Is SSo's anger even justified?

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Posted: 8 years ago
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hi everyone, new here. Recently started watching Ishqbaaz and just realised Shivay is angry with Anita thinking she slept with Daksh. How can he be angry? Anika and Shivay were never in a relationship...far from it he kept telling her off due to her status. He never confessed his love. She was planning his wedding. So he felt okay about marrying Tia, but also wanted Anika to remain alone in the sidelines. He chose to believe Daksh and not trust his 'Anika' . She has gone to great lengths to keep saving sso and yet he chose to believe Daksh. Basically nothing of Anika...her goodness,selflessness or anything matters as sso believes she is the worst person on earth because she maybe slept with Daksh who was her fianc at that time?


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Posted: 8 years ago
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It is called being a hypocrite and a dog in the manger! But it turns out, because he has ONS-MU, Shivaay is allowed to abuse Annika! He "secretly" loved her, so it is HER problem and she needs to remain a V or untouched or unmarried so Shivaay can feel "Happy!". Even if he has NO intention of ever giving her a place in his life, ever respecting her for the person she is or accepting his attraction towards her, it doesn't matter! She should remain "On the shelf" for Shivaay to look at and satisfy his ego that Annika will never want anyone but him!


Annika is a Woman, and what Annika wants doesn't matter and neither does SHE matter. All that matters is what Shivaay wants, what he thinks, his family pride, his ego, everything is about him! Or have you not noticed that yet? He is justified in ALL he does. That is what we hear everyday here. He can assault Annika as long as the sheets he uses to assault her on are clean! He can threaten to kill her brother because she "got in his way" by helping a girl who didn't want to be Shivaay's bride for a day escape!


Annika asked for it, and she got what she deserved. Now, her job is to justify Shivaay and say that whatever he did, he did for the love of family honor, so he is excused. But she herself doesn't know that he thinks he can insult her because he believes she has slept with another guy. (Who she had agreed to marry, but apparently she took money for it). Only a fool would believe someone like Daskh! Proves the level of intelligence Shivaay is using these days! But dumbing down the male lead so that "MU" can be created is the old formula of the CV's! So don't expect logic!


But the short answer is NO, he is no way justified in his anger when Annika was actually his wedding planner and employee, not his GF, Fiancee or wife, that he should expect "Fidelity" from her. The height of hypocrisy coming from a man who was getting married 2 days later to someone else! But...he is justified, coz he is always justified. NEVER use logic and don't ever say anything that may suggest you have a problem with a woman being treated with contempt, because she exercises her rights to do what she wants with her life! You will automatically become a feminist and be told to change the channel! That is what Gul tells people who question her. She says "don't watch" or "go and do rallying for women's rights!". What more can you expect from a story helmed by a person with such an attitude who was celebrating Shivaay's abusive behavior as the "New Good?".
Edited by MrDarcyfan - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan

It is called being a hypocrite and a dog in the manger! But it turns out, because he has ONS-MU, Shivaay is allowed to abuse Annika! He "secretly" loved her, so it is HER problem and she needs to remain a V or untouched or unmarried so Shivaay can feel "Happy!". Even if he has NO intention of ever giving her a place in his life, ever respecting her for the person she isor accepting his attraction towards her, it doesn't matter! She should remain "On the shelf" for Shivaay to look at and satisfy his ego that Annika will never want anyone but him!



Annika is a Woman, and what Annika wants doesn'tmatter and neither does SHE matter. All that matters is what Shivaay wants, what he thinks, his family pride, his ego, everything is about him! Or have you not noticed that yet? He is justified in ALL he does. That is what we hear everyday here. He can assault Annika as long as the sheets he uses to assault her on are clean! He can threaten to kill her brother because she "got in his way" by helping a girl who didn't want to be Shivaay's bride for a day escape!


Annika asked for it, and she got what she deserved. Now, her job is to justify Shivaay and say that whatever he did, he did for the love of family honor, so he is excused. But she herself doesn't know that he thinks he can insult her because he believes she has slept with another guy. (Who she had agreed to marry, but apparently she took money for it). Only a fool would believe someone like Daskh! Proves the level of intelligence Shivaay is using these days! But dumbing down the male lead so that "MU" can be created is the old formula of the CV's! So don't expect logic!


