What makes Saanjh's love 'unconditional' and Maya's 'obsessed' love..?

Originally posted by: ArYa-JenWin20

Well said..girl..👏

Very needed...

Even in todays episode saanjh's mother and brother said to leave Arjun alone.. keep herself distanced from Arjun.. so

If arjun loves her...though a little bit he can understand that and come back to her running...

But today saanjh said what

no I am not gonna do that.. .

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So what I can say..

Originally posted by: kratikamonange

Now coming to Saanjh and Maya and on the basis of current events what's going on... well Maya dislikes Saanjh near Arjun for obvious reasons that she loves him and doesn't wanna see any other girl near him and tries to create distance between Saanjh-Arjun. Now Saanjh too has the same problem, because she loves Arjun she doesn't want him near Maya in fear of him also falling for Maya. How much does Saanjh know Maya, she only knows the sides of Maya which Maya has shown her... Arjun has seen the vulnerablesides of Maya... he had seen Maya scared of thedark, he had seen Maya cry, he had seen Maya smile and laugh... Arjun had seen unseen sides Maya andthat's why his opinion has changed about Maya though I know he doesn't love Maya yet but he is friendly enough and gotten over his prejudice judgment of Maya. But Saanjh, Vandhana, and Saanjh's family behave as if they know all about Maya, when they've only seen of Maya is what Maya had wanted to see them and had shown them. I don't think there would've been any change in their opinion about Maya if Maya had been a 'not-psycho' person... for them, she would have always been avillain because Maya dared to love Arjun and take their darling Saanjh's love from her... no one would see the actual problem that Saanjh never expressed her feeling for Arjun openly and that either wayArjun never loves Saanjh with or with Maya in the scene. They would've still been prejudice towards Maya as if she is the devil incarnated itself and she is responsible for Saanjh's unrequited love.

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<font color="#000099" face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Thank, you have all said👏👏
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Originally posted by: Rahul93

and Arjun seems to be more happy with Maya rather than saanjh,she literally act like her mother 🤢 and this will only distance him from her and he will get closer to maya 😳

Originally posted by: Rahul93

the problem of saanj is that she think that Arjun is her property yaar its a warning from my side, I am also a guy and boys don't like dominance at all I.e., what saanjh doing right know eg Arjun leave your job Arjun don't do that, it sometimes feels like pukeworthy 🤢 , if she loves Arjun she should tell him as soon as possible and leave the decision to him only that whom he is going to choose.

Originally posted by: kavyanjali08

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<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" color="#000099">Since so many opinions are being shared in the forum and it's almost turning into war-zone I thought why not I share my opinion too😆😆😆I'm not trying to make this another fan war-zone...just sharing my views and I'm definitely not into any fan wars. Now personally, I'm not Jenny or Aneri fan.. in fact, Maya is Jenny's only character I loved so far, I mean when she was in DMG I hated her as Riddhima becauseI liked Shilpa Anand more as Riddhima and Karan-Shilpa chemistry better... but as Jennifer Winget to speak I like her. And same for Aneri, I like her but I don't like Saanjh's character, that's it...so my opinions are based on characters and not actors... none of the actors I've any problem with.</font>

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<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" color="#000099">Now coming to Saanjh and Maya and on the basis of current events what's going on... well Maya dislikes Saanjh near Arjun for obvious reasons that she loves him and doesn't wanna see any other girl near him and tries to create distance between Saanjh-Arjun. Now Saanjh too has the same problem, because she loves Arjun she doesn't want him near Maya in fear of him also falling for Maya. How much does Saanjh know Maya, she only knows the sides of Maya which Maya has shown her... Arjun has seen the vulnerablesides of Maya... he had seen Maya scared of thedark, he had seen Maya cry, he had seen Maya smile and laugh... Arjun had seen unseen sides Maya andthat's why his opinion has changed about Maya though I know he doesn't love Maya yet but he is friendly enough and gotten over his prejudice judgment of Maya. But Saanjh, Vandhana, and Saanjh's family behave as if they know all about Maya, when they've only seen of Maya is what Maya had wanted to see them and had shown them. I don't think there would've been any change in their opinion about Maya if Maya had been a 'not-psycho' person... for them, she would have always been avillain because Maya dared to love Arjun and take their darling Saanjh's love from her... no one would see the actual problem that Saanjh never expressed her feeling for Arjun openly and that either wayArjun never loves Saanjh with or with Maya in the scene. They would've still been prejudice towards Maya as if she is the devil incarnated itself and she is responsible for Saanjh's unrequited love.


