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Posted: 8 years ago
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I am not saying ur wrong things fell apart rifting the lovebirds.
Lack of communication from dev to sona and hiding things led couple fall apart
A couple needs to be one unit
Bijoy always a fighter he doesn't like wrong happening around few ppl are hyper like him .
But with his family he has some rules that sourabh should stand for himself .
But when he came to know he did drama added to that gkb too and ish was insecured to know that bose family minting money from dev without even talking to dev she created drama and when dev came things got uglier.
Which daughter would bare a slap from hubby to her daddy dear no one not even me returning was the only way if saurabh had given gkb would have said dev only gave that money so selling the house she brought that cheque but ish said what she had to couple had fight what next happened well played twisted tongue of ishwari instead of saying better separate from the family she said in such a way that couple should split so devakshi split was so painful .
As an elder she would have explained she didn't she saw sona walking off didn't utter a world as if she craved to see her out .

Bijoy was not the reason it was ish the prime person to rift them
Bijoy added some shocks as a father .
After that dev never bothered for bose being homeless what type of love dou call dev had at least as a friend he could have solved there problems but what he did nothing .
Ish one agenda she wanted a toy for dev so that dev won't get spoilt but when she came to know she can't get preggy throw her out and even dev uttered those words was it needed in anger never slip ur worlds beyond ur limit .
Ish is main thing
About if saurabh slap episode I am sure bijoy wouldn't have patched up because his principals are the same for all I bet on it
Bose family are classy ppl not cheapsters and mad ppl senseless ppl
Bose family are transparent on the face but dixits back stabbers
Were was the scope of resolving when dev was drunk I expected after the leap he will get to know gkb and rr ish played but cvs showed him dumb as ever who can never think there faults but with sona he acts as if she is worthless this is what love but no thanks this is mask of fakness calling it a love is beyond idiotic


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Originally posted by: ..BhUvaNa





When did I say self-respect was not needed , but just saying life can also throw us in to situations where one will feel like compromising with it , for a father, a daughters marriage at risk is one such ...it's has nothing to do with modern thoughts .putting his ego aside will not lessen him anyway as a father infact his daughter will be amazed with the extent of his love and respect for him grows million times...

Doesn't Sona know that much about Ishwari?how capable she is to blow things out of proportion? How easily she gets offended?...still she chose that way to return money, giving cheque on her face? ( returning is no wrong but the way she choose is) can't she simply ask Sourabh to return the person who actually took the loan to Dev in the office? Every one will come to know eventually. Why to make scene even after knowing how GKB and ishwari are ?

Girls parents should bow their heads infront of inlaws? I dont think I said anything like that nor believe in it. My point is Bijoy don't need to say that ...forget or forgive he should leave it sona...


You tell me if instead of Dev , it was Sourabh who slapped Bijoy, would Bijoy would throw him out of their lives ? Would Asha and sona dont try to make things better? All three will breakup with Sourabh?
The thing is one should have that love and importance for the other to forgive, forget and accept..which was never there in Sona- Ishwari and Bijoy-Dev relationships .. that's why it was easy for both these parents to see their marraige fail...

Edited by rockstar.sj - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: rockstar.sj



A slap is a slap dev needs to control his anger can he slap his mom I don't think so because he is bhakth of her .
Self respect is needed in anybody's life it's the personality if ppl don't respect themselves they don't respect others
Bijoy holds a modern thoughts unlike ishwari.
Ish instead of respecting Bose for giving the Cheque she infact got affended her ego was big enough so created so much drama which led to devakshi split
Why ppl think girls father needs to bow to men and in laws of her daughter in that aspects bijoy is advanced he thinks daughters are pride but ishwari said women identity doesn't hold on .
No wonder her daughter hated her so much
She lives in mcp standard thoughts and transferred it to dev in few aspects like organizing his wardrobe etc seeing sona independent he calls her feminist .
Every father has bijoy in himself in real life too .
A insult is an insult accidental or real it's an insult being slapped
Tell me one thing if sona had slapped ish would dev forgotten no way accident push was there which led to dev saying get out to sona .
Infact bijoy let sona decide to go back to dev when soha was born .
What did ishwari did ???threw her like dirt
If bijoy was in place of ish he would not have dare he always cared for sona
Now why he is not letting sona do things to keep her and soha faraway from dev who ruined sona life and never cared to look for her
Sorry I never felt bijoy wrong at all he is ott at times hyper but compared to ishwari he is better but ish is cheap b***






