Originally posted by: rockstar.sj
I agree on ur points cvs have ruined each character.
When show started it was normal ppl with natural reactions and everything was so real .
Till they turned ish grey totally grey
Then bijoy then dev sister turned against sona for no reason in fact she was the one who adored sona being independent but later they ruined it
Only gkb and Vicky have same role till now
Here things went haywire I know .
Dev character got ruined drastically I don't say he needs to disrespect his mother to keep his sona happy even sona doesn't want that and walked off the marriage.
It was dev weakness who couldn't convince or manage ishwari he lacks communication with his mom till now he keeps things inside he is always half baked reactions and talks and stubborn ish does overpower him all the time because she knows dev dances to his tunes .
A man brings a women in his family to be a part of the family be at times when needed but dev failed many times that to infertility times he didn't bother at start he married her knowing everything I respect that I really loved that but later ishwari did was so bad emotional blackmail instead of taking charge on himself he went on to please his mother than started rift and made sona so worthless all the hiding all the lies hit sona so badly .
I know how it feels when mil taunt u or make u keep reminding what lacks in u trust me it's hell and u know what that time nothing matters when hubby is pillar but in this show they showed dev focus was on ishwari less of sona .
Balancing and communication dev lacks till now he and sona can talk and break the ice but his ego and anger over powers and sona too is hyper and hot headed too stubborn at times too
But I don't blame bijoy as a father he is cool who stood for sona after her marriage broke
Disliking dev was dev fault breakup remember when ish took pills made bijoy hate dev the most for leaving sona in a bay breaking her heart break her engagement with ritwich because by then he could foresee the future how sona will be treated were sona didn't sense as father in law he is not great but as a father to sona he is great and with sourab they have this funny rude equation nothing serious he wants his son to be independent and strong as sona that's all at time bijoy is hyper and ott whose principles dominate his sweet nature that's all .
Anyways I feel devakshi lacked was trust, communication and they were busy in sorting differences in there family they wanted to please there respective family first sona wanted self respect for her parents and dev was for his mom but they forgot to be in one as an unit and sort out things between them and then look to convince there family .
Gkb added fuel and ishwari insecured nature made her total grey total vamp
I blame cvs ruine there characters mainly making dev dumb a puppet to his mom and ish a vamp
Writers messed up totally if treated well ppl would have pissed off with dev or ishwari
It's my view no offense nice debating with u
Flaws are there in families not so much as they show in shows which mom will see her son suffering for 7 yrs and not allow sona to talk to dev that's unbelievable and getting to know dev is so calm not once have heated arguments or talks to convince her make her understand it's so unreal they ruined these characters