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Posted: 8 years ago
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Today we saw how Bijoy did not think about his daughter once before agreeing to take Soha away .He was happy to see Soha wants to be away from Dev his arch rival but he missed seeing Sonakshi's pain nor Soha . Bijoy is equally selfish as Ishwari and for him his pride ,ego comes before Sonakshi .

Bijoy hates Dev and he expects Sona should do that .The worst is he wants to poison Soha's mind against her father .He wants to control his daughter's life but doesn't want Dev to meet his daughter.He think Soha belongs to him more than Dev .That hypocrisy is the problem for me

The day they would show Bijoy apologize for his mistake s and realize his behavior towards Saurabh I would be satisfied.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: rockstar.sj

Bijoy is over protective father like normal fathers are but ishwari is over possessive mother who doesn't want to share son with dil

Ishwari is dev weakness
Bijoy is strength of sona
That's the difference
No father would want his daughter fall in the pit knowing she already fell twice
Mother like ishwari is such disgusting what type of mom she is who let her son suffer for 7 yrs kept soha away not she says sona should vanish leaving soha with dixits
Bijoy might be hyper but as a father he is cool
Rest u ppl decide Bijoy and ishwari are way different
Bijoy respect women his wife or daughter and granddaughter he respect them but ishwari is downmarket who think women's have no identity of there own

No offense tm it's my view


Sorry, normal fathers don't save their self-respect at the cost of daughters marriage ..if a father loves anything more than his self respect it's his daughter .what does Bijoy mean when he said he will never let his daughter forget the slap which was purely accidental? What happened is bad , unfortunate but in real normal fathers may cut their relationship with son-in-law or may be even no cordial talks and visits between the two families but doesn't want themselves to be part of ending the marriage ..when Sona stayed for weeks at bose house cutting all the communication with dev and inlaws , none from bose family thought how that would affect her marriage nor advised her to go back if not for returning cheque..

I am not comparing Ishwari and Bijoy but just saying every one have their flaws ..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..BhUvaNa


Sorry, normal fathers don't save their self-respect at the cost of daughters marriage ..if a father loves anything more than his self respect it's his daughter .what does Bijoy mean when he said he will never let his daughter forget the slap which was purely accidental? What happened is bad , unfortunate but in real normal fathers may cut their relationship with son-in-law or may be even no cordial talks and visits between the two families but doesn't want themselves to be part of ending the marriage ..when Sona stayed for weeks at bose house cutting all the communication with dev and inlaws , none from bose family thought how that would affect her marriage nor advised her to go back if not for returning cheque..

I am not comparing Ishwari and Bijoy but just saying every one have their flaws ..


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Very Well Said Dear.šŸ‘

Completely Agree.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: yyy

Today we saw how Bijoy did not think about his daughter once before agreeing to take Soha away .He was happy to see Soha wants to be away from Dev his arch rival but he missed seeing Sonakshi's pain nor Soha . Bijoy is equally selfish as Ishwari and for him his pride ,ego comes before Sonakshi .

Bijoy hates Dev and he expects Sona should do that .The worst is he wants to poison Soha's mind against her father .He wants to control his daughter's life but doesn't want Dev to meet his daughter.He think Soha belongs to him more than Dev .That hypocrisy is the problem for me

The day they would show Bijoy apologize for his mistake s and realize his behavior towards Saurabh I would be satisfied.


Exactly...
People call Him Best Father but he is more indulge in keeping a daughter away from her father without giving a thought about his own daughter pain.
It clearly shows to hurt Dev and keep Soha away from Dev he can hurt Sona and keep Soha away from her too.

No where he is an Ideal Father.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..BhUvaNa



Did Bijoy thought of Sona before taking Soha with him to Kolkata?how would Sona live wihout soha? he wants to respect a 6yr old decision really? why because its according to him? and the same guy shouts at his 33yr old daughter for taking a decision for her only daughter..isnt it hypocrisy?


Ofcourse it is hypocrisy...

Because his hate towards Dev Is far more than his love towards Sona.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: yyy

Great Post dear .Very valid question

No matter what they show they cannot satisfy the entire fandom .As long as makers don't get influenced by the negativity I am ok .There will be people who will favour their favorite character and there will be some who will try to be unbiased as much as possible so there would be mixed feedback .

The problem is not with the mixed reviews but with the way it is expressed in the forum .Most posts in this forum are not made for constructive criticism but to instigate other members ( my personal opinion) .Bashing real members ,reel characters ,hypocrisy and not being sensitive to other people's opinion are the real problems .



THANK U DEAR😃

Agree with U.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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A slap is a slap dev needs to control his anger can he slap his mom I don't think so because he is bhakth of her .
Self respect is needed in anybody's life it's the personality if ppl don't respect themselves they don't respect others
Bijoy holds a modern thoughts unlike ishwari.
Ish instead of respecting Bose for giving the Cheque she infact got affended her ego was big enough so created so much drama which led to devakshi split
Why ppl think girls father needs to bow to men and in laws of her daughter in that aspects bijoy is advanced he thinks daughters are pride but ishwari said women identity doesn't hold on .
No wonder her daughter hated her so much
She lives in mcp standard thoughts and transferred it to dev in few aspects like organizing his wardrobe etc seeing sona independent he calls her feminist .
Every father has bijoy in himself in real life too .
A insult is an insult accidental or real it's an insult being slapped
Tell me one thing if sona had slapped ish would dev forgotten no way accident push was there which led to dev saying get out to sona .
Infact bijoy let sona decide to go back to dev when soha was born .
What did ishwari did ???threw her like dirt
If bijoy was in place of ish he would not have dare he always cared for sona
Now why he is not letting sona do things to keep her and soha faraway from dev who ruined sona life and never cared to look for her
Sorry I never felt bijoy wrong at all he is ott at times hyper but compared to ishwari he is better but ish is cheap b***



