The husband is the head, the wife is the neck... updated pg 3

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Laska

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Posted: 8 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: sunithi
Well analysed...What could be saanj role in this battle?..How could or y she should save Arjun from Maya clutches..

Dusky's main task is to take away Maya's dupatta, when everything is wrapped up so that nothing remains clear and understandble

Now is not the time for this. The way that Arjun and Maya go now, they can pass by themselves. They can cope with this themselves

Dusky will appear when Maya's past again pulls it hands to Maya's present. When the darkness of her past will come to destroy everything

Time Dusky and Dusky's task - to stop the war of roses. When the poison time comes. When the time comes for revenge. When there is no love. When love transforms into hate

There is a lie between Arjun and May, which Arjun left in past. This lie will start the flywheel

The task of Dusky is to find the truth, stop the flywheel. Save Arjun from the consequences of Duffer's actions

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Posted: 8 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: riyya6
this is amazing 👍🏼

Thank you😊

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Laska

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Posted: 8 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: shruthiravi
Beautifully put Laska. Maya has learned a lot of things in her fight to be where she is now.

Yes. Maya learned a lot in her fight

But also lost too, not a little

The lost trust is long and hard to build, but is destroyed instantly

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Nithunavi

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Posted: 8 years ago

#24

Beautifully put dear Laska !!

I really loved ur simple family theory.

The result of VM actions are seen yday.

And maya also had a limit to tolerate her and waited patiently to VM come around with nice way but she had got it on herself.

Vandana when slapped maya I felt like maya Shud give back same way but maya is really clever she made it 10times worse for that panda.

And I want to clap for her unpredictable genious ways of giving back with such a class. ;)

Honestly maya had given more than enough chances to VM but panda was so inhumane.

Coming to ur theory one head always needs its neck.. without neck no support or anything u can do.

PS- the way Jenni made her head slightly turn like (I told u so) in previous episode while they were leaving was brilliant towards VM :D

Do u remember ??

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Posted: 8 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: Laska
The wrong Way

Arjun comes, see the unfolding scene and threatens Maya

- If you come here again, I'll leave you
(leave it behind the brackets that this is exactly what Maia needs in this moment)

This is an ultimatum

That's how Arjun learned to act and communicate with his family. This is what gave him the overly loving heart of saint Vandana and friendship with Dusky

Require. To claim. Threaten. Blackmail. To put ultimatums. Without freedom of choice. Without compromise
This is what Arjun got in his home

The right way

Maya comes to the office and sees the unfolding scene, she doesn't like it. And Arjun sees this, he is tense. He waits for the scene, he waits for her to break into the office, and there will be a scene

- Can I come in
- Of course, baby

That you do not like at the moment, no matter what the problem has arisen, never make public scenes! This is the law. Any scene that has witnesses will play against you. You will put his ego in doubt, you will give cause for ridicule, and sooner or later irritation from ridicule will return to you

What is between the two must remain between the two

- What happened?

Let him tell himself, even if not now

Here it is worth returning to the occasion of the Dusky's recognition

Maya knew everything. Did she have the right to put a scene to Arjun? Yes. Want to take Dasky away? Yes. But what will be the result? He will remember that he was forced. Arjun can't be forced. A man can't be forced

- What happened?
- Nothing.
- There is something between us
- No. Nothing
- I will learning to love your lies too

She doesn't roll up a scandal. She doesn't require an explanation. She is waiting. Let him say

Maya's past dictated to her a completely different
Do not require. Do not claim. Do not threaten. Do not blackmail. Do not put ultimatums. Do not ask. Do not beg
All this is useless
None of this worked for her

You have to achieve it differently. Through patience. If you need to endure pain, then you need to endure the pain. Go to serious action can only be if you have the power. No power, act differently

Now Arjun's head has been blown away by power and money - he feels himself the master of destinies

Again, Maya watches. She had known about this before. Maya was send presents to Arjun not to buy him, but to checked him

When the gifts came first reaction Arjun want to take, try on

Arjun is such person who act and only after think

This is happening now - he is passionate about it
Maya's task is gently flexible to bring him back to earth

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Laska

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Posted: 8 years ago

#26

Originally posted by: Nithunavi
Beautifully put dear Laska !!
I really loved ur simple family theory.
The result of VM actions are seen yday.
And maya also had a limit to tolerate her and waited patiently to VM come around with nice way but she had got it on herself.
Vandana when slapped maya I felt like maya Shud give back same way but maya is really clever she made it 10times worse for that panda.
And I want to clap for her unpredictable genious ways of giving back with such a class. ;)
Honestly maya had given more than enough chances to VM but panda was so inhumane.
Coming to ur theory one head always needs its neck.. without neck no support or anything u can do.

PS- the way Jenni made her head slightly turn like (I told u so) in previous episode while they were leaving was brilliant towards VM :D
Do u remember ??

The most difficult things in this world are in fact the simplest

But it is difficult for them to follow)))))

Vandana had all the cards in her hands to solve everything in her favor. But inhumanity in her clearly doesn't contribute to this

Vandana in every episode screams what she sees through the facade of Maya, knows her every plan

But I have a question, if Vandana sees everything and knows everything, then why Maya's plan is successful?

Vandana's thinking is reduced to demands, ultimatums. Vandana doesn't know how to dialogue, doesn't know how to build relationships

There is no chance that a woman who did everything in her life for a child could not just find a common language with this child, and achieve friendly relations. It's impossible

So Vandana didn't try. Arjun was never her priority. She wanted power over Arjun, and when he accepted her as a mother, she began to revel in her power

Maya waited for limit Arjun's patience

This is not a theory, in fact it is a proverb. If a woman wants a harmonious relationship, then her task is not to try to be a head, but to be a neck. Then the family problems will be much less. Vandana wants to be a head, and the head of all - Ayan, Arjun, home, and any Bahu - that's why she receives only this result

From her position, with her argument "I protect my son", there is a completely different behavior. I can say - the opposite

Yes, this look said "I warned, I said"😈😆