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amina1

@amina1

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Posted: 8 years ago

#11

This is really touchy subject but as husband he has right ti fullfill his wives wishes including her physical desires ,in olden days there was no such thing as devorce

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Annu92

@Annu92

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Posted: 8 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: munni_rajatfan

Chandra nd duru r hubby wife so she can have his child. Besides as per history also Durdhara was the mother of cgm's child bindusar.😆

Ohhh... I didnt knew that... sorry... 😆

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loveislife1991

@loveislife1991

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Posted: 8 years ago

#13

Thank God someone said this. I was getting harangued listening to the calls of Duty, Duty, Duty.

Chanakya wants him to follow King s duty of going to wars(which is totally correct), Helena wants to have relations with him Chandu is like "Bus jaan le lo bache ki 😭😭"

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Originally posted by: k.taddy1234
Hi freinds...
This post I make only after reading lots of comment over Helena rights over Chandra and Chandra duties towards Helena... everyone have their view on that topic and so is mine... so i just want to share with you don't know weather you people are agree with me or not...
In today episode Chandra said to Nandini that he will not do anything without her permission (on physical relationship)
I'm not saying Helena is wrong to ask about her right over Chandra but Chandra is not wrong to say no Helena
Is marriage only about duties and right over each other that couple have
In general we women's want that husband or men should respect our feelings and it's about physical Intimacy also... if husband force his right on his wife without her permission is that right or women should surrender herself to her husband becoz it's her dutie to please u r husband.
it's a really very sensitive issue... if we talk about women's right and her feelings and her respect we should also consider mens views also...
Physical relation should be happened with with mutual agreement not becoz it's one's right and other dutie to have physical relationship towards each other
Here also chandra is not comfortable with Helena and it's not happened sudden after fall in love with Nandini it's happened before also when he is not fall in love with Nandini. He never comfortable with Helena about being physical yes he use Helena to make Nandini Jealous which is wrong but at that time also he is not fully ready...
Yes Chandra has a physical relationship with Dhurdhara also but it happened with mutual agreement whatever the reason CK ask for a Heir or not. Both didnt love eachother in that way but respevt eachother and have a mutual agreement on this matter
Yes Chandra loves Nandini and vice versa but both are not ready with physical relation right now I know in future it will happened but whenever it happened it's only becoz of mutual agreement... when both want it.. its not about right or duties
To make this post I only trying to say that if we want that mens respect women's feeling as a women we also respect mens view and feeling...

May be u r not agree with me but I still want that u share u r view... I hope u share it..
Thank you

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shreya roy

@munni_rajatfan

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Posted: 8 years ago

#14

Nd one more thing there is talking ki if woman ka no means no then man ka no is also no. But if a woman said no in those days often a man used to force her which a woman certainly can't do. 2ndly even if the man doesn't want to force still he had lots of options like going to the prostitutes or keeping concubines but wht options does tht woman have? The other day helena was about to kill herself. If she had done it who would have been responsible? Nd again point here is not tht whether helena is good or bad. Nd on top of tht chandra wanted her to join his side during the marriage just bcoz he don't have anyone. How can he expect her to be normal after all tht happened? Unfortunately even elders like dadi nd moora r insensitive towards other wives nd thts sad. Chandra may not realise wht he is doing but it's the responsibility of the elders to maintain the balance. Yes love nd all is fine but others also has their rights nd noone can ignore tht.

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amina1

@amina1

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

#15

Not only that but name calling like billi yawani I guess nothing has changed even in this day and age it is the elders who do it that is being partial and all

We often see in society if son marry and out sided it is elder who doesn't accept and that too often lead into divorce and blame it on the girl alone

If we see it it was Chandra who told he's hers spece night which he let nandani decorate just to make her jealous nandani that is now chicken come to roost and he won't have any of it

I'm sure both real cgm and Helena turning in graves where ever it is

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