What a sad state of world we are living in ! Looks like an eye for an eye is the art of living nowadays. I never felt bad for any Dev, Sona, Soha bashing as I felt today for Asha bashing and compelled to make this post. Well as always I find some silverlining in each episode and today's too had some for me. And thats mostly because for Asha's presence of mind and perseverance to maintain family peace during her Son's wedding! But am aghast seeing the forum blaming her for doing that.
Asha is and always have been my most favorite character now Golu joining that list. This show has always maintained that there is no hero/ heroine here to look upto but are only humans with real flaws who are taken as leads and the story revolves around them. In fact I never found fault with any of the characters here because everyone acts per their own circumstances and not having a straight out dark vamp is the beauty of KRPKAB! Every human being is possessed with devil and angelic side which comes out as per situations to regret later and am glad each and every character possess both.
If my son misbehaves with another for his past hurt even if its not his fault , as a mother its my duty to stop him before he causes any more harm to the other party. Just because the other side acts barbaric, I can't allow my son to act in the same way when the other party is defenseless. All is NOT fair in war in my book of upbringing and thats what Asha did today!
Asha doesn't need validation from other family members neither she wants to be kept in the pedestal by her kids like Ishwari demands but she is a sane, calm, composed person who knows to respect people even in their worst. A quality very few possess in real world but a quality which is badly needed for the calmer world !
If the ever hyper Bijoy calms before her, if the ever stubborn Sona melts before her, if the ever arrogant Dev listens to her, if there is always a surreal peace in Bose house unlike IN, thats not because of her manipulative or disloyal nature but because of her presence of mind to distinguish between right and wrong as per situations. To make a better world, wise people say it should start with a better house and a house can be made better only with classy woman like Asha and if we can blame such women there is something definitely fundamentally wrong with our thinking !!
Everyone is entitled to their opinions and so is mine !! Off late am seeing lot of sadistic digs and mocking in every posts in main forum but my posts are always privileged to be spared from these, hopefully the streak continues because I have had a bad start of the day😈.
Edited by deepsel - 8 years ago