Wedding vows / Vachans

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Posted: 8 years ago
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[So, eversince the ArYa wedding has been decided, Maya has asked Arjun for some Vachans or promises to make in advance. Here I will post the vachans and their details along with my analysis on them and add them as and when a new one is introduced.]
Wedding vows are the words spoken by a couple to each other, expressing their promises in the path of their life. The promises made usually refer to how the couple intend on relating to each other, how they plan on giving significance to their marriage and above all, they promise to work hard on their relationship no matter what, despite the challenges and obstacles they may have to face because of their love and commitment to each other. As you must know, promises are not meant to be broken.
In Beyhadh, recently Maya has asked Arjun for him to give his 7 wedding vows in accordance to Indian tradition. I have come to notice, that it is only Arjun promising and he has never asked back for anything. Maya never gave any Vachans. It is almost like the vows are one-sided and Maya does not feel the need to assure her love for Arjun, while she is constantly in need of assurance. (Yes, the reasons for this are clearly portrayed, as her past is responsible for her insecurity.)

Vachan 1 [Episode 75 - 23rd January, 2017]:
"(Pehla vaada.) Humare beech kabhi koi nahi aaega - na koi insaan, na koi rishta, na koi raaz, na koi pehchan. Sirf tum, aur mein."

Arjun's response: *holds Maya's hand and nods*

According to the first wedding vow, Arjun is promising Maya not no let anyone/anything get in between them, no kebab mein haddi in other words. He promises to stay faithful to her, not allowing any person, relationship, secret or identity get in between them. In a way he has also promised to be truthful to her, and not hide anything as Maya clearly emphasises that no raaz should get in their way.

Vachan 2 [Episode 77 - 25th January, 2017]:
"(Mujhe mera doosra vachan doge?) Har bharose se upar, mujhpar bharosa rakhoge. Aaj ke baad, tum kabhi mujhpar shak nahi karoge. Kisi aur ki baato ki vajah se, tumhara yakeen mujhpar se kabhi nahi uthna chahiye. Aaj ke baad, puri duniya ki awaaz ek taraf aur meri awaaz ek taraf. (Yeh hai mera doosra vachan.)"

Arjun's response: "Tum aur mein, mein aur tum, aaj ke baad, humare beech mein kisiki bhi baatein, kisike bhi yakeen, kisike bhi shak ki koi jagah nahi. Aaj ke baad, mein sirf aur sirf tumpe bharosa karunga."

Arjun promises Maya that he will trust her over everyone else. He promises that he will not question or suspect her. He tells her that any person's words, beliefs or misunderstandings have no place in their life. He will not be affected by the rumours swirling around, spread by everyone. He also promises that he would let himself be guided by her voice, and no one else's.

Vachan 3 [Episode 79 - 27th January, 2017]:
"(Mujhe vachan do) Ki tum mujhe kabhi nahi choroge. Humara rishta tumhare liye sabse upar hoga. Har rishta bhale choot jae, yeh duniya toot jae lekin tum is rishte ka haath kabhi nahi choroge. (Mujhe mera teesra vachan do Arjun)"

Arjun's response: "Tum aur mein, mein aur tum, aaj se alag nahi hai. Saasein tumhari, dharkan meri, aankhe tumhari, nazar meri, jism tumhara, roo meri. Na mein tumse alag, na tum mujhse judaa. Tum meri dost ho, tum hi meri dushman ho, tumhi mera pyaar. Aaj se jo kuch bhi ho, sirf aur sirf tum ho. (Aur yeh mera teesra vachan tumko.)"

With this vachan, Maya is asking Arjun to commit to their relationship, placing it over every other thing in the pedestal of priorities. Arjun promises to never leave Maya, he promises that the relationship he shares with her is above any other relationship of his life. No matter what, he would never let go of this relationship, even if the world was to break, he would hold onto it. Arjun also marks his union with Maya, as he tells her that it would be her breaths and his heartbeat, her eyes and his view, her body and his soul. He promises that she would be his everything.

Vachan 4 [Episode 82 - 1st February, 2017]:
"(Mujhe mera chautha vachan do) Tum mera hah kabhi nahi choroge. Chahe kuch bhi ho jae, tum mera hath thame rahoge."

Arjun's response: *holds Maya's hand firmly* "Tum aur mein, mein aur tum, kabhi alag nahi honge, koi aandhi, koi toofan, koi sach, koi galat, hume alag nahi kar sakta. Yeh vaada hai mera. " *kisses Maya's hand*

Arjun promises to never let go of Maya's hand, he promises to Maya that they will never be separated. He tells her that no darkness, no storm, no truth, no wrong could come in between them. This has, so far been the most vague out of the vows, since all that Maya asks for is for Arjun to promise to hold her hand forever, she is not being excruciatingly specific unlike the previous vows. Emphasis on when Arjun mentions "sach" in his response, saying that no truth would have the power to separate them, [I hope that caught Maya's attention and would make her feel a bit easier to share her hidden truth with Arjun].

