An advice to Anika: apne izzat apne hath mein hoti hai!!!

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Yes Anika!!! you should know that better than anyone else but unfortunately you don't, feelings and emotions are never in our control, you know no limits when you are in love, caring for someone, getting emotional, possessive,passionate are all different colors and shades of love, you guys might think that I am jumping to conclusions only after reading a spoiler article but what I am writing now is based more on what has happened in the past, now that she's helplessly and effortlessly in love with her abusive husband if cold behavior is what she's going to get she must not be shocked or disappointed, she must think for once about the situation in which she got married to him or I would rather say how Shivaay made her marry him, she felt so miserable and was disgusted with him, she even told him she's feeling like she's suffocated on the first night of their wedding.Now I will not count each and everything that shivaay did to her or how terribly she handled all situations and despite all of that today she has fallen for him because shivaay too redeemed himself for miserable things he said and did to her but not all of them, the situation is not yet under control, omkara being illegitimate truth, tia's pregnancy disaster , shivaay himself in dilemma because of the strong feelings he has for his wife, the wife who he has not yet declared his wife in front of the whole world and there's guilt too and fear not just for her but for family because the attacks are getting unstoppable , I hope keeping all this in mind, Anika will try to give shivaay some space, she must give herself space too, it will do good for both herself and to shivaay.

All this is about space, she will never stop caring for shivaay and vice versa, but her love will be more dignified if she will respect and understand shivaay's feelings and his dilemma, though it will going to hurt but when shivaay will reciprocate to her feelings she will feel that all that wait was worth it.

That's what love is all about.I hope Anika will not be carried away by the emotions otherwise she will disappoint herself, shivaay is not an easy person when it comes to feelings, Anika should play it safe and must no get hurt.

Anika should keep in mind, that in eyes of world tia is shivaay's wife
she was nothing but a mere option for shivaay though the things
are changing but the fact remains


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Yeah!. But I think Anika is an over emotional peson. She always craved for the love which Shivay is "unknowningly" giving her. So she is falling hard for him! But ya, once she will realise the diff of class b/w them she will defo back off. And I want her to seperate from Shivay, Let Shivay repent for his mistakes phir phailate rehna jitna ishq ka raita phailana ho 🤣
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Point hai boss .
Cool analysis ya.
Women always have tendency to forgive and forget men easily but few men do same but 95% men have this ego or caught up in situations like sso .
What if sso is forced to be cold with Anika tia mom might have hand in this .
About Anika being in love emotions with sso in particular because she feels a security in her life .
All her life Anika was looking after her bro and managing house hold on her own her life went in hard path and family was only sahil she always craved for a family and security.
Sso married her unknowingly he brought a security in her life were she can lean on him she has 2 brothers omru were she can depend on and dadi as mother figure were she can lean on .
This family of hers was introduced by sso even though it was forced one he gave her a family were she feels secured and lean on .
Sso softness and caring nature made her fall in love not only post marriage that feelings was from long it's gets enlightened now because sso openly showing that to her he too flowing in that stream of love not realizing a rock might divert the flow of the love stream .

Gul shows such romance in Jan - feb and later separation .
To get in to depth of love such heart breaks are needed in the story so be prepared but don't take it serious it depends on trp if it's not working she will bring them together within a week as we saw in daksh track .
Chill Maro enjoy cheesy romance
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I will not be surprised if shivaay again behave in same way the way he behaved on marriage day.. he is very unpredictable man.
And Anika is going forward with this love track. He is falling for shivaay who did what not with her. Well if this is so then i can only say go ahead lady and be ready for any kind of results. Don't cry then and say shivaay is Rude or wrong.. he is what he is.. and i agree Apni Izzat Apna Hath Hoti Hai.. aur yahen Anika Ki Izzat Shivaay Ka Hath mein hai.. so we can expect anything..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shobhna23

Yeah!. But I think Anika is an over emotional peson. She always craved for the love which Shivay is "unknowningly" giving her. So she is falling hard for him! But ya, once she will realise the diff of class b/w them she will defo back off. And I want her to seperate from Shivay, Let Shivay repent for his mistakes phir phailate rehna jitna ishq ka raita phailana ho 🤣



in bold: totally agree.


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: -LetItGo-



in bold: totally agree.




Since the day they met ALL SSO has told her is that they are not of the same class? Has it taken her 7 months to realise this simple fact? He even said that she was a street bug or something? Kuda? Is that an insect? After hearing that, what more does she need to hear to know he doesnt think of her as his equal or worthy of someone high class like him? I think it has been made abundantly clear to her. So what is she waiting for?
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Posted: 8 years ago
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yes...anika shud keep it subtle...but I'm afraid tht she may not be able to do tht...she is extrovert by nature...even introverts become outgoing,bold and strange when in love...love will creat turbulence in her life...it will be difficult fr her to hide her feelings which may annoy shivaay. and abt shivaay... fr him , she is a habit now...not even necessity... she's not being around makes him uncomfortable ,vulnerable,emptied...but he can manage it... her childish behavior makes him feel amused ...a sense of care they share together...but still there is boundary...a line between them ...which he was always clear abt ... when khoon,khandan and all tht he is most serious abt will prove him wrong...there is a possibility tht he himself is the illegitimate son of one of the oberoys...after all daima couldn't complete her words...I don't think tht those dialouges of dev and reyhan's father on illegitimacy was delivered without any reason...may be when he won't have anything he've always cherished ... but anika still wanna be part of his broken self...may be then he will realize her love and finally will admit it to himself tht he do love her too.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Mallu

"wahi hoga jo manzure CVs chaahe gein"

pardon my hindi😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan



Since the day they met ALL SSO has told her is that they are not of the same class? Has it taken her 7 months to realise this simple fact? He even said that she was a street bug or something? Kuda? Is that an insect? After hearing that, what more does she need to hear to know he doesnt think of her as his equal or worthy of someone high class like him?I think it has been made abundantly clear to her. So what is she waiting for?

kuda means garbage i think ...she is kinda used to it cause of sundari bua...she used to give her this kuda treatment 2 times a day...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I don't think she understands this. She can't even think rationally where SSO is concerned, she's totally head over heels in love with him...it's disappointing but I can't really sympathise with ppl who willingly put themselves in a situation being fully aware beforehand what the outcome is gonna be.
I don't know how she expects SSO to reciprocate her love & give their relationship a real name when he has never ever given any hint of this in the past or made any false promises. He has always made it clear that they are not equals in status & class and thus simply don't belong together. If even after that, she expects him to do the exact opposite, only she will bear the loss.


I have no issues with her loving him, ppl have no control over their feelings. But her giving SSO mooney-eyed looks and constantly chasing after him despite him constantly rejecting her is something that is very unpleasant for me to watch. I'm not saying she should reject him...but she should maintain a dignified distance and literally back off until he makes a move.


Her behaviour right now is analagous to a person jumping into a well by choice and then crying hoarse that they can't get out. But sorry, I can't sympathise with ppl like that & I definitely can't relate to them.

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