The husband is the head, the wife is the neck... updated pg 3

Originally posted by: Laska

The husband is the head, the wife is the neck, where neck will turn, there head will look

In the real world, this isn't called manipulation. It means just being an intelligent woman

Maya doesn't take Arjun from Vandana

After the wedding, Arjun even leaving home, when Vandana didn't accept Maya, but he would still feel that someday this day will come

Maya comes into the house and does everything to Vandana accepted her. But the result is obvious from the beginning. Vandana can't accept Maya, she doesn't want to accept Maya - as exuses everything is using, starting with Maya not Saanj, ending with Arjun will be bo-bo, and Maya wants control

But all this lyrics, in fact

Maya suffers, she doesn't make superfluous scenes, it's not need. Arjun suffers, watching as this picture unfolds

Everything comes to a logical conclusion - where it is thin, there it is torn

Arjun takes Maya, but the connection with this house remains - Ayan. Now he becomes superfluous

And Ayan also gets a choice - to be on the side of mother, or take the side of brother

Vandana has made a wrong choice a million times. Saanj made the wrong choice. Now along this path will go and Ayan - he will choose Vandana

Maya again doesn't have to do anything - wait and watch

Now when Arjun leaves he will not have thoughts about the house - they tried, nothing in result. There will be no absurd expectations of a miracle

The way is passed, there is a result

Maya gives Arjun freedom, she let him go the way, she let him get the bumps, she let him makes decisions that will somehow be accepted anyway

Clothes of my choice, food at my choice - neck, your gaze is directed to where the neck turns

Originally posted by: dhrishti_

Bold - Couldn't have put it into better words. Ironically Arjun think he's got everything in control while it's Maya who's got the remote.

Originally posted by: Laska

This is a simple family psychology, nothing more

A man has a great ego, and his ego can not be injured under any circumstances, otherwise it will lead to a catastrophe

A man has physical strength, while a woman has a flexible mind

And the main task to woman is to use this flexibility - don't go ahead

In fact, Arjun grows next to Maya, finally Duffer grows

A man must make a decision, it must look so for everyone. And first of all for a man, he should not have a drop of doubt that he manages, he decides

The task of a woman to turn neck, to be the neck that guides head, to support head

Yes, Maya directs Arjun, and when Arjun begins to lose the head from money, glory, power - this will again be the task to Maya, be the neck, send, stop, but not an ultimatum, not a demand, but a direction, change the angle of view, but let him go the way by himself

Let him come to this decision by himself

Originally posted by: katrinasalman

In short whatever, the wife decides, it is husband's decision and vice versa. Arjun abides by Maya's decision and Maya abides by Arjun's decision.

Originally posted by: dhrishti_

Agreed, Maya has her own way of making Arjun decide by himself, but the verdict/result is always what she had in mind. For instance, the decision of leaving the Sharma household was Arjun's but the brain behind it was certainly Maya's.

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

Beautifully put Laska. Yes without neck you cannot turn.