev was her support system and ish being a women knew how sona was feeling sona would never had left dev ..being infertile is no less a suicide in women life (experienced myself supported by hubby still alive)mother -in-laws dont support this in anyway they only pressurize being a women they won't realize same did ish .
i want to see if one of her daughters face this then she will sure get how it feels as a women ..
adoption was best choice if dev would have made ish understand but i won't blame him ish is not easy to be convinced infact she is dangerous the over dose of pills has shaken dev no wonder he never put senses in that psycho brain ...

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