Different Gender Different Expectation

When boy left girl for his mother...girl had noether insulted his mother nor slapped

Originally posted by: ..natasha..

When boy left girl for his mother...girl had noether insulted his mother nor slapped

When girl walked out of relation he father was slapped and insulted by the person whom she was in relation with

Was expecting boy to shut jis mother when she was controlling his life to the extent his sex life

Was expecting daughter to respect father who lost his jouse who got slapped because of his daughters blind love

Hope the difference is clear

in that slap wala argument, dev first requested bijoy time n again to keep quiet. but bijoy like always wanted to prove himself right and bijoy also thinks that he is the one among few honest men in the world.

Originally posted by: krish8090

in that slap wala argument, dev first requested bijoy time n again to keep quiet. but bijoy like always wanted to prove himself right and bijoy also thinks that he is the one among few honest men in the world.

wen dev was trying hard to convince ishwari abt the issue bijoy never kept quiet by getting himself continuously annoyed.

so dev had to impulsively slap him.

and then the fight started for entirely different khaand that is slap.

though dev did it unwantedly, it is a grave mistake on his part.

and at times i feel bijoy also deserved it.

Its simple boy or girl doesn't matter...both have to support your parents ...but once married you will need to let your parents know that your spouse is imp to you ...and many of your decision will first consider your spouse opinion...reason you are starting your own family...and hence his or her opinion matters because the two of you are one unit.

So if Dev supports his mom with out considering Sonakshi in his life and he is called spineless ...and if the same is done by Sonakshi by supporting her dad with out considering Dev then she is also spineless..

Just like Bijoy , Ishwari also has taken care of Dev and brought him up...just that their approach to parenting is different.

Here when Sonakshi stopped her father for belittling Dev she was rt ...in fact she got the guts to do that because that's the way she was brought by her parents...she was given the rt to voice her opinion and decisions when it comes to her and her daughters life...so cant understand why ppl have a problem with that now when she supports Dev

Its very easy to say she is shameless...I would in fact think she is brave and much balanced person than many women can even think of...imagine she falls in love with this man...her prince charming ...got hurt from him after marriage was kicked out of her husbands house...comes to know that she is carrying their child...and at that point no money ...no house but what she had is that lil life growing in her...she fought her life out ...to survive for her , her child and her parents...the wealth that they have is her effort not her parents...SHE IS THE PROVIDER OF THE FAMILY...Now comes Jatin..he has invested in her business...HE BENIFITS MONITERILY FROM HER BUSINESS...so its friendship and materialistic benefit...

She never denied supporting her parents...all that she lost she got it back for them...she walked away from the man she loves for her dad 's pride ...now she is a mother...a role of a mother has more responsibility than that of a daughter...now if Sonakshi wants her daughter to have Dev in her daughters life what is wrong in it...??

Her parents with money will survive with out her...but what about SOHA?? Why should she deprive that lil girl of her father ...what rt Sonakshi or any one has to deprive a child of getting affection from a loving father like Dev...its a sin if Sonakshi does it...

As far as Bijoy is concerned now more than concern for Sonakshi ...its shear ego that is making him hate Dev...just like Ishwari...both these oldies started with insecurities and protectiveness towards their kids...but now its pure ego play...

I just hope CVs show Dev and Sonakshi as wonderful parents standing together for Soha's happiness..no matter who is against them!!

Originally posted by: survika1111

I AM Seriously Confused How a Child Should Be with His/Her parents..!! What would give His/Her The title Of being a Good Son /Daughter Or a good Human being..

I am more Confused About Is There any Separate rule For Respecting parents based on Ur gender??

Like If ur a Son u had to this..If Ur a Daughter if U have to do that..!!!

I have seen a life And surrounding where Girl or boy no matter has the similar right and duties to Respecting and Taking care Of parents..But Now a days people are making me really confuse..

According to Some If a Son doesn't Have the Guts To Shut His mother Or answer Her back is A Spineless..

