Atharv suspecting Vividha

Originally posted by: Karaali

She did everything for him because she loved him. He knows the full truth about how she faithfully waited and endured everything for her.

Rice, photos, and letter -- objects are more powerful than a person's actions?

Is this mistrust a creative liberty or is it normal?

Copy -pasting what I had said on another post.

This is the same Atharv who said he would stand by her even if she felt for Ravish. The same Atharv who gave her all the time she askes for yet stood like her shadow beside her, silently tending to her needs. The same Atharv who for her happiness was ready to let her go. Who wanted to know what she wished for.
After all Misunderstandings are a part of relationships. They determine how strong strong the ship is. They can crumble a weak one, but strong ones sail right through.

We all know where Vividha,comes from.What she has been through and how Atharv is frustrating her even more. But Atharv doesn't. He knows but he hasn't felt it. Currently it is easy to understand Vividha, but slightly difficult to understand Atharv. All I'll say is Atharv will surely make it upto her.

Originally posted by: EternalStars.

Copy -pasting what I had said on another post.

This is the same Atharv who said he would stand by her even if she felt for Ravish. The same Atharv who gave her all the time she askes for yet stood like her shadow beside her, silently tending to her needs. The same Atharv who for her happiness was ready to let her go. Who wanted to know what she wished for.

Why is he pissed off now? Because he had given her time. Time to take her decision. Now that they are engaged these things start happening. What does one expect of him? Had he lived those 3 months, witnessed what Vividha went through he would have straightaway connected the dots and seen a plot. But, Atharva's biggest fear of losing Vividha hasn't been tackled. The time gap hasn't been tackled. These two have now reared their heads, ready to be chopped off completely.

After all Misunderstandings are a part of relationships. They determine how strong strong the ship is. They can crumble a weak one, but strong ones sail right through.

We all know where Vividha,comes from.What she has been through and how Atharv is frustrating her even more. But Atharv doesn't. He knows but he hasn't felt it. Currently it is easy to understand Vividha, but slightly difficult to understand Atharv. All I'll say is Atharv will surely make it upto her.

Originally posted by: Karaali

@bold - We both are using the term misunderstanding. However, from my perspective suspecting one's fidelity is much more than a mere misunderstanding. In real life - these suspicions leave such a huge scar on a relationship that they can become beyond repair.

Problem with such misunderstanding that there is no way to clear them 100%. Will he believe Vividha, or his mother, or Ravish? Even if they make up after she explains, will he be completely doubt free?

@Red - why/when this fear? lack of confidence in himself or her? This fear was not there when they took vachans. A person would such a fear would not give space to another like Atharv did. He gave space because he was confident about their love and commitment to each other.

The fear was there even when they took their vachans. Because right from his childhood he has had to struggle. He has heard of his mother losing her love. He knew Kailash is against ViTharv. When he have her the space she required, she had asked him not to question her love. Her happiness took precedence over his fear. But his insecurities remained dormant. Now KK's plans and Vividha's past is causing them to re-surface.

From my perspective, he hasn't completely understood the dynamics of ViVidha's marriage and what happened in those 3 months. What is hurting him now is these happenings even after she told him she loves him. Atharv is a flawed human. And it is said that eventually a human's fears come true until an event doesn't destroy them completely. That one event would be Atharv completely coming to terms with her trials.

In real life, they leave scars if not dealt with immediately. Atharv dealt with Vividha when she had suspected his fidelity. Here, he is battling with his present and his past. He isn't right. And I do not think he suspects her, although I am unsure of how to articulate these thoughts into words. But he is for sure, real. And Vividha knows him well. As per my understanding of their characters, all they need is a breakdown. The only other way is to regain the memories of those months, which may or may not happen.

I don't know if I made much sense, but know that I respect your opinion too.😃

My question of last week is still not answered;

Originally posted by: Get-Lost

My question of last week is still not answered;

Does Atharv even love Vividha?

Answer, You love someone when you mistrust that person. Love has many shades, accusing one of infidelity is a shade too.

Instead of making me change my question or opinion about Atharv's love, CVs have somehow managed to further make him doubtful. I don't know who could clear his insecurities when Vividha his lover herself is giving explanations despite not being wrong.

When love is not love but a mere infatuation based on stalking and physical relation and not on understanding, it doesn't take much time for it to turn into a conflict.

My POV is he used to love her not anymore.

Originally posted by: EternalStars.

The fear was there even when they took their vachans. Because right from his childhood he has had to struggle. He has heard of his mother losing her love. He knew Kailash is against ViTharv. When he have her the space she required, she had asked him not to question her love. Her happiness took precedence over his fear. But his insecurities remained dormant. Now KK's plans and Vividha's past is causing them to re-surface.

From my perspective, he hasn't completely understood the dynamics of ViVidha's marriage and what happened in those 3 months. What is hurting him now is these happenings even after she told him she loves him. Atharv is a flawed human. And it is said that eventually a human's fears come true until an event doesn't destroy them completely. That one event would be Atharv completely coming to terms with her trials.

In real life, they leave scars if not dealt with immediately. Atharv dealt with Vividha when she had suspected his fidelity. Here, he is battling with his present and his past. He isn't right. And I do not think he suspects her, although I am unsure of how to articulate these thoughts into words. But he is for sure, real. And Vividha knows him well. As per my understanding of their characters, all they need is a breakdown. The only other way is to regain the memories of those months, which may or may not happen.

I don't know if I made much sense, but know that I respect your opinion too.😃

She did all for him and even not gave importance to any relation Infront of him ...Still he is doubting her?

Agree, she left a person like ravish for this guy and still he is having doubts then that means he is definitely insecure and dxnt trust her anymore, its more of an infatuation and physical attraction than love

vividha had the same insecurity once just for a phone call...now atharv is having aftrall vividha is married with a guy for 3 months n v clearly see vividha's mujhe waqt chahiye n kk's tricks r confusing him...cz he wants to know wat actually vividha wants a lyf with him or her married lyf...for him her loving ravish is not the pblm...her pretending to luv him is the problem..