What makes Saanjh's love 'unconditional' and Maya's 'obsessed' love..? - Page 2

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Posted: 8 years ago
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There are so many examples that are so obvious but I'll just name a couple:
Maya: Breaks Arjun's phone when Saanjh calls.
Saanjh: Passes on Maya's gift to Arjun even though she was upset.

Maya: With the fear that Arjun will reject her, she puts both of them in danger knowingly.
Saanjh: Sees Maya and Arjun together, walks off in anger and almost gets into an accident by mistake. She didn't mean to harm herself, nor was she going to harm Arjun when they faught.

One of the differences between unconditional love and obsessed love is? Being able to let go. Maya will never be able to. Also Saanjh behaves the way she does (annoying or not) because she cares about him. Maya behaves as that because she wants him for herself, his yes or no doesn't matter much.

Also I don't understand is, no way what so ever was her dinner with Saanjh "normal". Making a claim on someone and trying to drive thier bestfriend away by using a knife isn't what I call normal. Also that wasn't subtle.

On the other hand Arjun told Saanjh he doesn't love Maya which is why she's upset with him for behaving in this manner. I personally would be as well.

Also if Saanjh is sticking like glue to Arjun, well then so is he. Multiple times saying "Saanjh meri hai". Also going on rants about how close he and Saanjh are of friends infront of Maya. The difference I see here is that Saanjh loves him and is telling him to beware of Maya, which is causing annoyance because people want to see Arjun with Maya.

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P.S. I do not ship either couple right now or do not have a favourite actress. I am not here to watch Arjun either. I just really like Maya's character which keeps this show interesting and I relate to Saanjh's character.

I am here to watch Maya's story. The destruction she will cause. The lives she will burn down. And maybe then letting go to finally find peace. And on the side how Saanjh's love will help Arjun and maybe even Maya along the way.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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very well written...u hv summarised everything so beautifully
Even i dnt understand why ppl keep on labelling Maya as psychopath..
ok scaring saanjh n making hot air balloon were dangerous acts bt still I see a big ray of hope for redemption..
Maya's having tea at stall n ice cream which she hates proves dat she is ready to change for Arjun...
She is going to do anything to keep Arjun in her life n keep him happy...den hw is she different from any normal girl
Edited by naaju - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
#13

Originally posted by: naaju

very well written...u hv summarised everything so beautifully

Even i dnt understand why ppl keep on labelling Maya as psychopath..
ok scaring saanjh n making hot air balloon were dangerous acts bt still I see a big ray of hope for redemption..
Maya's having tea at stall n ice cream which she hates proves dat she is ready to change for Arjun...
She is going to do anything to keep Arjun in her life n keep him happy...den hw is she different from any normal girl

Said rite baby..
She is definitely ready to change herself for arjun...amd she isn't forcing arjun to love her..she is making arjun to love her..she is giving time..
And for him she is ready to mix up as she said that today...
Then how she is a PSYCHOPATH.. .
She is sociopath...not PSYCHOPATH..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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At the moment I only see Saanjh beathing on Arjun's neck 24/7 & trying to impose her decisions on him...she needs hourly updates of what Arjun is doing & if he misses to call then she keeps calling him... I understand he is your best friend & all, but get a life!! And even after all this only Maya is the 'psycho' & Saanjh is the 'normal safe' person & whatever she does is her unconditional love.. like seriously??!!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ArYa-JenWin20

Said rite baby..
She is definitely ready to change herself for arjun...amd she isn't forcing arjun to love her..she is making arjun to love her..she is giving time..
And for him she is ready to mix up as she said that today...
Then how she is a PSYCHOPATH.. .
She is sociopath...not PSYCHOPATH..


true..she is sending gifts for her family..n trying to make dem lyk her...wats wrong in dis...
v all give so much gifts in marriages too...so will it buying sasural???no na

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