According To some If A Daughter Shut Her Father she Became shameless..

If a Daughter Became Shameless By Keeping quit her father Then How can u shamelessly expect from a Son To shut her Mother...

In One hand Some Mocked a Son as Maa da laadla when he was following her Orders and Demands..

On The other hand a daughter got the honor To be called The best daughter until unless she was Following her Father;s orders And demands..

Now we are seeing people are Satisfied When a Son gave Back answer to her mother or Go against her

But when a Daughter answer back to her father or go against her she became the Most Unsatisfactory One..

When a Son Broke his Love relation for his mother he became the Worst human being on earth

But when a Girl Left her Relationship For her family She became The Best person on earth

When a son Did sth For his family that's his weakness

When a Daughter does sth For her family it's her Strength..

When a Son go against his family that's Called "BRAVO"!!!

But when a girl Go against her family that Is "SHAME"!!

When A son is To asked His decision Of his Life and failed to do so that Made Him Coward

But when a Girl Took Decision of Life by own Then she Became a Doormat..!!!

If expectation and rules are different for both Son and daughter Then why is there so much noise of equality..

If we Can't Digest What a daughter is Doing what we wanted To done by a Son then why r we expecting that for a son

And if we are happy with What a daughter is doing with her family then why we are Boiling our blood when the same thing is done by a Son with his family..

May Be many will come with a explanation That Here's a difference B/w 2 parents..Obviously there is..But difference Or fault in a Parent can't take the right Of them Or can't Change the duty of child..

Moral of the story is If u want a Girl to always follow ,Respect,Support Her Parents..Then that should be goes for a Son as well..

But If u want a son goes against his parents where they r Wrong or Where u find the R wrong then u should accept the fact that the Girl also go against Her parents where they r wrong Or where other Found them wrong..

That is equality..Other is Kind of Gender Discrimination..

Originally posted by: JyotiBThakur

Let me talk about Sona and Dev here:

Dev since childhood is overly burdened by his mother to an extent that he cannot even think of his own happiness and for once he did, his mother did something to an extreme level that he was not left with an option but to breakup.

It was more of Ishwari's fault, who kept suffocating him with all the parampara and expectations she kept reminding him off. She kept on repeating and reminding him of the sacrifices she made and his family made to help him achieve the success. And we have seen him suffocating till the time he lost his only reason to live... The only one whose presence made his life happier was nowhere near him and that's when Ishwari lost her old Dev. But she was the soul reason to push Dev to that extent.

Today when he answers her back, it's because he as seen how, his happiness was nothing for her... She has been selfish all these years and is same even today.

Now coming to Sonakshi:

Sonakshi is a strong girl. She has been a pillar of support for her family and her daughter all throughout. Even before wedding she was the one supporting her family (The way Dev was the support of his family. Here Sona was.)... When they were homeless, she was the support system for her family and today it's because of her determination and dedication along with Saurabh Dada that they have achieved so much.

Yes her Baba was always there with her throughout... And now, she wants to be with her child... She is aware of her Baba's importance in her life as she has told Dev and a daughter in her made her think about her own daughter's father and his importance in Suhana's life. I don't find anything wrong in it.

She cannot let her daughter's childhood to get spoiled just because of their differences. Yes, she stopped Bijoy at some instances and went against him. But she didn't insulted him ever. She tried to make him understand her POV. Sona was right yesterday, Bijoy is thinking about his daughter, which is absolutely correct. But the same way, Sona is thinking about her daughter, how can i consider her to be at fault here? She is doing the same thing her father is doing for her. As much as Bijoy has the right to take decisions for his children, Dev and Sona too has the right to take decision for their daughter. Every parent has that right. And if today, they have taken a decision. I don't think there's anything wrong in it.

And coming to Boy and Girl thing... I don't think there's any difference... You can see Dev is the only provider for the Dixit family and Here Sona is the support system of Bose family. They have done all their duties towards the families perfectly till date and now it's the time for them to fulfill the duties towards their child.