What Will Satisfy....:(

After Today's Segment Came across Many comments On The Forum That Sona Is not a Good Daughter and She Does Not Deserves a Father Like Bijoy as Sona decides to Stay with Dev In dixits house and making Dev Stay In Bose House for the sake Of Soha.

Originally posted by: Cutiepie.sona

Well said Adi Di👏

Devakshi have full right to take stand on what they feel is right or wrong

It's not always abt Obeying or dis obeying parents!

How can a mother accept to live separatly from her daughter?

If she's doing it for Soha...why we are drawing other angles...the fact of agreeing to her father or not does not arises because right now she's only thinking abt her daughter & nothing else

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No. Both the scenarios are totally different.

I will tell you what will satisfy... when adults behave like adults and handle issues maturely and together and not make decisions just because someone is blackmailing them- before it was ishwari and now it is soha... parents should act like parents and not give into the child's tantrums. Soha cant choose one of the parents and wants to live with both of them but unfortunately that option is not immediately available as devakshi have not resolved their differences yet... they should not be forced by the whims of either ishu or soha and do something that they are not ready for. Give couple of days for soha to calm down and explain that ppl dont always get what they wish for and one needs to make the best of what they already have... it will take time but soha will come around. Instead we see two adults running behind trying to satify the child's tantrums . Exactly how dev was running behind ishwari and danced to her tunes in S1..

Ps: i have a 6 yr old and i know what it takes to convince them but discipline is very important. It is good to give them independence and make their own decisions but at the same time it is important to make them understand what is reasonable and what is not

Great Post dear .Very valid question

No matter what they show they cannot satisfy the entire fandom .As long as makers don't get influenced by the negativity I am ok .There will be people who will favour their favorite character and there will be some who will try to be unbiased as much as possible so there would be mixed feedback .

The problem is not with the mixed reviews but with the way it is expressed in the forum .Most posts in this forum are not made for constructive criticism but to instigate other members ( my personal opinion) .Bashing real members ,reel characters ,hypocrisy and not being sensitive to other people's opinion are the real problems .

Originally posted by: ...Doctor...

No. Both the scenarios are totally different.

Dev always obeyed his mother, even when she was absolutely wrong and illogical. That's why people wanted him to not obey his mother like a bling devotee. They wanted him to speak against her when she was being completely illogical and manipulative (e.g. in case of Sonakshi and Dev's relationship)

Sonakshi was always guided by Bijoy but never forced to obey his decisions. In fact Bijoy had warned her numerous times about Dev and his family's lies and deceits. She still went ahead to marry him, Bijoy never objected. After all this, he still supported her when she was thrown out, when she decided to be a single parent and also when she decided to introduce Soha to Dev. Now her decision of staying at a house where her father was insulted and slapped, makes her look like the most disrespecting daughter. She should have atleast thought about her father's respect but did she?

Did Bijoy thought of Sona before taking Soha with him to Kolkata?how would Sona live wihout soha? he wants to respect a 6yr old decision really? why because its according to him? and the same guy shouts at his 33yr old daughter for taking a decision for her only daughter..isnt it hypocrisy?

it ll be better if dev soh and sona lives in a separate home like nuclear family and both grandparents coming to visit them..no posseviveness or arguments..no inlaws problems too..i think an os can be written based on this..

Bijoy is over protective father like normal fathers are but ishwari is over possessive mother who doesn't want to share son with dil

I will tell you what will satisfy all the viewers.. Dev and Sona should stay separate with Soha. The problem why dev is called mummy's boy and sona is being called out shameless is simple - Sonakshi will make bijoy agree to the above but dev has no guts to do it because he won't leave his mother.