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ARCHRE

@ARCHRE

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Posted: 9 years ago

Something that is the most difficult ...

Building anything from scratch for the FIRST TIME is always the easiest task ... may be challenging though because its the first time and new .There is a lot of sensitive and conscious effort by a lot of people today into building the thinking of children , building adults and finally building relationships , simply because its difficult to undo if its not nurtured correctly right from the beginning.

Undoing is a close to impossible task once damage is done . And Re- building just cannot happen if healing-from damage does not happen .

Vividha.... A happy individual... who was further strengthened by the ideals of Atharvs thinking and love ... A person responsible for building her strength to a great extent .

The moment Atharv disappeared from the scene and even a lill earlier , irreversible damage had started ...Damages by her father , her societal husband and his family , her own mother and Atharvs mother who never cared for her as an individual ... Damages to her soul and existence that broke her up completely into so many lill pieces that she remained shattered like a cracked glass ... short of falling apart .

This is the state in which Atharv received her back into his life ... with the damages done and BROKEN ... Picking up the pieces of all the damages done by others , undoing it and Re-Building is a difficult task.

Its ironical that for him to even start the process he actually needs to feel what happened in those months of his nonexistence ... Purely goes to say that he now needs to live all her pain all over again , heal it and then start building her up again ... Just because he loves and truly cares for her and so does she . Atharv ...Wish you a lot of strength here .

While in society today , we see endless damages done to people by a lot of external elements , that leave a person shattered ... healing the damage is an effort only taken up by people who love you unconditionally and who truly care .

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Posted: 9 years ago

Here comes , another great writer...

Archie 🤗 beautiful writen...

Completely agree with your post :)

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harmanjot

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Posted: 9 years ago

Very Beautiful & well written post Archie 🤗

You have puts your thoughts so well. Yes Archie Vivi is completely shattered down. The past three months gives Vivi mental torture more. Atharav is the only person who's loves & support not only helps Vividha to regain her lost strength again but also helps her to rediscovered her life again.

I completely agreed with your post 👍🏼

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Shweta13

@Shweta13

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Posted: 9 years ago

Archie you have explained it so so well.

Undoing, rebuilding and heal his Vividha is what Atharva needs to do, he understands as i mentioned earlier too but understanding and feeling are different. He needs his Vividhas courage and her surrendering to him to heal her which is so so difficult for Vividha.

She needs everything as before and she is still standing tall but shattered inside. She needs to open up to Atharva for her willingness as well as intense desire to go back to old days. She knows it too well too that they are the only medicine for each other.

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whispa

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Posted: 9 years ago

Hey Archie

So lovely to see your post! And beautifully written as always.

We are always affected by situations and our surroundings and these things leave a mark on us whether we realise it or not.

For Vividha life changed for the worse three months ago. From having a happy family and loving boyfriend, she lost everything and had to go and live with strangers and depend on them.

And when they started showing kindness, she began to feel grateful because everything else that was hers was destroyed.

And when Atharv came back, Vividha realised it wasn't going to be easy. She couldn't just pick up from where they left off because they had both been through so much pain.

And like you said Archie, ViTharv need to start re-building everything. Brick by brick. It's going to take time to heal. But I have no doubt they will get there.

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lakshmi

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Posted: 9 years ago

A very well-thought and well-written post. I don't know it kind of affected me beyond me ViTharv. Vividha has Atharv who will heal her and make her whole again. How many in this world are blessed with the same? How many around us wear masks we cannot seem to pull away? How many yearn to be whole again, but cannot? Are we all given the chance to re-build? Isn't faith sometimes the only thing we hold on to?
It truly takes a person who can understand your soul to tear away the masks. And such people are rare. Surrender to each other and healing will take place. ViTharv are going to be testimonial to that.

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933191

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Posted: 9 years ago

Beautiful Post Archie! I am actually liking the way the makers taking it, like beagle pointed out in the AT Phase 1 was two kids falling in love, happy, carefree & exploring physical intimacy but phase 3 has brought them to point where they are nursing broken hearts, fighting insecurities etc. They have matured but not by choice, Vividha had to become mature to face what life was throwing at her! and with all that she had to go through she is now broken and like you have pointed out, Atharv has to relive her pain to heal it!

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ARCHRE

@ARCHRE

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: Ultimatevikku7
Here comes , another great writer...
Archie 🤗 beautiful writen...

Completely agree with your post :)

Now thats too much of a praise Zuhu...Thank you 🤗

Glad you liked it...

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ARCHRE

@ARCHRE

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: harmanjot
Very Beautiful & well written post Archie 🤗

You have puts your thoughts so well. Yes Archie Vivi is completely shattered down. The past three months gives Vivi mental torture more. Atharav is the only person who's loves & support not only helps Vividha to regain her lost strength again but also helps her to rediscovered her life again.

I completely agreed with your post 👍🏼

Thanks Jyoti 🤗

Vividha is going thru such a painful phase ... really and we all connect to the pain ...Its like she is not even able to pull herself together ... and the only other person who cares truly for her is only and only Atharv ...Hope he is able to heal her soon enough ...with his love

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sweetygirl28

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Can't agree more archie

Beautiful post

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