saanjh, arjun and families..

Since start of the show am trying to understand as to why everyone in both families wants Arjun to choose saanjh as life partner? No doubt that they are BFF but there wasn't a single instance where Arjun indicates that he loves Saajh n wants to be with her forever. And more over Saanjh never ever expressed her feelings to Arjun. So why on the earth both families are unhappy with Arjun for not choosing Saanjh? They are behaving as if Arjun cheated on or ditched Saanjh for Maaya.

Saanjh is always right... Stop questioning why everybody likes her n wants her.

Originally posted by: nitzy_21

Saanjh is always right... Stop questioning why everybody likes her n wants her.

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i feel sorry for Arjun

Agree, I will never undersrand how/why their families assume that Saanjh and Arjun will be a thing. Arjun's every choice is questioned or looked down upon. Everyone's insane

Originally posted by: soumya04

If they were behaving like arjun cheated on saanjh, arjun would have got many punches from prem, nonstop lectures from suman and vandana. But no one said anything to arjun, even vandana, on the day they returned, said it's not arjun or saanjh fault that he loves Maya. So she is behaving like arjun cheated on saanjh while saying it's not arjun fault? She is just sad for saanjh, she loves her like her own daughter.

That's our question
Why do they act like only Saanjh is right for Arjun
They are sad for Saanjh as though Arjun cheated her... lol
He never said he loved her so where does the question of cheating on her arise from?
They said Saanjh gave her own happiness for Maya... but what if that happiness was never meant for Saanjh in the first place?
Arjun can have his own choice.. he never looked at Saanjh as anything more than a friend

About whole mairrage planning thing, these things are not unusual in India, not saying they were right. But how arjun is trapped or anything. No one is forcing him to leave maaya for saanjh, he was oblivious to situation all the time. Always he did what he wanted.

Sometimes family know what's best, and Saanj is like old furniture so comfortable and always there, they feel that she can give the best happiness to Arjun as he is always having carefree fun with her.

Originally posted by: rakshaanra

Sometimes family know what's best, and Saanj is like old furniture so comfortable and always there, they feel that she can give the best happiness to Arjun as he is always having carefree fun with her.

Someone who can look out for him, and he also looks out for her and cares for her too. I don't think he can ever imagine life without Saanj, she has to be there.

Many successful marriages are built on this strong foundation of security and comfort.

However many junnon weddings fall apart when the spark dies, and people suffer like anything