SOTW4: Telling parents about a BF/GF. - Page 3

@ Amrit, i will think about it 😉

@Usha_Pooja, yeah thats a good idea too, just causually invite him and drop hints you like him 🤣

Originally posted by: usha_pooja

tell when when they are calm and approch the situation in a delicate way. Or try introducing the person as a friend first and when he gets a good name from the parents then tell the truth.

yeah this is a good idea as well😉

make good impressions on ur parents..then they wont say that we dont like this guy😳😆if they like him as ur frnd, then they wont have ne problm in accepting him as ur bf of future hubbie😉

Originally posted by: amrit23

yeah this is a good idea as well😉

make good impressions on ur parents..then they wont say that we dont like this guy😳😆if they like him as ur frnd, then they wont have ne problm in accepting him as ur bf of future hubbie😉

aha! Kahani mein twist😉 Yeah they may like him as a person but then what if it all just comes down to religion😳

Originally posted by: SweetAngel18

^^ Yeah they will like him at first point but then religion will come in it again. Personally i think that parents should lets their kids choose their partner because after all its them that has to spend their whole life with their partner. All of us our blood are red, then why religion have to come in it..If only Religion wasn't such an important aspect in marriage, then am sure the world would have been a much better place to live...

Yeah i agree, its us who will have to spend our live with whoever we choose and there is no guarantee that will last but there is no guarantee an arranged marriage will work either. Even a less guarantee there as you wont know the person as well as you could know him/her.

Yeah we are all human and yeah if religion never came into less fights and a better place.

However yeah we are all human but the religion seperates us and racists will never cease to exist.

Originally posted by: SweetAngel18

^^ Yeah they will like him at first point but then religion will come in it again. Personally i think that parents should lets their kids choose their partner because after all its them that has to spend their whole life with their partner. All of us our blood are red, then why religion have to come in it..If only Religion wasn't such an important aspect in marriage, then am sure the world would have been a much better place to live...

i agree with u 100%...

not only religion..but even caste comes b/w us..its like a person belonging to not so high class can never think of marrying some1 of the upper class..

there r Sooo Manyyyyy factors...that separate humans from humans..and a lover from the other...

lucky r those, who get the one they love for lifetime..whereas there were, are, n will b ppl, who might not b able to fulfill their heart's desire due to these religion, caste issues

(btw i love the txt in ur sig😳its awesum..lovely)

^ Yeah lucky are those that get their loved one...

Thank You...😳

Yes Amrit, thats very true, 😊

So many restrictions, and so many factors seperating people.

However if people took note of all these factors everyone would be single 😆

a typical case of pseudo-secular india. in which holy book is it written that a girl in deep love with a guy should not marry him because that guy can not understand god in a different name?

the girl should talk to her parents and just ask their blessings point blanc.

having said that if i am her one of the parents, i will have a heart attack. since the kid i loved the most betrayed my sentiment and did something behind the scene which i would have loved to get involved from the beginning. parents are not your enemies.

Thanks sunil 😊

Yeah i know what you mean. If we were in the situation we would want to go for our love but if we were the parents then our perspective changes 😳

Hmm well we are all hypocrites in our lives 😉 at some point.