You dont become weak by sharing pain

We all live in a world where there is no one to listen to us. No one want to hear our pain. No one wants to empathize wiith us. We are always asked to wear a mask that everything is alright.

Yeah very well said. I kept on saying earlier that Saanj & Arjun may be the best of buddies & co dependent on each other but something is missing there .. they don't have a connection which I always saw between Maya & Arjun & just like you mentioned that they share something deep .. the pain of lonliness . This lonliness will connect them . Maya was always lonely but Arjun even among these people is still lonely .
Today I felt how dumb can Ayaan & Saanjh be ? All these days that they had fights Arjun just gave her a lollipop or something trivial & how come all of a sudden he brought that expensive dress for her ! Didn't this strike them or mostly Saanjh at all ? ! Why her duffer will suddenly spend so much on her 🤔
Vandana & Suman they are like these crazy women who thinks their children are still small & that they will do according to what they had wished for them ... like seriously ! Arjun doesn't have a romantic feeling towards Saanjh & is becoming friendly with Maya & for that they are blaming Maya .
Vandana from the precap I came to know was actually Arjun's mom's friend & then married her friend's hubby ...no wonder he hates her so much !
Anyways I found today's episode okish .. nothing phenomenal ! Like they showed something which we had already guessed from the precap

Shruthi, I haven't watched the episode so I can't say but one thing, what is wrong with vandana? everyone here is only looking out for their own needs, not arjuns. Vandana wants saanjh because she likes her and also she can bridge gap between them, suman wants her daughter to get her fairytale but what does arjun want? this interference will drive him to the arms of maya.

@unique Suman and Vandana were typical females. Blame it on the girl for the son's problems. I told Vandana likes Saanjh she will get Saanjh as her bahu. Fed up Maya will do that Ayan-Saanjh marriage if pushed, even if she ends up hated for whatsover 😆😆

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

We all live in a world where there is no one to listen to us. No one want to hear our pain. No one wants to empathize wiith us. We are always asked to wear a mask that everything is alright.

But in life we need atleast one place or one person to whom we can unburden ourselves. A person who doesnt judge us, who accepts us for what we are.

In most cases that person will be the one who has travelled a journey similar to us. Who has a pain similar to us. Only when you take the journey you understand the pain.

Here Maya is a lonely girl, in a way Arjun is also a lonely boy. Because no one understand him. Everyone expect him to behave in a certain way. He is supposed to love Saanjh, why because everyone thinks she is the right girl for him, because Saanjh loves him, it doesnt matter whether Saanjh can move according to his ambitions. Whether Saanjh can change position according to his needs.

At this point she cannot. She wants Arjun to have middle class dreams, while he wants to fly. And a woman is making him fly. In addition to that , the lady is willing to come to his level and enjoy the comforts of his life also. I am not saying Maya is perfect or she has the qualities of a perfect wife. But atleast she tries to fit into that mould of Arjun which is different from hers, which unfortunately Saanjh doesnt.

Maya and Arjun share something deep and that is the pain of lonliness. Both their childhoods have been deprived of 1 parent and that void is very much common to them. It connects them at a level neither Saanjh nor anyone else in the family can understand.

well said

Originally posted by: tanvismile

Arjun is lonely boy? Till today he was free, had girlfriends, full freedom he got in his life. Saanjh fulfilled his wishes and solved his problems. Did the girl have a life of her own. Saanjh never wanted arjun to have certain dreams but she always supported him in his dreams. Nobody has ever come in his way till today. That's is reason why today he turned out easily gullible boy. Today everyone understands him but he isn't able to understand anyone.

Any mother would let their child walk on fire. Maya is fire that they are trying to save him. The pandit said that arjun will drift away from his loved ones and join the wrong hands. They can sense arjun landing in danger. So they are trying to save him. The truth maya will definitely land up him in danger. Infact the first episode itself maya s duppata fell on arjun and that would cause an accident and arjun would have got injured. They are already sensing it. We saw maya s tragic story but if we just focus on arjun s family side. They are right.

I just hope I dint end up hurting you... (if at all I sounded harsh)

The last couple of epis have been a bit slow paced, but have been important for fleshing out some of the characters, especially Maya. You have to feel for her given what she's been through- heck despite me expecting SaaJun as a logical conclusion, I wouldn't feel too bad if it ended in ArYa, although the biggest hurdle for me is how they'll make that a relationship of equals like SaaJun currently is.

I guess what the pandit said starts now- he will join forces with Maya- probably even stay there for a couple of days if things with Vandana and Ayaan don't cool down- will probably feel awkward staying at Maya's place- so she'll plan the Mauritius getaway?

Looking forward to whatever the CV's have planned.

Exactly ! Well said Shruthi !!
The thing is these ladies are thinking saanjh is ryt for arjun & bcoz saanjh also loves arjun & vandana had liking for saanjh all the way she wants arjun to love saanjh.
If not Maya they wud have problem with even other girl if she's in arjun life. They will get her away from his life bcoz THEY want only saanjh in arjun life.
And arjun should accept their wishes as a 5yr old kid.

Originally posted by: pomegranate

Leading a flamboyant life does not necessarily mean he is NOT lonely and I don't even think shruthi meant lonely in the most common way. There is emotional emptiness that resulted from a bitter childhood. He is just as damaged but masks it with his brash "i don give a damn" attitude.

Parents have a right to look out for their children but the thing is, Vandana has no rights as of now. we cannot deny that more then looking out for him, they are forcing arjun and saanjh to become a reality. no parent can take decisions like that, after all arjun is an adult, not a 6 year old.