For the love of Beyhadh : Please peep in

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Kaushitaki

@Penkie06

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 8 years ago

This forum lacks moderation and so there has been some problems pinching in.

I myself had made a post yesterday stating if we should leave forum, but reading posts and comments and counter comments, I believe it's not even needed to quit home just cuz our neighbours aren't great.

So I am making a post for everyone to kindly judge themselves as well as situations around and behave accordingly.

* The show isn't about one character. It's mainly about three. But of course we can have personal alignment to certain characters. So the one before cannot be blamed of loving someone else. Therefore, please stop making personal comments, comments that hamper dignity of a real person for the sake of a reel person. Real person even refers to the actors playing the roles as well as a fellow member.

* Please don't use words that make the issue sensitive. There are million more ways of expressing your dislike towards someone than always inclining to sexual vulgarity. Actually it's the society that uses "f*ck" for every single action, that leads to such sick mentality of people. Everything doesn't need to run below the belt, does it?

* Avoid bashing characters or situations in a pro-character post. You know you won't agree to points stated in the post seeing the caption itself. Don't engage in unnecessary arguments.

* Even after all these if you feel something out off the line is being stated, silently press the Report button than create a chaos.

* I would request people who left the forum to please return. Because leaving a ground only for the sake of not being able to tolerate surroundings is not worth it. Every character holds a bunch in its support in this forum. So why bother with the other bunch? Why even leave cuz of them?

* If you feel a character is unnecessarily justified, well and good, let those who can justify, do so. Lawyers in courts often resort to tactics to justify and if they can do so, , it's considered their sheer great ability. This is not a court of law that you need to jump in and introspect. Just appreciate the ability of speaking bullshit even if you feel so, but do not bash. Speak to like minded people and stay at peace. Do so in the forum itself. Because walking out might blame you that you have found some other place to talk crap, cuz you can't do so in the forum to maintain your image.

This applies to all the parties supporting every different individual in the show.

Thanks for reading.

The forum will grow good if you can interpret too.

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shruthiravi

@shruthiravi

Stunner

+ 2

Posted: 8 years ago

@penfolk the problem is happening because of Beyhadh attachment. If you love Maya it is beyhadh. If you love Saanjh it is also Beyhadh. When people want Maya to be black or Saanjh to be white or vica versa the war happens.

From a story point of view I find all characters grey. They all have selfishness one way or the other. Each character is beyadh in their obsession and will go any extend breaking any limits or rule to achieve that obsession.

Whether it is Jhanvi who is mad and beyhadh in Ashwin's love

Ashwin who wants the destruction of Maya

Vandana who wants to prove Maya a witch

Maya herself who is obsessed in controlling Jhanvi and Arjun

Arjun who loves Luxury

Saanjh who is obsessed about Arjun's friedship/love whatever you call it

Prem and Suman who has given Beyhadh freedom to their daughter to make the choices

Ayan who has beyadh attachment to his mother

Of which only Ayan, Prem and Suman for me are making mistakes without understanding what their actions will lead to. Rest all very well know what they are doing and how it is affecting others. They just dont want to acknowledge it.

If people can accept the selfishness across characters it will be easier to discuss.

Surrounding need not decide what kind of POV you put. If you are convinced of your POV and can put it in a neat language you should put it. Never matter which character it supports. If someone bash your POV, you have the option to tell the person, put the POV clearly not bash or if it continues choose to ignore the comment and move on. A basher is encouraged when you try to justify your POV and put down their POV. A basher needs your reaction. Why are you giving it. Realize the only people whom we can control is ourselves.

Edited by shruthiravi - 8 years ago

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@bugsbunny12

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 8 years ago

Peace is much needed in this forum 😆

forum is meant to be for discussion...discussion has 2 sides...both sides need not be the same...but whats better than a healthy debate? 😃

we, as a forum, need to accept each other's opinions without personally getting offended or attacking them...bcz thats life...we very seldom meet people who share the same idea as ours...thats not wrong, everyone is unique...each one has their own mindset, their own mentality depending on their own age, lifestyle, gender or backgrounds...who are we to judge or define what is correct and what is not 😉

luckily this forum provides us with a space to interact...lets make the most of it instead of fighting...

Im not saying dont bash a fictional character...bash them...but only upto a limit...bcz "kuch bhi had se zyada accha nahi hota...bashing bhi nahi" 😎

by bashing i dont encourage foul language or abuses...just expressing ur frustration in a decent language...😛

wow i wrote for quite long...thanxx for reading 😆

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thelostgirl

@thelostgirl

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

much needed post..!!

Thnak u Penfolk

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Jane

@janecastle

Sparkler

+ 7

Posted: 8 years ago

Nice post.

I agree with shruthiravi, here people seems to have problem in accepting a person as grey. All want their favorite to be white and other to be black.

Instead if we just consider the characters as grey, most of the problem will be solved.

One thing that needs to stop is bashing of members and name calling. I don't understand what's the need to bash real members for reel characters.

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shruthiravi

@shruthiravi

Stunner

+ 2

Posted: 8 years ago

@jane even bashing reel characters is also not right. You can criticize, but bashing, what if the actor/actress playing the character happen to read that comment.

Look from their perspective yes it is a character but then Jennifer/Aneri decided to do it. So when you bash the character so much it kind of affects the actors choice of character too, especially where low level words.

I have not seen Ravan in Siya Ke Ram or Dussasshan or Shakuni of Mahabharath bashed to the level people are bashing Maya or Saanjh.

The only other time I have seen this much bashing in IF is in Ek Hasina Thi forum for Dev Goenka. He was bashed non stop till the second half. Most of the issues will go away once the second half starts and truth emerges. You just need to wait till that point. CVs also are going very slow. In a thriller you cant have many unanswered questions. They should open up atleast some of the things so that better clarity emerges.

We all are educated and can discuss in a much mature way.

Edited by shruthiravi - 8 years ago