saanjh, arjun and families..

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Posted: 9 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: soumya04

If they were behaving like arjun cheated on saanjh, arjun would have got many punches from prem, nonstop lectures from suman and vandana. But no one said anything to arjun, even vandana, on the day they returned, said it's not arjun or saanjh fault that he loves Maya. So she is behaving like arjun cheated on saanjh while saying it's not arjun fault? She is just sad for saanjh, she loves her like her own daughter.

Err, they have all been blaming Maya by saying things like Maya ne Arjun ko tumse chheen liya, etc.

Even Prem, who is usually fairly sensible, has said that.

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Posted: 9 years ago

#12

Saanjh and Arjun families are like those trp aunties who believe.. to hell with with love .. if the girl is innocent and pure and always right and she cries a lot like a weak person she deserves the guy even though he never liked her more than a friend!!!

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Posted: 9 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: ishakumar

That's our question
Why do they act like only Saanjh is right for Arjun
their opinion may be because, she is good, cares for her son, etc etc. i also think they were wrong. they know it now that he loves maya, and they are not blaming him as if he cheated on saanjh. like i said their behaviour would have been much more explosive on saanjh being cheated by arjun.
They are sad for Saanjh as though Arjun cheated her... lol
sannjh was miserable, and it was suman and vandana who encouraged saanjh most. aren't these reasons enough for them to feel for saanjh. from where this cheating thing came from?
He never said he loved her so where does the question of cheating on her arise from?
when did i say he cheated on her?
They said Saanjh gave her own happiness for Maya... but what if that happiness was never meant for Saanjh in the first place?
one of saanjh dialogue was -you must have written something good for me, take it and save maya. she didn't say take arjun and save maya. but she was genuinely praying, isn't this is what matter most?
Arjun can have his own choice.. he never looked at Saanjh as anything more than a friend
i know that, never said they are best or anything.

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Posted: 9 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: zara1ksg
Saanjh and Arjun families are like those trp aunties who believe.. to hell with with love .. if the girl is innocent and pure and always right and she cries a lot like a weak person she deserves the guy even though he never liked her more than a friend!!!

exactly, that was the worst thing, they were thinking about all the factors except love. even from all other things, they don't seem good for each other.

but there is also a good thing that, they are not blaming arjun and forcing him. they are dealing with the situation just fine

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Posted: 9 years ago

#15

First of all they all wanted saanjh and arjun to get married as they felt that would be nice...it was thier assumptions and that a how they thought from the begining..like how Maya learnt to handle people because of her traumatic childhood the same way because of their happier days with saanjh they felt saanjh would be perfect...and now the balloon in broken and intially they are little upset and now all are ok with arjun and Maya and in fact asking saanjh to move on...this is very much normal to be expect someone to be the partner and then to move on..did anyone hold arjuns collar and asked him to marry saanjh ,No right...then what...all are talking as if people are holding arjun back ..no one is holding him...no one even questioned arjun except that small boy who can't take his sister leaving so he messaged arjun...others are minding thier own mistake...everyone respected arjuns feelings thus stepped back when they come to know of Maya...to know more log on to www.indiaforums.behadh forums.all pages .com to know how cringy,irritating ,how come people can expect saanjh weds arjun theory so and so..its in every page...

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Posted: 9 years ago

#16

Guys show is about Maya the character and Maya or rather perceptions in literal sense. It deals with how perceptions are formed, how we nurture them, how we think they are correct and how they affect our decisions.

Saanjh is known to all Arjun-Saanjh are BFFs also Arjun is not a committed boy. Saanjh loves him. So why not. And all have seen them as pair maybe with grand kids also. Problem with perception is it is formed without taking opinion from the real stakeholder.

Arjun had a perception of how Vandana took away his father. And that is fed through society's prism and those movies of 70s 80s that show how step mothers torture the kids and can never love them.

Another nut case is Jhanvi. Living in delusional world. Those woman whose only job is pati sudharao mission. Glorified in many soaps the eternal abusive wife still whining for her husband😆😆. Formed once again by society's attitude towards marriage and the thought process a woman has to tolerate rubbish and she can correct a good for nothing man😆😆

Maya likes in the glass bubble she has to manipulate everyone to get what she wants.

So everyone and everything is perception or Maya in the show.