My Two Cents - Please Read

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Just to add this is coming from a rock hard NaSa fan 😆

I do admit that Nahar has made a few mistakes, matter of fact it is human to error but I have observed that we, the audience for some reason look at the wrong things directly sometimes not looking at why the wrong things have been commited in the first time.

In Nahar's defence:

1. Not supporting Saloni's decision to pursue her career
The reason he didn't want her to do this was because he was worried about her and the baby's health. 😳 he probably did not want her to go on long journeys which could directly or indirecty cause harm to Saloni and their child. Also he probably wanted to take precautions because he didn't want something to happen to the baby, repeating history, he just wanted a child to be finally welcomed into his family.

2. Signing the divorce papers
Nahar was totally shattered when he received the divorce papers and if you watch the video Nahar just doesn't sign them out of his will, in fact Saloni's mother 😡 actually puts the poor guy under pressure by saying "tumhe Saloni ki kasam" so this proves he signed them for the good of Saloni

3. Avoiding Neel
When Neel comes to the Singh House Nahar tells him Saloni is dead for him, he in a distraught state, he was depressed from losing Saloni, his child and on top of that his sister. 😭 Why should he listen to Neel? Nahar is still under the impression that Neel is not a well wisher and just wants to make him suffer, it understandable after what Neel had wanted to separate NaSa.

Sometimes people have to forget about their pain to make others happy

This is exactly what Nahar did, he forced himself to stop drowning himself in Saloni's memories to lessen his family's pain.

And for those who think Nahar only cared about the baby and not Saloni, I think this is not true, he always remembered Saloni and said no body could take her place, of course he went into the baby's room and mourned, this is considered a normal reaction.

He was about to leave the house, he didn't kick Saloni out so it is not his fault for the current state of his wife.

In fact, none of this is his fault, so why do some people say he is not worthy of Saloni and doesn't deserve her.

In my frank opinion, Nahar truly loves Saloni, whereas Saloni has included the poor guy fom the major decision-making about their life. 🤢

And finally Neel, I feel as if the quality of selfishness has crept into his personality.😡 He wants Saloni to stay with him and isn't even taking her to her family upon her many requests. Why doesn't he think what Saloni wants! (She is carrying around the product of Nahar's love and what is Neel going to do after she delivers? 😡 ) She wants to be with her husband, Nahar so take her there in person if Nahar isn't listening to him, present solid proof! He has to believe him then and listen.

And by the way isn't Neel engaged to Nishi? Suggestion for Neel: take Saloni to the hospital, let Nishi, a certified doctor treat her, and some how get Nahar or someone else to the hospital where he/she can see Saloni. Phew! 😆

To conclude, I just want Nahar Saloni back together, getting ready to welcome their baby into the world. 😳


I feel as if I have just wrote a essay! 😆

This was not intended to offend anyone.

Please Comment and share your wonderful opinions! 😃

Kernal 😊

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Posted: 17 years ago
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I agree kernal. nahar is not a fault alone. But what sal did was for the good of family and got deceived by jiji. Sal is in worst state then Nahar. She has become child like. She has been thru so much pain that her mind body could not take in and she blanked out all the bad memories.

I do agree, Neel should take Nishi with him and convince Nahar to come back to take care of sal providing medical proof. I hope SP makers are reading this and bring Nahar back in sal's life. At least sal is dreaming baout her marriage. So may be she will wake up with memory and scream Nahar. 😊
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Posted: 17 years ago
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i agry with you nahar love saloni alot.but it's not his fault and im shur after he find about saloni's condision he deffenetly help her to bring her memory back.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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I agree that Nahar and Saloni should get back together. He does truly love her. I also agree she made decisions on their marriage that needed his input. But I believe she assumed he would want her to sacrifice herself for the 'heir' of the family.

Remember Aditi asking her what was she going to do now. I believe Nahar always liked the fact that she sacrificed herself for the good of the family. He was willing to give his fist born child to his brother. Why because of his assuming blame for their childless state.

I also agree neel is selfish. Right now he and Saloni do not have an adult relationship. As well as he is doing penance for pass mistakes.

Nahar and Saloni chemistry on-screen is amazing. I also want them back together while she is pregnant and then seeing them together as parents
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Posted: 17 years ago
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well said.. . all this while i was thinking that neel has geniunely changed, but today's episode made me think twice....maybe he is selfish as to trying to keep saloni to himself. but lets not forget that he has been trying hard for saloni to recall her past and the fact that he's always protective of saloni and her baby goes to show that he still loves saloni alot....selfish or not is another question! 😳 😊
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Posted: 17 years ago
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I agree with you. We all love Nahar and Saloni together. But still I don't fully agree with you. Granted, Nahar loves Saloni a lot, but still he does not have enough faith in her. He should have trusted her and tried to find out what was wrong with her. He never tried. He needs spoon feeding. If someone comes and tells him something then only he will come to know. He never tries to find out by himself. Does not take the initiative. He was not concerned.

Much as we like NaSa pair, Neil would have been best for Saloni. He trusts her completely. As for his being selfish, he did try to inform Nahar and his family in the beginning. If they don't want to hear about her then what is his fault? Now if he has changed and wants Saloni for himself, it is understandable. With time he will change. He is only human.

Hope I made myself clear. I am not so good with words. 😕
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Posted: 17 years ago
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fabulous post
we all needed a little explanation and na sa must get together asap 😛 😛

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