@rockstar.. very well said 👏
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ifuser


100% agree with you. In other words, those members also thinking and talking same like Ishwari...they criticizeIshwari for not realizing or accepting the true facts but in fact, same people are thinking alike Ishwari... They are not getting the point, so I stopped replying to Ishwari relatives here. u understand i what mean😉



😉 and I am trying follow the same . Just like ish is stuck in her FB ..some are stuck to one scene or two scenes and have conveniently forgotten about the scenes after that .I keep seeing the same scene used in their arguments. 😳
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Sona is shameless coz she is going to same house which insulted her father and her husband slapped her father...!!!!!
Im not saying she is shameless coz she dint listen to bijoy baba...but because she conviniently forgot her family insult...


Dev is wrong because he never ever tried to rectify his godess...when he knows she is responsible for spoiling his life...





Im fine till cvs dont show sona falling for dev like she did after 1st dumping😆
Edited by ..natasha.. - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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If sonan is honest enough..she should tell complete truth to her daughter...how her father threw away his mother twice from his life...how he insulted her...
Smarty soha would herself make sona leave the dixit couple

Lesson was today when she made dev say sorry to sona for speaking rudely...!!!!
Sona to kabhi kuch nahi kahegi


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: yyy



😉 and I am trying follow the same . Just like ish is stuck in her FB ..some are stuck to one scene or two scenes and have conveniently forgotten about the scenes after that .I keep seeing the same scene used in their arguments. 😳


hahahahahhaha!!!!!
but on a serious note, i'm seeing no difference between Ishwari(reel character) and the Dev haters here. both are living in denial mode and unable to see the reality or accept the truth.
we all know about ishwari, but Bijoy is no less or even worst than Ishwari now, but they r seeing it as a protective father rather than aggressive and interference. that's why i'm saying, they also belong to Ishwari clan😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..natasha..

If sonan is honest enough..she should tell complete truth to her daughter...how her father threw away his mother twice from his life...how he insulted her...

Smarty soha would herself make sona leave the dixit couple

Lesson was today when she made dev say sorry to sona for speaking rudely...!!!!
Sona to kabhi kuch nahi kahegi




U forgot one think he even said she not being a mother is good thing

Still ppl forgot and still worshippers of dev and ish

Is women worth of that taunts just because she fell for his cheesy line " I love u like a man "
Seriously a man 😆 who can't even put senses to his mom yet has the guts to fight with his ex after knowing his ex still reached out being thrown out after 6 months after soha was born yet this man super man instead of blaming his mother not letting sona to meet him yet this man taunts his ex calling her feminist .
Such man no thanks sona doesn't deserve such senseless man

I wish soha gets deeper to this shitty family of dev and there taunts thrown on sona at first she might get hurt later feels it's worthless being with dev that twist will be best and wishing cvs shows soha support sona and dev realizing his mistakes and family truth finally and then may be devakshi can unite leaving in different house with no interferences from both family .

Cvs are fav of ish so story will not go that way only thing sona is side kick
Dev ish are main leads
Edited by rockstar.sj - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: yyy

Today we saw how Bijoy did not think about his daughter once before agreeing to take Soha away .He was happy to see Soha wants to be away from Dev his arch rival but he missed seeing Sonakshi's pain nor Soha . Bijoy is equally selfish as Ishwari and for him his pride ,ego comes before Sonakshi .

Bijoy hates Dev and he expects Sona should do that .The worst is he wants to poison Soha's mind against her father .He wants to control his daughter's life but doesn't want Dev to meet his daughter.He think Soha belongs to him more than Dev .That hypocrisy is the problem for me

The day they would show Bijoy apologize for his mistake s and realize his behavior towards Saurabh I would be satisfied.