Yeah that's true Arjun have seen vulnerable sides of maya... but if I'm not wrong saanj also had good impression on maya before her dinner date with her... after dinner date saanj realised that maya not only loves Arjun but also the way maya treated her with knife anyone will think she is not normal... this violent streak of maya was shown to saanj and Arjun mom where she saw how broke glass seeing saanj and Arjun together... Arjun didn't see this side... he only saw arrogant side and vulnerable side till now... arrogance means how she threw out people from work... actually he saw her violent side also in proposal where she was ready to kill both of them... so Arjun supporting maya after seeing that shocked me bcz any sane person will guess or think atleast once that whether she would have really killed both of them... Arjun being duffer ignored it... vandana saanj parents were good before until vandana saw maya like that...so obviously vandana first impression was not good on maya.. as if it's not enough saanj might have shared her dinner date happening with vandana... u raised good point that if it's some other girl then also vandana and saanj parents might have not liked it as they want saanj and Arjun marriage but vandana might not this much scared as it's now with maya bcz She said maya kuch bhi kar sakti hai for Arjun... kuch bhi... saanj mom thinks maya is making distance btw Arjun and saanj but here you are right saanj should have proposed and later they should see and react how Arjun reacts...

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<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" color="#000099">Now at the dinner Maya had called Saanjh only to pacify Arjun and also to give Saanjh a sublet warning that she loves Arjun, so wants Saanjh to back off and also that for Arjun she can do anything, even put up with Saanjh if that what makes Arjun happy... it was Maya's way of staking claim and giving warning. Then again if Maya wanted she could've been very friendly and sweetly manipulative to Saanjh on the dinner and Saanjh would've fallen for that...c'mon now we all know that Saanjh wouldn't have been able to guess Maya's intention if Maya didn't want to deliver that point across to Saanjh whatsoever. So till now Saanjh has seen of Maya is what Maya wants her to see and nothing more, so she can't go around behaving as if she knows Maya all too well and say like 'I won't let Arjun fall in traps of Maya' and she is doing a selfless act of saving her friend from evil Maya, when it's not the real case... what she is doing is to safeguard her love to not let it slip from her hand and go to the other lady. So how can only Saanjh's love only be the 'unconditional true love' and Maya's love is the 'obsessive dark toxic love'..? Just because Saanjh has been Arjun best friend already and Maya came suddenly trying to create distance between them so she can fit in between..?


At dinner Mayan gave warning to saanj but didn't act sweet bcz she wants to convey that Arjun is hers... how can she act sweet here? If shehas acted like that saanj would not be terrified and saanj and Arjun will stick together like before and roam infront of maya which maya can't see... that she why she took this approach thinking saanj would back off and actually saanj after warning hesitated to move close to Arjun infront of maya atleast so maya is successful right? She had to go in this way and showed her real side to saanj and unknowingly her real side was observed by vandana too... both of them maya and saanj loves Arjun but we can't conclude now itself whose love is unconditional or psychotic... given by show promo and concept of beyhadh evryone guessing maya love will be like that... till now we didn't see how much they can sacrifice for Arjun and how much they love him... we can take conclude maya psychotic now itself and we can only see that in future episodes...


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<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" color="#000099">If Maya is going possessive over Arjun than Saanjh is no less... she had no problem with Maya before she realized Maya loves Arjun, she had always made fun with Arjun when he criticized Maya and also tried to make him see that Maya isn't that bad... now when she got to know Maya loves Arjun, all of a sudden Maya became some sort of devil from hell who came to corrupt and snatch Arjun from her..? At first when Arjun use to talk all bad things about Maya she had no problem listening but when he said good about Maya, she would get disturbed...she never liked Arjun saying anything good about Maya like that incident of making Saanjh wait for 05 hrs at office, agreed Maya did intentionally but then again no one knew that... now she is the boss and it's possible she might not like Saanjh's work and be rude for that.. many bosses do that and Maya is one of them... it is shown that when she doesn't like someone's work she tends to make rude comment and also at that time no one was aware of Maya's growing feelings and Saanjh's closeness to Arjun was the cause of it but still when Arjun came and he was going on and on about Maya being not that bad it hadn't gone well with Saanjh... I think she was more upset with the fact that Arjun was seeing good in Maya than Maya had behaved with her actually... that's why she went throwing another emotional drama of hers. But would that be considered as manipulation? The answer is a big NO because that was Saanjh who said those... After all, she is Arjun's best friend who loves him unconditionally and she is the 'normal good' person her while Maya is the 'evil obsessive' one. Saanjh gets as much jealous of Maya as Maya is of Saanjh, which is why she had asked Arjun to quit his job after that little roadside confrontation she had with Arjun... If she feels so non-threatened of Maya and believes so much in Arjun then why even after him telling her clearly that he would refuse Maya after few days politely, why can't she have faith in him? Saanjh demands don't make her possessive or jealous but what Maya's wanting to distance Arjun from Saanjh makes only Maya the 'psycho' one for being jealous-possessive?


At that time saanj didn't go to Arjun and did emotional drama right? She was upset that maya didn't like her work and torn papers which she worked hard to prepare... anyone will get upset if their work didn't get recognized... saanj was sitting in balcony and Arjun came there and they discussed that incident . It's not like she ran away to Arjun and did her emotional drama... she was clearly upset and she tried to convey that maya is ajeeb but Arjun praised her and may be she thought he didn't believe her words when she was upset clearly... the confrontation post proposal scene is saanj told him to go out of job.. here she conveyed it out of her anger and her love for him and thinking maya will steal him away from her but later when Arjun assured she will handle she trusted him...



