Originally posted by: Lacustris
Its getting very clear with each passing day that This story is all about kids and parents and who is having bonds with whom and the true bonds of husband and wife irrespective of cheating and broken marriage. Ishita is a convenience for Raman and nothing more.. there is a difference in his approach with both Ishita and shagun and everyday that's what is getting highlighted.
Raji...true...@ bold...we've been seeing it so far...lets c what else is in store
Raman liked kids and his willingness to compromise with Shagun when she was walking out on him was an evidence to that. But what drove that point home for him was Ishita telling him to respect Shagun for she is his kids' mother.. that sealed the fate for Ishita as she never gave him kids. Hence after Ruhi fiasco he was able to throw Ishita out of Pihu's life ruthlessly and denied her right after she came back citing Shagun is her asli ma.. till now Ishita and her feelings took back seat when Shagun came into the picture.
Again very clear and precise...yes Raman loves kids..it's the fact..he's ready to do anything fir them..which is true and ishita asking him to respect shagun as she's the mother of his kids...I remember this scene at a friends place in yhm 1.0... prior to the road side paratas scene...and the lines...I can never be a father again, even if I wanted to...I can't never forget the happiness you gave me and we shared..yup. @ purple...very true and her feelings is never brought up...even if it is..its brushed aside ...including the latest ...vandhu ...lets c...what he's hiding...
If one compares (which was asked me by many members when I co mment on Raman's behavior many times) Ishita tyeing Raman's hands to apologize Romi which he didn't and her chasing him with a broom.- very distasteful to say the least and his Gulabo avatar for Ishita which I would've believed if his restaurant booking and gajra and cake sending happened before she voiced them out, but again irrespective of her telling why she walked out he didn't get it and now compare these to his deceiving to get signature and going for surrogacy, blaming her for Ruhi's fiasco completely and throwing her out of Adi and Pihu's life and after she came back denying the access to Pihu ; I'm sure the gravity is not so simple to ignore. Even now when ishita is grieving for her sister's death and having faith in him and trusting him against the hatred of the family and on top of that trying to prove him innocent.. what did he do? He left her without giving any assurance..
@ blue...that's the problem..only after ishu voiced it she hit everything...till then he was oblivious. But whatever he did is worse and unacceptable...he asked her not to question or ask anything...when she desperately needed his support and shoulder to cry on...
it's a fact Shagun got hurt and it's also a fact Raman was there and it's also a fact Mani doesn't know about Shagun condition and it's also a fact that Raman is out of Delhi on a special permission when shit hit the fan at his home and it's also a fact that Shagun is also out of Delhi.. so someone should take her there... Too much coincidence to consider.. if it's done humanity basis which I'm sure it must be then why hide it from ishita and why all self talk of her confrontation and him wanting to run away.. if the devastating truth is about mani hiding nidhi Ishita might have already figured it out and excused Mani as well seeing how MAJBOOR one gets seeing their loved ones.. but what's the MAJBOOR for Raman taking the blame for the crime he didn't commit.
Raji..bang on facts...he may have taken her for humanity reasons helping a fellow human being...but why hide!...that's the biggest question...it's clear he knows about shaguns miscarriage...
Raji it's something else too...,and too much coincidence ,.it appears that way...if it is indeed ..its disgusting ...the majboor will be out soon...today amma too to,d to ishu...never break/ question the trust you have on Raman...mmm..its gonna break. Ishu will feel sad for shagun...she knows the feeling...but that's not enough to confront her...lets c
Once Raman told Toshiji when Shagun had complications during pregnancy with Ruhi where he wanted to terminate the pregnancy that he can have babies but not the mother.. yes it's true.. then why when Ruhi fiasco happened that saving mother also didn't occur to him? Because he never believed 100% that Ishita is mother of his kids? Not even for pihu? So only giving birth makes one a mother then what he did to Ishita is utterly cruel.. then in all these who were given importance by Raman? It's definitely Shagun..
Brilliant question...no answer..or was it very clear ?
And him saying about ruhi that she is bilkul maa pe gayi, he would've been so happy to see how Ruhi is a reflection Of Shagun yesterday and not ishita.. as she didn't or couldn't even given the proper upbringing to Ruhi.. as Ruhi is genetically a representation of Shagun and by a small contribution of doing incomplete pheres with Raman Nidhi provided or contributed to another big part of Ruhi's upbringing as his "half biwi" and irrespective of being married to Raman twice Ishita couldn't carry any weight in Raman's life other than a troubleshooter...
This raji..ruhi ...we are seeing more of shagun and raman..there is no trace of ishita...
So is there anything left in Ishita and Raman? Yes, him sharing that devastating truth.. and today's his small hug and a very abrupt "we need to talk" truly lack all emotions i was expecting to see..
True raji..it was abrupt ..we need to talk and no emotions...I felt the same way...
But all in all not sure why even their marriage is existing...
Sorry for the long rant Viji... nice review done by you despite being ill. Please take care..
Viji this not a review from me but just trying to connect the dots to understand what CVS are trying to portray and what's this story is all about now.. as the initial story line is conveniently changed to fit Shagun in not only Mani's life as his wife but give her the equal importance to her over Ishita in Raman's life as his "once wife" and his kids mother.. but that leaves Ishita where? Until he throws her out in his wife as the nanny for his kids... Because this is no way to depict husband and wife nor as parents..I have no idea what exists between them...they were not explored much as a couple..instead always projected as problem solvers with no concentration as couples ...shagun always takes precedence and importance...ishita to me is no one...and nowhere...I loved your rant...please don't feel sorry...you are most welcome to voice out your pov just like anybody else.
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