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Posted: 8 years ago
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@ashpat: Good post. You have indeed put this forward which others didn't do. When Maya had bailed out Ayaan when the situation was hopeless to bail him out on the same day, Saanjh's face had become very small. She became dull that she could not do it.
Maya had indirectly knocked some sense in Arjun's head so he went to her and apologized to her for behaving rudely with her and gave her the rights of a mother. Saanjh could not do the same in those 20 years which Maya did it in no time.

To begin with, Maya not only gave him a job of an intern but also tolerated his unprofessional behavior like having an ice cream with Saanjh during the office hours. He was supposed to be in the conference hall and give the presentation. Forget about that, he had not even made the presentation ready. Maya still retained him though she had hated him initially. Arjun had behaved that way in other places too and was kicked out of the job for this reason. He has got job stability only from Maya's company. him perks and promotion. Hypothetically speaking, even if Maya had not loved Arjun she still would have promoted Arjun as a Sr. photographer if his work is good.

Not only that, she also gave him an opportunity for the solo photo shoot at Mauritius and had risked her life to save Arjun in the lonely island where there was a tide. She would have done that even if she had not loved him but still she would have done it as a part of the employer responsibility.

It is time for Saanjh to understand that friendship & love are different from each other. She told Arjun tu itni lucky nahin. But the fact is she is not lucky to get a life-partner in the form of a friend. Her state is like a fox that said grapes are sour because it could not get the grapes.😆


Edited by katrinasalman - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ishakumar


She said you have given a lot to Maya but what has Maya given you
That's why she tells Arjun to ask for the seventh Vachan 😆
What a good post ash!!! 👏
Totally nailed it!

Saanjh acts as tho Arjun has done so much for Maya
And Maya hasn't done anything
I was like wt*

Superb list though!!!! Ek ek point sahi hai Tumhara 👏


Oh wow! thanks..isn't it for the two partners as in the husband wife to know or realize who has given what? what is this give and take anyway.. lol pissed with the fact that Maya and Arjun gave so much importance to a third person on their wedding day and she is the one deciding what vachans or promises they should make it each other..🤢

Like TM has pointed out..I completely agree
Edited by MistyDawn - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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No no u r wrong. V r wrng. evry1 is wrng.

nly d greatest mahaan saanjh is ryt. Shez ryt wen she says maya has given arjun nutn. shez ryt wen she makes arjun blve dat maya did nutn2 him. did nutn 4 him. Shez ryt wen she interferes in a married couple's private moment & advises dem on wot to do & wot not to do. shez always ryt..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: DriftInfinitely

Also, who is Saanjh to declare what love is and what it should mean to Maya and Arjun? Their 7th vow was none of her business! It's a private moment but she had to be a part of it for some reason.


I felt like slapping that saanjh when she interfered in their private moment. It was none of her business and the expression btwn given by vandana my god! Yuckkk!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Awesome post !
Idk in which thread but in one of the posts yday I mentioned abt this question that saanjh asked arjun & also her interference in btwn their vows.
I felt 'did she come frm other world' like seriously she's asking what Maya gave u to arjun LOL😆

Saanjh stop making such foolish jokes around and atleast learn something from maya to have a class and not interfere in others life which isn't ur business.😆


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Posted: 8 years ago
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I know Arjun was wrong there but everybody knows Arjun has innocent heart like Maya and cannot see his loved ones in pain. So Saanjh triggered that part and made him feel guilty
Edited by ashpat3 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: TheUnique



When is she not a part of their life ? This girl has no life of her own. Even after Arjun insults her so bad she still is interfering in his matters .


That's called VERY much HUMAN & known as mahanata and so much sacrifice according to minority of saanjh fans not "interference" .😆

U know whatever saanjh does is very much human instinct but whatever done by maya is malice .😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Arjun and Vandana's issue was quite sensitive which was supposed to be dealt with only patience rather than getting aggravated. Arjun is shown pretty impulsive on anything and anybody not only to Vandana but with everybody including Maya (before confession and I see it in future too). Saanjh has merely forced on Arjun to accept relationship rather than listening to his heart.
Maya did not directly told Arjun to unite with his mom but her guidance made him realize his mistakes. I still remember that episode when in no moment Saanjh, Ayan and Vandana left Arjun alone only because of his outburst from years. I realized that Saanjh is no less in taking Arjun's feeling for granted and dealing with his anger issues. That was the time he needed his friend but she did not care if he was okay or not. In such situation people end up doing something awful but our Munna is not that weak his family considers him. I hold this thing against elders of both families for not teaching their children to be mature in serious situations. Being good person, getting educated. are part of normal human behavior but being mature and opting in society is parents and child's both responsibility.

Yesterday's example was enough to show Arjun Saanjh's lacking of descipline which their families failed to teach them (no offense here) how to handle critical situations. Even Maya does not have that capability to handle such close relationships due to the upbringing of her parents. So all three of have of them needs to learn by themselves the important aspects of life

The fire thing was an accident but in real life I doubt anybody would marry in that mandap.

Its high time Saanjh should start to think practically rather than listening to her heart
Edited by ashpat3 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: TheUnique

GR8 post ! I completely uuagree with you.
Maya must have given something to Arjun that you could not have given after so many years with him that he fell for her & not you. You were in his life all these time but why didn't Arjun fall for you even after you practically ran his life ! What Arjun saw in crazy Maya that he didn't see in Saanjh even after so many years !
The reasons you pointed out just nailed it.



Bingo 👏 really true. People like maya can sometimes be very influential in positive manner to people rather than being dangerous and labeled as psycho. I still want to ask what is the definition of psycho in persons view. I mean god has not created everybody equally because it is upto humans to make world full of love

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