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The character who I used to hate the most I sympathize with him now the most. For the reason that he is paying very hugely for his greediness. We all know that he never was a completely good person. In his way of greed he really saw nothing. The mother and brother who gave him so much love, he called their house as "middle class 1 bedroom flat" and ignoring his favourite jeep to drive the expensive car. He thought larki hai paisa hai package hai le leta ho. He did love Maya but with conditions. Little did he knew what huge price he had to pay for this money. To the world he is the abusive husband but in reality he is getting abused.
There are two types of people in the world. Firstly, the people who torture you out of hate and the people who torture you out of love. Maya is the second type. I remember that there was a serial Dil se di dua where there was Karanvir Bohra who loved his wife alot and out of obsessive love he used to torture his wife Jhanvi. I remember people hating him for that torture and feeling pity for Jhanvi however no one feels pity for Arjun in this case. Yes he brought himself into this trap but for this mistake he doesnt deserved to be abused to such an extent.
Just because Arjun is a man doesnt make his suffering or abuse less or insignificant. We keep on talking about Maya Saanjh etc etc but never about poor Arjun.
The scene in which I saw him the most helpless human was when Maya ordered Arjun to open his shirt to do a massage and he refused. She then brought scissor indicating him that shell cut his clothes. Please don't tell me this isn't physical or sexual assault because this is. And due to that Arjun helplessly let Maya open his shirt. She nicely sat on his back and did the massage. Seriously go watch the expression he had when she is over him, he felt so helpless and abused. And no just because they are husband and wife so she can do anything she wants. Husband or stranger, doing anything without that person's consent is called assault and abuse.
Another time was when he tried to get the paratha she said they are too oily, anything else thats too sweet and then gave him omlette and bread and confidently saying our choices are so same. Like seriously he cant breathe on his own he cant eat on his own. Poor thing
Another time was when he was abducted and tied. Seriously tieing is normal? Imagine you are a girl and you are meeting with your maika or family and your husband comes with an ambulance and traps you abducts you injects you and the time your eyes open you are tied on the bed. Wouldn't that be an assault or abuse? It clearly is!
These 3 times I really felt bad for the abuse he went through. Just because he is a man, a male doesn't make his suffering insignificant and his abuse as normal. He is abused mentally and physically.
My post has nothing to do with Ayan's actions. Ayan is so much wrong in his actions too. But just because Ayan does something doesn't make Maya s actions justifiable or right. Theres a difference between assault and attempt to rape. Its anyway nothing to do with my topic.
Maya is a very strong character but is been shown in a very bad light in Season 2. Loved her in season 1 but season 2 it's hard to justify her.
Please no hate comments, I'm no shipper of any character. I just see and say what is right
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