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Nadia

@survika1111

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Posted: 8 years ago

I have Started watching this show for a Love Story ..but Soon i realized It was more about family than love story..But i enjoyed that too..

Now nothing has Been changed..it' still about the family..But before leap it was mpre about dixit family now it's equally about Bose & Dixit Families ..!!!

Dev after Leap we Have been seen so many episodes amd scenes where it was clear that He is totally out of his mother's trap and the life of a mamma's boy..He may Not Mistreated Her but he doesn't even well treat Her as well...He knows his mother is wrong..he every time After Leap Conversation has Shown That irritation and anger of her mother's wrong deeds towards her..BUT!!BUT!! He never Let anyone else to insult or disrespect her mom.No matter who the person is..Yes he knows She is Wrong..But He doesn't let anyone else To Call Her wrong..Not bcz he Appreciate or deny her Mistakes..But bcz he Doesn't Allow or tolerate or Has given the right to Insult his family..He will say whatever he wants but he will not let any other To say a single word against His fam..Tht's His thinking.

Sonakshi is the same copy of Dev now when it;s about her family.She knows his father is wrong..his father is accusing Dev Wrongly..she knows he is mistreated Dev ..She Can stop her ..shut her but she will also Not let any other else To Insult her family..Not bcz she thinks her family is always right..but bcz she thinks only she Has the right t Correct or question Her family.

The problem b/w devakshi is More caused by bijoy and ishwari then these two..at the end these two are at fault..their families never accepted them whole-heartedly.Bijoy never accepted Dev as A Son in Law neither ishwari accepted sonkashi as a DIL.At The end Dev and sonakshi has given More importance to their family and Got separated.But now again when it's another chance for them to Clear all the misunderstandings their families coming b/w them..still that family values are not getting out of the way from their Road to love.No doubt these two love each other like hell..They both know they are at fault.,,they both know whatever happened they are equally responsible for that..May they are not accepting that in front if each other..but they had accepted it already in front of others whom they are close to..The Wall which is Stopping them To Open up with their feelings Is Their EGO-and the EGO Is not bcz f hatred That they r holding in their heart but for the respect and sense of responsibility they have for their families..

I don't know what sohana will adopt from this extremely Good Daughter and Son Duo Parents..will she also give More importance to her parents and will sacrifice her Love..!! ?..we will not have the Season To see that may be..but i think she will adopt that..and then only devakshi wil realize where they were wrong..cause as Parents they r far better than ishwari and bijoy.They can at least see the pain in their daughter's eye..So only then they may may realize yes family definitely matters but along with that Love is also matters..Balancing b/w ur love and family is the most difficult ballance and equation..Hardly In reality a Few people can Manage that..And they are the luckiest one..!!

but Devakshi couldn't manage That..They r still can't..but they need To..not only for soha..but for themselves..because they by themselves has confessed how difficultly they have passed their life without each other ..They No matter have what kind of support from family at the end only they both can keep them happy only..

supporting ur family..Nit tolerate any Insult about them and standing for them is highly appriciated and devakshi need To takE a bow for that..but But..What they need is to stand for Themselves .not for the other one actually..when Dev and sonakshi will learn to stand for their happiness only then Their life will be perfect..Cause all they do is sacrifice own happiness for family..

So neither Sona Is Doormat who Can't support Dev or talk against her family,Nor Dev is a Spineless who can't stand for sonakshi and Give back answer to his family..

they both are the weakest souls and the most sacrificed Children about Their Family.It's Not their Ego and haterd what separated them it's their Respect And responsibilty towads their family which has brought them in this phase of life.

All i can say FAMILY Really Matters..this show Is a perfect Evidence of that.

Edited by survika1111 - 8 years ago

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Posted: 8 years ago

Yes family matters so dev shouldn't come to boss house n start insulting them. The hand raising action few days back if sona had done that Dev would've never tolerated that... So we clap by both hands. It is hypocrisy of dev that he can't hear a thing against ish but got d guts to insult bijoy n sona..

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cscs

@cscs

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Posted: 8 years ago

Nice post Survika.

I feel they have given so much power to their families and i solely blame them for their position. They both were ankhon k taarey and bread winners of their families which put them under lot of pressure and they couldn't sustain it.

As off now both have blind spot on their own mistakes as well as their families.

