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Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: Shweta13
Archie you have explained it so so well.
Undoing, rebuilding and heal his Vividha is what Atharva needs to do, he understands as i mentioned earlier too but understanding and feeling are different. He needs his Vividhas courage and her surrendering to him to heal her which is so so difficult for Vividha.

She needs everything as before and she is still standing tall but shattered inside. She needs to open up to Atharva for her willingness as well as intense desire to go back to old days. She knows it too well too that they are the only medicine for each other.

Shweta 🤗... Thanks you for this and the reply also on Whispas post this afternoon...

Its becoming more and more difficult to watch vividha in this State ...I am so looking forward to her breakdown ... till that happens she will be suffocating ...look at the damage everyone has done to her ... ravish hit the final nail in the coffin with all that public humiliation ...How broken and scattered she is ...

She is literally like a dead person living if I may say that .Yes understanding is something you do from a distance and Feeling is the thing that happens when you are one with the person in question .I am so waiting for Atharv to heal her ... and i think his announcement of marriage is the first attempt by him to make her to open up to him ... She can only heal in his arms ...

Today I am happy with Atharv ... and the decision he has made to help her find a direction irrespective of whether he is part of the further journey or not ...Nobody else can give her this freedom in her life for her happiness. . He truly is not thinking about himself today ... Only she is in his thoughts... ...Something that Ravish however mahaan will never be able to do

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Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: whispa
Hey Archie
So lovely to see your post! And beautifully written as always.

We are always affected by situations and our surroundings and these things leave a mark on us whether we realise it or not.

For Vividha life changed for the worse three months ago. From having a happy family and loving boyfriend, she lost everything and had to go and live with strangers and depend on them.

And when they started showing kindness, she began to feel grateful because everything else that was hers was destroyed.

And when Atharv came back, Vividha realised it wasn't going to be easy. She couldn't just pick up from where they left off because they had both been through so much pain.

And like you said Archie, ViTharv need to start re-building everything. Brick by brick. It's going to take time to heal. But I have no doubt they will get there.

Whispa 🤗

Thank you ... 😊 ... for all the encouragement

Posts come only when my heart aches ... and its been aching for the last few days seeing vividha...

What a situation life has brought them too... AnD everybody who crossed their path during this phase has only made it more miserable for Vividha ... that includes even Sujatha ...They have induced guilt , guilt and more guilt ...Ravish has of course done much more ... like gaslighting ... not taken care of her security and all ...All and all left her as a big mess ...😕

Now Atharv has to literally pick her up and heal her ... because he is the only one who really cares ...how terrible is Uma for making things worser than they already are for her daughter ...

They both a re so close yet so so far apart ...It will be interesting to see them heal each other and re-build their relationship all over again

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ARCHRE

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Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: EternalStars.
A very well-thought and well-written post. I don't know it kind of affected me beyond me ViTharv. Vividha has Atharv who will heal her and make her whole again. How many in this world are blessed with the same? How many around us wear masks we cannot seem to pull away? How many yearn to be whole again, but cannot? Are we all given the chance to re-build? Isn't faith sometimes the only thing we hold on to?
It truly takes a person who can understand your soul to tear away the masks. And such people are rare. Surrender to each other and healing will take place. ViTharv are going to be testimonial to that.

Thank you 'Eternal Stars ' ( what can I call you ?)

All of us do face situations in some way or the other where our spirits are battered sometimes , dont we ? Th extent of damage may vary but it is a process which finally takes a toll on the person concerned ...In vividhas case its reached a certain extreme ... A certain terrible extreme and mostly ravish's supression and the final humiliation made it the worst ...I dont understand how can that even be an act of selflessness ... Walking away silently and applying for the divorce would have earned much more respect ... but then regressive desi Tv ...

In most cases when you are shattered only a loved one , someone who truly cares for you can help you rebuild yourselves ... Because rebuilding somebody is really an act of complete selflessness ,,,, in which all your time is only theirs ... like you said not everybody is fortunate enough to have an Atharv who can put the other before themselves ... If you have one like him , damages can be surely recover even if it involves time ...

I liked reading what you wrote 😊 ...We all do carry our masks on us , dont we ?

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Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: FortunaMajor
Beautiful Post Archie! I am actually liking the way the makers taking it, like beagle pointed out in the AT Phase 1 was two kids falling in love, happy, carefree & exploring physical intimacy but phase 3 has brought them to point where they are nursing broken hearts, fighting insecurities etc. They have matured but not by choice, Vividha had to become mature to face what life was throwing at her! and with all that she had to go through she is now broken and like you have pointed out, Atharv has to relive her pain to heal it!

Vaish ... Thank you ...Sometimes i feel too much pain ... and then decide to write ... Otherwise I can just be lazy 😊 ...

Yes it is journey from the young love to a more matured one ... A love which was all about the smaller things which is slowly moving to take a more mature form between A man and A women . Vividha is emotionally tied down in too many strings that are pulling onto her heart at the moment ... Those strings need to be slowly loosened ... and untied so that she can be set free ... And she is at the moment not letting anybody touch them ... It will be interesting to see how Atharv reaches them ... and undoes the knots ... taking utmost care that it does not hurt her in the process... This journey is going to be amazing and equally painful to watch .

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Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: sweetygirl28
Can't agree more archie
Beautiful post

Thanks you Sweety 😊 ... Have a great day with the 2 lill cuties

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Komal

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Rocker

Posted: 8 years ago

#16

Beautiful post

Completely agree with your thoughts

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Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: _KOMAL
Beautiful post
Completely agree with your thoughts

Thanks Komal ...😊

.I guess i am off at work today ...Will peep into the At sometime in between

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srilatha1

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Posted: 8 years ago

#18

hey archre!

that's a very nice post. isn't it ironic that even vividha receives atharv in the similar state? and she heals him. it's the same process all over again, but from atharv's side.

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