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Posted: 8 years ago
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I agree with many on this forum that Sona needs to stand up for herself, defend herself, speak up and clarify issues instead of standing silently and allowing the disgusting Dixits to make wrong assumptions about her and taking the blame for things she didn't do. But today looking at her, all I could think of was how broken she looks. She literally looks broken. The depraved Dixits have broken her spirit. She is a pale shadow of her former self. Her spunk, her grit, her belief in herself and her confidence, why, even her beautiful smile -- all gone. Relentless onslaught of insults will do this to a person. And
it is relentless. Even when she has gone to see her parents , Mami doesn't lose the opportunity to say something bad about her.

It is terrible to see her like this. One can sense her desperation. She is ready to do anything to please her monster MIL. While I don't agree with her actions (no one can decide what you choose to do with your body, whether you have a baby or whether u go in for infertility treatment and no woman should ever allow anyone to make such decisions for her), it is evident that her actions are a result of deep insecurity and desperation. But if I were here, I would question what I am doing in a family that can make you feel so desperate and insecure in the first place.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I agree with each and every word...
And i liked how dev listened to gkb's taunts...expected

But i loved the question she asked ishwari in precap
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Posted: 8 years ago
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YUP totally agree with you.
I guess she has totally given up on her husband and her MIL.she do whatever they asked her to do. fact that she was asking for respect in front of his husband shows how much she has broke down.😕
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Well said. Sona is so broken. At this time...dev should b by her side...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Anjali333

Well said. Sona is so broken. At this time...dev should b by her side...


Exactly...This time Dev on any cost should support her.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: kar08

I agree with many on this forum that Sona needs to stand up for herself, defend herself, speak up and clarify issues instead of standing silently and allowing the disgusting Dixits to make wrong assumptions about her and taking the blame for things she didn't do. But today looking at her, all I could think of was how broken she looks. She literally looks broken. The depraved Dixits have broken her spirit. She is a pale shadow of her former self. Her spunk, her grit, her belief in herself and her confidence, why, even her beautiful smile -- all gone. Relentless onslaught of insults will do this to a person. And

it is relentless. Even when she has gone to see her parents , Mami doesn't lose the opportunity to say something bad about her.

It is terrible to see her like this. One can sense her desperation. She is ready to do anything to please her monster MIL. While I don't agree with her actions (no one can decide what you choose to do with your body, whether you have a baby or whether u go in for infertility treatment and no woman should ever allow anyone to make such decisions for her), it is evident that her actions are a result of deep insecurity and desperation. But if I were here, I would question what I am doing in a family that can make you feel so desperate and insecure in the first place.


@ BOLD...I totally agree...that is the present matured educated thought...and the old Sona would have done the same.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Exactly Sona is heartbroken...
Not just because of Ishu's taunts & blames!
But because she knows she has again lost Dev to Ishwari ...now dev will dance on Ishu's tunes and make Sona do the same...if it is against her will also!

I just hated that Scene when dev asked Sona to say yes hurrily coz he needs to get maata back asap...and didn't even wait for her approval...and assumed it himself that sona will not deny his decision...😡😡
All he wants to think abt the present not paying heed to the future...😕😕
He assumes that Sona will still be accepted as a part of family even if the treatment fails...
Repeating his earlier mistakes...and living in his delusions..

What more can we expect from him??🥱🥱
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Sona is broken. But not today. She was broken when she realized that her so-called true love relies on his mother to be able to keep his commitment to her.
Since then everything she did stemmed from her fear of losing that love which she considered to be more valuable than her own self-respect.

She married Dev without trying to find out if next time his mother puts her foot down, whether he will dump her again.

Love that causes you fear, is not real.

True love gives you courage, strength and power to fight against the whole world.

Sonakshi's love just made her weak.


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: tia.o

Sona is broken. But not today. She was broken when she realized that her so-called true love relies on his mother to be able to keep his commitment to her.

Since then everything she did stemmed from her fear of losing that love which she considered to be more valuable than her own self-respect.

She married Dev without trying to find out if next time his mother puts her foot down, whether he will dump her again.

Love that causes you fear, is not real.

True love gives you courage, strength and power to fight against the whole world.

Sonakshi's love just made her weak.



Agree. Its just that it struck me forcibly today. There's no fight left in her. She looks defeated.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Poor girl. We can see ourself in her , the happy bride trying her level best to satisfy her Mil. All of us does that after marriage , friction rifts between MIL and DIL is all but natural. It's Dil call to be accommodating. Sooner or later everyone tires out and their peak is reached. It's high time Sona should have reached her peak of accommodating and understanding for this relationship. Hope she reaches their sooner before she completely shatters herself. It's really sad seeing her hurting herself and for what makes me question.
No body in that household including Dev deserve her and r taking her nature for a ride. It must be disheartening For Bijoy Bose to c his daughter like that. That explains his anger .

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