But the short answer is NO, he is no way justified in his anger when Annika was actually his wedding planner and employee, not his GF, Fiancee or wife, that he should expect "Fidelity" from her. The height of hypocrisy coming from a man who was getting married 2 days later to someone else! But...he is justified, coz he is always justified. NEVER use logic and don't ever say anything that may suggest you have a problem with a woman being treated with contempt, because she exercises her rights to do what she wants with her life! You will automatically become a feminist and be told to change the channel! That is what Gul tells people who question her. She says "don't watch" or "go and do rallying for women's rights!". What more can you expect from a story helmed by a person with such an attitude who was celebrating Shivaay's abusive behavior as the "New Good?".



Couldn't have said better.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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i really want anika to say "even if i did sleep with daksh--- why does it bother you and how did i do you wrong????"
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan

It is called being a hypocrite and a dog in the manger! But it turns out, because he has ONS-MU, Shivaay is allowed to abuse Annika! He "secretly" loved her, so it is HER problem and she needs to remain a V or untouched or unmarried so Shivaay can feel "Happy!". Even if he has NO intention of ever giving her a place in his life, ever respecting her for the person she is or accepting his attraction towards her, it doesn't matter! She should remain "On the shelf" for Shivaay to look at and satisfy his ego that Annika will never want anyone but him!



Annika is a Woman, and what Annika wants doesn't matter and neither does SHE matter. All that matters is what Shivaay wants, what he thinks, his family pride, his ego, everything is about him! Or have you not noticed that yet? He is justified in ALL he does. That is what we hear everyday here. He can assault Annika as long as the sheets he uses to assault her on are clean! He can threaten to kill her brother because she "got in his way" by helping a girl who didn't want to be Shivaay's bride for a day escape!


Annika asked for it, and she got what she deserved. Now, her job is to justify Shivaay and say that whatever he did, he did for the love of family honor, so he is excused. But she herself doesn't know that he thinks he can insult her because he believes she has slept with another guy. (Who she had agreed to marry, but apparently she took money for it). Only a fool would believe someone like Daskh! Proves the level of intelligence Shivaay is using these days! But dumbing down the male lead so that "MU" can be created is the old formula of the CV's! So don't expect logic!


But the short answer is NO, he is no way justified in his anger when Annika was actually his wedding planner and employee, not his GF, Fiancee or wife, that he should expect "Fidelity" from her. The height of hypocrisy coming from a man who was getting married 2 days later to someone else! But...he is justified, coz he is always justified. NEVER use logic and don't ever say anything that may suggest you have a problem with a woman being treated with contempt, because she exercises her rights to do what she wants with her life! You will automatically become a feminist and be told to change the channel! That is what Gul tells people who question her. She says "don't watch" or "go and do rallying for women's rights!". What more can you expect from a story helmed by a person with such an attitude who was celebrating Shivaay's abusive behavior as the "New Good?".


You said it all No need to add a lot of words.
This topic has been tackled several time on the forum.
Daksh is more intelligent than Shivaay that is why his simple and effortless plan worked and created a big havoc in the form of misunderstanding.
He knew that Shivaay was going to get trap in his words and he played a perfect game, as Daksh knows Shivaay weakness.
Shivaay has NO RIGHT over Annika at that time as she was only his employee and was supposed to leave after his wedding with Tia.
In a way he WAS CHEATING ON TIA with whom he was to tie the knot.
Annika after knowing the whole story needs to ask him why was he that jealous and thought of being dumped and CHEATED???

Edited by ALUJNA21 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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plz don't dig into that topic ,
with difficulty some how we suppressed it else I would be choppibg billu.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Even if she actually cheated him there is no justification of all these abuse of him on her. Only a psycho n criminal behaves dis way. If he tortured Anika no matter wat she did way will be d difference between him n her(If she actually cheated him)?
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Posted: 8 years ago
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No dear. His anger is so not justified. He was emotionally cheating on Tia, with Anika for heaven's sake. And that is cheating too.
Was she suppose to wait till the rest of her life just bcoz he couldn't come to terms with what he really wants in his life. No. She has all the rights to move on, with whoever she wants at whatever terms she thinks are fine.
If you say she didn't give their relationship a try, well she did confess, didn't she? She cried in front of him when he didn't say a word, when asked. So no one can say she didn't give saying it out loud a try.
I don't know how Anika's gonna react when she knows about this. And to be honest, I ain't expecting anything too. I care far too less to get disappointed now.
Edited by poemssyndrome - 8 years ago

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