Originally posted by: ..BhUvaNa


Sorry, normal fathers don't save their self-respect at the cost of daughters marriage ..if a father loves anything more than his self respect it's his daughter .what does Bijoy mean when he said he will never let his daughter forget the slap which was purely accidental? What happened is bad , unfortunate but in real normal fathers may cut their relationship with son-in-law or may be even no cordial talks and visits between the two families but doesn't want themselves to be part of ending the marriage ..when Sona stayed for weeks at bose house cutting all the communication with dev and inlaws , none from bose family thought how that would affect her marriage nor advised her to go back if not for returning cheque..

I am not comparing Ishwari and Bijoy but just saying every one have their flaws ..

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: rockstar.sj



A slap is a slap dev needs to control his anger can he slap his mom I don't think so because he is bhakth of her .
Self respect is needed in anybody's life it's the personality if ppl don't respect themselves they don't respect others
Bijoy holds a modern thoughts unlike ishwari.
Ish instead of respecting Bose for giving the Cheque she infact got affended her ego was big enough so created so much drama which led to devakshi split
Why ppl think girls father needs to bow to men and in laws of her daughter in that aspects bijoy is advanced he thinks daughters are pride but ishwari said women identity doesn't hold on .
No wonder her daughter hated her so much
She lives in mcp standard thoughts and transferred it to dev in few aspects like organizing his wardrobe etc seeing sona independent he calls her feminist .
Every father has bijoy in himself in real life too .
A insult is an insult accidental or real it's an insult being slapped
Tell me one thing if sona had slapped ish would dev forgotten no way accident push was there which led to dev saying get out to sona .
Infact bijoy let sona decide to go back to dev when soha was born .
What did ishwari did ???threw her like dirt
If bijoy was in place of ish he would not have dare he always cared for sona
Now why he is not letting sona do things to keep her and soha faraway from dev who ruined sona life and never cared to look for her
Sorry I never felt bijoy wrong at all he is ott at times hyper but compared to ishwari he is better but ish is cheap b***






When did I say self-respect was not needed , but just saying life can also throw us in to situations where one will feel like compromising with it , for a father, a daughters marriage at risk is one such ...it's has nothing to do with modern thoughts .putting his ego aside will not lessen him anyway as a father infact his daughter will be amazed with the extent of his love and respect for him grows million times...

Doesn't Sona know that much about Ishwari?how capable she is to blow things out of proportion? How easily she gets offended?...still she chose that way to return money, giving cheque on her face? ( returning is no wrong but the way she choose is) can't she simply ask Sourabh to return the person who actually took the loan to Dev in the office? Every one will come to know eventually. Why to make scene even after knowing how GKB and ishwari are ?

Girls parents should bow their heads infront of inlaws? I dont think I said anything like that nor believe in it. My point is Bijoy don't need to say that ...forget or forgive he should leave it sona...


You tell me if instead of Dev , it was Sourabh who slapped Bijoy, would Bijoy would throw him out of their lives ? Would Asha and sona dont try to make things better? All three will breakup with Sourabh?
The thing is one should have that love and importance for the other to forgive, forget and accept..which was never there in Sona- Ishwari and Bijoy-Dev relationships .. that's why it was easy for both these parents to see their marraige fail...

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: yyy

Great Post dear .Very valid question

No matter what they show they cannot satisfy the entire fandom .As long as makers don't get influenced by the negativity I am ok .There will be people who will favour their favorite character and there will be some who will try to be unbiased as much as possible so there would be mixed feedback .

The problem is not with the mixed reviews but with the way it is expressed in the forum .Most posts in this forum are not made for constructive criticism but to instigate other members ( my personal opinion) .Bashing real members ,reel characters ,hypocrisy and not being sensitive to other people's opinion are the real problems .


100% agree with you. In other words, those members also thinking and talking same like Ishwari...they criticize Ishwari for not realizing or accepting the true facts but in fact, same people are thinking alike Ishwari... They are not getting the point, so I stopped replying to Ishwari relatives here. u understand i what meanšŸ˜‰
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: .kashishbano.

After Today's Segment Came across Many comments On The Forum That Sona Is not a Good Daughter and She Does Not Deserves a Father Like Bijoy as Sona decides to Stay with Dev In dixits house and making Dev Stay In Bose House for the sake Of Soha.

But I am really Getting Confused by thinking that what actions Of Devakshi Will satisfy the people.

When Dev obeys Ishwari and Listens to her, People Call Him Mumma's boy and Hates Him and want Dev To be Harsh With His Mother.
So with This I understood that they want him to disobey his parent.

But When Sona Does not listen Bijoy here she became shameless...
How?????

Why There are different rules for Dev and Sona...

If One Listen to Parent is wrong and If One does not Listen to Paeent that is also Wrong...


From All this I Got my Answer That the people are judging the situations based on their likes and dislikes.
So Devakshi will never be able to satisfy people.

I really want soha To understand how Devakshi is becoming Sandwich between their parents and she want to leave with her parents only in separated house.

P.S.This is completely my POV..
Just want to share it and I did it.
No offence please.

P.S.S.I don't want any war of Dev and Sona team.


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