Asha to be blamed?! (collective response in pg 4..thks!)

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Posted: 8 years ago
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What a sad state of world we are living in ! Looks like an eye for an eye is the art of living nowadays. I never felt bad for any Dev, Sona, Soha bashing as I felt today for Asha bashing and compelled to make this post. Well as always I find some silverlining in each episode and today's too had some for me. And thats mostly because for Asha's presence of mind and perseverance to maintain family peace during her Son's wedding! But am aghast seeing the forum blaming her for doing that.

Asha is and always have been my most favorite character now Golu joining that list. This show has always maintained that there is no hero/ heroine here to look upto but are only humans with real flaws who are taken as leads and the story revolves around them. In fact I never found fault with any of the characters here because everyone acts per their own circumstances and not having a straight out dark vamp is the beauty of KRPKAB! Every human being is possessed with devil and angelic side which comes out as per situations to regret later and am glad each and every character possess both.

If my son misbehaves with another for his past hurt even if its not his fault , as a mother its my duty to stop him before he causes any more harm to the other party. Just because the other side acts barbaric, I can't allow my son to act in the same way when the other party is defenseless. All is NOT fair in war in my book of upbringing and thats what Asha did today!

Asha doesn't need validation from other family members neither she wants to be kept in the pedestal by her kids like Ishwari demands but she is a sane, calm, composed person who knows to respect people even in their worst. A quality very few possess in real world but a quality which is badly needed for the calmer world !

If the ever hyper Bijoy calms before her, if the ever stubborn Sona melts before her, if the ever arrogant Dev listens to her, if there is always a surreal peace in Bose house unlike IN, thats not because of her manipulative or disloyal nature but because of her presence of mind to distinguish between right and wrong as per situations. To make a better world, wise people say it should start with a better house and a house can be made better only with classy woman like Asha and if we can blame such women there is something definitely fundamentally wrong with our thinking !!

Everyone is entitled to their opinions and so is mine !! Off late am seeing lot of sadistic digs and mocking in every posts in main forum but my posts are always privileged to be spared from these, hopefully the streak continues because I have had a bad start of the day😈.
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sona_naksh thumbnail
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Posted: 8 years ago
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deepa 🤗
was going to call it a night and den just before going saw ur post and it made me so happy ...
when i see people bashing asha i dunno what to feel ...
For me everyone has his share of ups and downs in d show and for dat dey can be bashed to some extent but not hated with such intensity ...and tagging asha as disloyal to bose house is something i just cant understand

Although i myself cant stand ishwari ..i dont want to feel anything good for her not even sympathy or empathy ..but den also i cant bash her like asha is bashed ...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Deepa I never log in from phone to respond on any topic, but I was compelled to reply here. You have made an amazing post and raised a very valid question. Asha has always been a very sorted and strong character from the start and she is still being the same.
The way she is handling the situation is commendable and I doubt anyone else would have done it on the same way.
As far as Asha's bashing is concerned, well anyone who will try to understand Dev or support him will be bashed. Period
N anyone who will show Bijoy as flawed human and not best husband n father will be bashed.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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N a big hug to u. Dnt ruin ur day. Be happy dev babu made a special dish for his beti.
Btw I can see my changed DP when I logged in from PH :-o
Atleast I got a reason to be happy.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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The best post I've read so far👏

Asha did what no one who claims to love Dev and Sonakshi did. Wish, she gave this advice 7 years ago, but I forget, they were under ishwari's command who created and nurtured the mess between Devakshi! She told her daughter to calm down and not let Dev drag her down to his level. badtameezi ka jawab badtameezi nahi hai⭐️ and she is giving Dev opportunities to focus on his daughter by helping him with what he wants to do. unlike Ishwari who created an unpleasent situation when Sona tried to cook for Dev, her way. Asha is, in a way, telling Dev to focus on Soha instead of poking nose in Bose househould😉

but not much changed from her advice though... Dev is again in fighting mode, as per precap😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Deepa ...Asha and Golu are my favorite characters.
Asha ke against posts yaa comments main read bhi nahi kar sakti.
Edited by coolmeet - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hey deeps...are you shocked? I dont read majority of the posts so Im unaware of whats going on...prima facie based on your post and presuming what is written in other posts, I can say people like crass and not class...bashing someone is considered as the easiest way to garner attention...what people expect from Dev is to beat Ishwari and ask her to apologise to the entire bose family if possible prostrate before each one them...then she should be send to an old age home...finally Dev should stay either with Sona alone or with bose family forever...then Dev will be the ideal character...if you think about starting any business in India the lucrative business model is construction of retirement homes...the statistics say a record rise in the occupancy rates😕...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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My only two complaints about Asha...

1. Since now Dev is living in her house, she should make sure he understands to maintain certain code of conduct and not get into fights ... She wont allow it in her house. Just like she stops Bijoy, sona and others as they are her family. She can do the same thing as it is her house.

2. pretty much everyone in the bose house now knows that Dev is not thief and knows who did the actual chori.. it is about time.. she tells this to bijoy and handles him with out breaking the alliance ... i am sure she can do it.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Today, Asha scolded and treated Sona and Dev equally as they both failed to act as good parents whose duty is to give a peaceful nest to their child. Their own frustration is destroying the happy environment of Bose house which Soha has seen from her childhood. So, Asha made them realize that, not to behave like failed couple but to rise like good parents and actually she strike the right cord by telling them that they are under one roof because of Soha and to focus on that. She is just awesome.
Nice post.👏

** One thing is true that Dev actually likes the vibration of Bose family and he enjoys his and Bijoy's nokjhok a lot. 😉 He became restless when Asha told everyone to keep shut.😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Fantastic post deeps! Yes asha is an amazing woman. She rules her house with an iron fist couched in velvet gloves!
Loved her advice to Sona today. Sona uses her advice quite effectively with ish but seems to loose it when it comes to Dev.

Whatever advice she gave today was for sohas sake. The whole atmosphere in the boses was so different from yesterday all thanks to her. Hopefully Dev appreciates & remebers her advice in IN.

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