Bijoy is not perfect, no one is. He has his own faults. But didn't he support Saurabh when he needed it the most, like when he took money from some goons, or for his marriage he went and fought for his son's happiness. What is with apology. A father has every right to be angry If the kids are not responsible enough for their age. Yes, he was at times rude to Saurabh, may be because he has more expectations from him being the only son of the family.

Agree today Bijoy behaved completely immature and stupid. He has no right to take Soha away from Sona. Sona has complete right on what Soha should do or not. Unfortunately Dev and Sona today were immature as well, giving to the 6-yr old demands is not parenting. A parent child relationship should be respect, love with discipline. Saare adults bacche ban gaye, and bacche are behaving like adults taking decisions of life, kuch bhi dhikhatey hain.

Ishwari is pure evil, should not even talk about such a character.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: mena_k

Bijoy is not perfect, no one is. He has his own faults. But didn't he support Saurabh when he needed it the most, like when he took money from some goons, or for his marriage he went and fought for his son's happiness. What is with apology. A father has every right to be angry If the kids are not responsible enough for their age. Yes, he was at times rude to Saurabh, may be because he has more expectations from him being the only son of the family.

Agree today Bijoy behaved completely immature and stupid. He has no right to take Soha away from Sona. Sona has complete right on what Soha should do or not. Unfortunately Dev and Sona today were immature as well, giving to the 6-yr old demands is not parenting. A parent child relationship should be respect, love with discipline. Saare adults bacche ban gaye, and bacche are behaving like adults taking decisions of life, kuch bhi dhikhatey hain.

Ishwari is pure evil, should not even talk about such a character.



The apology is not for getting angry at his son when he commits a mistake but for belittling him at every stage and using him as a punch bag everytime he was angry .For demotivating him at every stage and constant comparison Saurabh has to face in his life .He might have helped Saurabh when it comes to money but the way he reacted felt like he was interested more in protecting his name n image in society than help his son .Can one deny Bijoy Bose is still not apologetic to the way he is treating his son .A protective father will be unhappy if his son is not working but seeing someone like him who always spoke about ideals , morals n ethics getting offended for inner wear business shows the double standard of the man here

He should be apologetic for keeping his pride and ego above his daughter's happiness .In season 1 , his constant interference and his fake pride played a big role in breaking his daughter's married life .That was termed as protective father but today we saw a ugly truth of the protective father who was only worried about him than about his daughter or grand daughter's pain .

He should be sorry for the way he has treated Dev all along .I won't get into an argument about accidental slap but the way he treated Dev who came to apologize for his mistake shows he was not a bigger person .Mistake happens and what more Bijoy Bose expected from Dev apart from apology? He was not ready to forget that incident nor wanted his daughter to forget n move on with her husband.Does a protective father worry about his pride or daughter's married life ? Did he ever feel guilty to see her daughter all alone for 7 long yrs ? Is that what Bijoy expected from Devakshi .

I agree with you about today's episode.I was not very happy with the way Devakshi handled Soha . I had mentioned the same in other thread .

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: .kashishbano.



Why There are different rules for Dev and Sona...

If One Listen to Parent is wrong and If One does not Listen to Paeent that is also Wrong...



Precisely, if parents are horrible and is always wronging others - going against them is what I expect from Dev. If he doesn't confront Ishwari like how he confronts Sonakshi (and he doesn't actually confronts Ishu ever), I call him out.


If parents have always put the children's interest first and wanted to protect the children from upcoming hurt - which is Bijoy's case (Like protecting Sona from Dev's Fake Pregnancy News, Infertility Treatments, Sona's numerous insults at Dixit house), supporting such parents is a MUST thing to do. I expect Sona to support Bijoy for the rest of her life for always being there through thick and thin which her romantic fairy tale lover couldnt provide her. Tada, her lover couldn't even provide her shelter. 👏Sona is not acknowledging Bijoy's hurt and insult and thinks it's an obligation for her to do that. Hence I call Sona out as a daughter. 🥱


When parents are different as chalk and cheese, how can we expect the same behaviours from their children. 😃

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