Dev knows his mother is wrong and a reason for his breakup; yes he do, but will he accept in front of Sonakshi. A big No. Just like he didn't let Ishwari or Taara aunty bad mouth about Sonakshi in the same way he will not let sonakshi taunt his mother. He still needs to to look into his own faults now.

As far as Sonakshi is concerned, she doesn't think her baba is responsible for the breakup. According to her she and her family is flawless and its all Dev's and Dixits faults. And this is the reason she can hear anything about Dev but not in front of her daughter. Just like she also needs to understand her own faults as well as her families.

As off now they are in I am the best and have the best family mode and until they will accept that it is not the truth, they can never sort their differences. Neither they are perfect, nor their families.

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Posted: 8 years ago

Superb Post Survi.👏.

Totally Agree with U.

Your posts really leave me speechless.

You make posts so light heartened even though it holds a serious matters.

So Finally I got a second positive post on the forum.

Thanks for this post dear 🤗

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Nadia

@survika1111

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: deepakloveskat
Yes family matters so dev shouldn't come to boss house n start insulting them. The hand raising action few days back if sona had done that Dev would've never tolerated that... So we clap by both hands. It is hypocrisy of dev that he can't hear a thing against ish but got d guts to insult bijoy n sona..

Yes we clap by both hands. He is not in bose house to insult bijoy only. It's bijoy's antics which instigate him more to insul. And he would definitely not tolerate that if sona does so. No son or daughter would tolerate an intentional slap on theur father or mother's face.and if it's hypocrisy not to hear anything against his mom then we all have that hypocrisy ay least i have and sonakshi had that too.. And again insult is not happening by one side only.. It is from. Both sides.so both hands are hitting each other and that's making a clap..

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Joy

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Posted: 8 years ago

Agree agree agree...

Even I was telling the same... its not that Dev is completely wrong n Sona is completely right.. they both have flws. Its just that they rnt able to understand each other inspite of being in the same boat.

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Nadia

@survika1111

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: cscs
Nice post Survika.
I feel they have given so much power to their families and i solely blame them for their position. They both were ankhon k taarey and bread winners of their families which put them under lot of pressure and they couldn't sustain it.
As off now both have blind spot on their own mistakes as well as their families.
Dev knows his mother is wrong and a reason for his breakup; yes he do, but will he accept in front of Sonakshi. A big No. Just like he didn't let Ishwari or Taara aunty bad mouth about Sonakshi in the same way he will not let sonakshi taunt his mother. He still needs to to look into his own faults now.
As far as Sonakshi is concerned, she doesn't think her baba is responsible for the breakup. According to her she and her family is flawless and its all Dev's and Dixits faults. And this is the reason she can hear anything about Dev but not in front of her daughter. Just like she also needs to understand her own faults as well as her families.
As off now they are in I am the best and have the best family mode and until they will accept that it is not the truth, they can never sort their differences. Neither they are perfect, nor their families.

Thanks.. Yes i Totally agree with u.. This nest family mode is totally ruining their lives.. Untill. Unless this illusion is clear they will not be able to see the actual truth

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Nadia

@survika1111

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: .kashishbano.
Superb Post Survi.👏.

Totally Agree with U.

Your posts really leave me speechless.

You make posts so light heartened even though it holds a serious matters.

So Finally I got a second positive post on the forum.

Thanks for this post dear 🤗

Thanks adii.. My pleasure.. That's sooo sweet of u😳

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Posted: 8 years ago

Well his mother cane to boss house uninvited... It is not some dharmshaala where she will be served with lot of respect when she no more shares any relationship with boss family. So dev should control her mother to not to come anywhere uninvited mm it is not ishwari niwas u know. Yes no child should tolerate that n yes it is his hypocrisy when he raised his hand.. Sona saying things for ish is nthng compared to what dev have done. Period!!! He himself is uninvited n so be sharm that his whole family comea muu uthake 🤪

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cscs

@cscs

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Originally posted by: .kashishbano.
Superb Post Survi.👏.

Totally Agree with U.

Your posts really leave me speechless.

You make posts so light heartened even though it holds a serious matters.

So Finally I got a second positive post on the forum.

Thanks for this post dear 🤗

Which is the first one? I badly want to read some good and positive posts :/

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