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<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif"><font><font color="#0000cc">Now people say Maya is manipulative but isn't Saanjh being also... I mean every time doesn't she emotionally blackmails Arjun if he is inclining more towards Maya like when Arjun rushed leaving dinner and Saanjh had said so many things to him on phone and shut-up when Arjun had blasted on her or when she saw the balloon proposal of Maya and behaved as if Arjun is her husband who justed cheated on her... or like with the promotion thing too, she went emotionally blackmailing him in the name of trying to save him from Maya. At present both ladies are fighting for the man they love with the motto</font></font><font color="#ff0066">'Everything is fair in love and war'</font><font color="#0000cc">and not with</font><font></font><font>'</font><font color="#ff0066">let him go and he'll return to me if my love is true'</font><font>. </font><font color="#0000cc">Both are fighting head on for their love, then why is only Maya being labeled as 'manipulative psychopath'..? Is it because Saanjh is only doing all this for the selfless reason of friendship, unconditional love and save her best friend from the psycho Maya..? Well I don't think so, no matter how much selfless her acts may seem but she is also doing all this to safeguard her love... before Maya she never had reason to feel insecure and threatened but now with Maya's entry, she is feeling so and fighting as much for her love as much is Maya is doing... her ways maybe not as extreme and open as Maya but she isn't no less than Maya either.


Yes you your self said saanj may not Ben extreme in her ways and that's all this show is about... hadh se jyadakuch bhi... at present both are fighting for their love and how extreme they can go is we have to see in future... ok saanj is asking him after proposal scene as if he is her husband but what about Arjun is not he answering to her like a husband?? Any friend would ask why it bothers if some girl proposes him but arjun didn't ask her and answered her as if she is his wife... honestly that confrontation looked like a husband and wife than friends... both of them behaved like that... that's why I feel there is much more than a frnship between them and Arjun is not realizing...both of them were like that till now fighting demanding each other so saanj will be insecure not only her love as a friend also bcz now her acts seemed irritating to him... saanj was like this from before but it's Arjun who is getting changed... she said right it's her aadat from before...


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<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif"><font color="#0000cc">If technically seen than what Saanjh is doing isn't very different from Maya... Saanjh wants to keep Arjun away from Maya as much as Maya wants to distance Arjun from Saanjh. I mean how does Saanjh see 'psycho' in Maya only after knowing Maya loves Arjun...Now Maya hasn't becomean unstable person in one night, so how come Saanjhcouldn't she see before that Maya ki </font><font color="#0066ff">'aankhon mein ajeeb sa pagalpan'</font><font color="#0000cc">? What has changed so much in Maya's eyes after knowing the fact that she loves Arjun which wasn't there before? I never knew you can know about a person being from just one look in the eyes after knowing that person loves whom you love but haven't seen the craziness present before knowing the love factor. Hence all Saanjh's efforts to keep Arjun from Maya are her acts of selfless unconditional love while Maya trying to put distance between Arjun-Saanjh so that she can get close to Arjun are signs of her psycho obsessive personality, very logical</font><font color="#0000cc">*note the sarcasm*</font></font>

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<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif"><font color="#000099">I don't understand,how do Saanjh or Vandhana label Maya as 'dangerous' person..? I mean what have they seen to label her that? Maya isn't some sort of wanted criminal or murderer right and yes she is known as acold and heartless person but that doesn't make them label that she is a dangerous person. So please enlighten me how do they know Maya or what did they have seen in Maya to know that she is a pyscho or abnormal person...they saw the supposed 'ajeeb sa pagalpan' in Maya's eyes..? Or ffalling in love with Arjun makes Maya psycho abnormal? Since they know it all in one glance, how come their spidy-senses came alive after knowing Maya loves Arjun...why couldn't see those signs of Maya being abnormal or dangerous before?</font></font>

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<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif"><font color="#000099">Seriously I feel all are basically hypocrites towards Maya and whatever she does is only wrong and whatever Saanjh does is right because she is the supposed 'normal safe sane' person whose love is selfless and unconditional while Maya is selfish psycho person when in real what Saanjh is doing right now isn't much different from Maya... her ways may be sublet or considered normal because she is the sweet 'sidhi-sadhi' girl makes her non-pyschofor trying to keep Arjun from Maya...all for wanting to keep her love safe.. why has Maya tried to Murder or kidnap Arjun? While Maya is more straightforward, bold and her ways are considered unethical if she wants Arjun for herself by creating distance between Arjun-Saanjh.</font></font>

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<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif"><font color="#000099">It is so baised and hypocracy at its exterme!!

Saanj and vandana mom only see her pagalpan in maya eyes in dinner episode and also anniversary episode... it's very much before proposal scene... from that time only they don't have good vibes on maya... it's not like after knowing proposal scene they became like this... why can't they say her ajeeb or pagalpan when maya herself accepted she is pagalpan infront of Arjun...

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