Vachan 5 [Episode 84 - 3rd February, 2017]:
"(Vachan do mujhe.) Vachan do ki aaj ke baad tum sirf mere ho."

Arjun's response: "Tum aur mein, mein aur tum, mere jism me, mere dil me, meri roo me, aaj ke baad, sirf aur sirf tumhara naam. Bhagwan ko bhi tumse ijazat leni paregi, agar unko mujhe tumse door karna hai. Yeh vaada hai mera."

Vaguest vow so far on Maya's side!! Maya plainly asks Arjun to promise to be hers. That's about it. We can see as we go ahead in the wedding vows Maya doesn't have much to ask Arjun for, just the plain factors of happiness to build a foundation in their relationship. Arjun promises Maya that she would be the only one in his heart, soul and body. He also tells her that even God would need to ask for permission before separating them.

Vachan 6 [Episode 86 - 7th February, 2017]:
"(Mujhe mera chata vachan do.) Tum kabhi mujhse jhoot nahi bologe. Hamesha mujhse sach kahoge, chahe vo sach kitna bhi kadva ho"

Arjun's response: "Mein aur tum, tum aur mein, aaj ke baad ek dusre se kabhi bhi jhoot nahi bolenge. Hamesha, humari zabaan se srif aur sirf sach niklega. Chahe vo sach, humare gale ka phanda kyu na ban jae."

This vow is quite interesting. Maya asks Arjun to never lie to her again, to which Arjun affirmatively responds, saying that both of them will never lie to each other, only true and honest words will make their way out of their mouths, no matter how bitter the truth may be. For the first time, Arjun indirectly asked Maya, too, to agree to this vow and abide by it, in accordance to his promise. Unlike all the previous vachans in which Arjun is agreeing onto Maya's conditions, here he responds saying that both of them will never lie to each other, in a way committing Maya to her wishes.


[The rest are to be added.. Just 1 more to go!!]
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Beautiful post!

Let's see if Arjun can keep his promises ;)
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Amazing post dhristhi..
A much needed post.
Beyhadh is first show i m watching to highlight wedding vows and make thier own version of vows.
Loving this really..
Do update with other vows too..
Mostly i thnk noone cares for vows nowdays.
I myself dont evn knw what actual seven wedding vows are
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: sellysona

Amazing post dhristhi..
A much needed post.
Beyhadh is first show i m watching to highlight wedding vows and make thier own version of vows.
Loving this really..
Do update with other vows too..
Mostly i thnk noone cares for vows nowdays.
I myself dont evn knw what actual seven wedding vows are


Let's see if Arjun can keep his promises ;)
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ishakumar

Beautiful post!

Let's see if Arjun can keep his promises ;)


Thanks! I hope he does, Maya does not deserve more pain.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: sellysona

Amazing post dhristhi..
A much needed post.
Beyhadh is first show i m watching to highlight wedding vows and make thier own version of vows.
Loving this really..
Do update with other vows too..
Mostly i thnk noone cares for vows nowdays.
I myself dont evn knw what actual seven wedding vows are


Thanks Sona 😊! I've been thinking of making this post since Maya asked for he second vow.
Will surely update the rest of the vows when they're out.
I personally don't know the 7 vachans either, I think it's been lost in tradition and considered an empty ritual although it holds true meaning.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ishakumar


Let's see if Arjun can keep his promises ;)


I hope he does..he seems genuine when making this promises.. Just no one instigates him whn maya secret is out ..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: sellysona


I hope he does..he seems genuine when making this promises.. Just no one instigates him whn maya secret is out ..


And even if they do then he should listen to them
He should act like dogs are barking 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ishakumar


And even if they do then he should listen to them
He should act like dogs are barking 😆


Amidst all this ArYa romance I forgot that Maya has a secret.
Arjun promised to Maya that the entire world's voice would be to one side and her voice would be to one side, so hopefully he won't pay heed to other people
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: sellysona

Amazing post dhristhi..
A much needed post.
Beyhadh is first show i m watching to highlight wedding vows and make thier own version of vows.
Loving this really..
Do update with other vows too..
Mostly i thnk noone cares for vows nowdays.
I myself dont evn knw what actual seven wedding vows are


LOL you should watch how wedding vachans are taken in JNDSD. The creative of both these shows is the same and that's why she has blatantly ripped off from JNDSD and used it on Beyhadh. Pity this show is neither on par with the original nor the couple are as deeply/spiritually emboldened like Vitharv, nor do they have any chemistry😆

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