Wish life gave Dev and Sona time!

I wanted to say something to all the newly married couples, young men and women who are soon to be married in this forum;

The bond between a husband and wife is developed over life. It is a journey with lots of ups and downs. If you think, you understand each other well in the 1st year of your marriage, I would just laugh!! Ask your grandparents who have lived and loved their marriage for 40 years, 50 years!

The fundamental issue with Dev and Sona's relationship is that life did not give them that time. They did not give their marriage enough time.They tried to do too much in too short of a time. Sonakshi tried too hard to be a good DIL and Dev tried too hard to keep both his Mom and Sona happy and both knew very well that they were trying too hard!! They needed some open communication with each other. But trust me; in the 1st year of marriage it is not easy to do that.Its not easy to say "Your Mom thinks like this or Your Dad is incorrect ". It takes time to have that open communication. I wish they gave each other that!

I am reading so many posts in the forum about who is right and who is wrong. This is a wrong way to look at things dear friends. Marriage is not a relationship of equals! In a marriage one person is more patient, the other is less.One person is a die hard romantic, the other is absolutely not. One person loves sports, the other does not. One person loves to travel, the other likes to stay home. One person is practical, the other is super emotional. This is a real marriage! and for you to make this relationship work, all you really need is time! Please give yourselves that time!!

True .. more than beginning honest communication.. it is important to not lie and cheat and lose mutual trust...

Once trust is gone .. nothing can repair it and make it like before

Well Said 👏👏👏 ...and true , Marriage is not a relationship of equals...and both of them would have given some more time to the relationship and sad part is people around them involved too much in their relationship making it more worse.

Originally posted by: svpg

I wanted to say something to all the newly married couples, young men and women who are soon to be married in this forum;

The bond between a husband and wife is developed over life. It is a journey with lots of ups and downs. If you think, you understand each other well in the 1st year of your marriage, I would just laugh!! Ask your grandparents who have lived and loved their marriage for 40 years, 50 years!

The fundamental issue with Dev and Sona's relationship is that life did not give them that time. They did not give their marriage enough time.They tried to do too much in too short of a time. Sonakshi tried too hard to be a good DIL and Dev tried too hard to keep both his Mom and Sona happy and both knew very well that they were trying too hard!! They needed some open communication with each other. But trust me; in the 1st year of marriage it is not easy to do that.Its not easy to say "Your Mom thinks like this or Your Dad is incorrect ". It takes time to have that open communication. I wish they gave each other that!

I am reading so many posts in the forum about who is right and who is wrong. This is a wrong way to look at things dear friends. Marriage is not a relationship of equals! In a marriage one person is more patient, the other is less.One person is a die hard romantic, the other is absolutely not. One person loves sports, the other does not. One person loves to travel, the other likes to stay home. One person is practical, the other is super emotional. This is a real marriage! and for you to make this relationship work, all you really need is time! Please give yourselves that time!!

So true 👏

I always say Dev and Sonakshi were victim of their circumstances.

So many things happened together that both of them got entangled in them. Problem was never between them, problem was with people around them. Problem between husband and wife can be communicated and sorted but when its families bcum the reason of difference of opinion things bcum very difficult.
A marriage where u have such a possessive mother and a blind faithed son had high chances to fail if not today than tomorrow.

It has to be understood by both husband and wife after marriage interference of both sides parents has to be restricted, ignored and overlooked.

Well said!👏

excellent post..very well said👏