Is this all forgivable???To you....?

Maleka

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Posted: 9 years ago

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I wonder if a girl can forgive a guy who ruined her life for his own selfish reasons, sells her home and snatching the only roof she has above her head, divorcing her, declaring someone else his wife when he's married to her already, and the way he married her, all this I mean, at many occasions we joked about being anika, so for one moment put yourself in her place and think will you all forgive a man and will go on with your happily ever after??? With so much bitterness and heart full of sorrow it will take ages for such deep wounds to heal.

How can all this be ever forgiven????

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Sonikins

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Posted: 9 years ago

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For me, mallu yes i can forgive if someone repents genuinely

why do we expect God to forgive our every single sin? if we can't forgive anyone else.

So yes i can forgive Shivay 😳

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TR19

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Posted: 9 years ago

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I can forgive if he truely redeem... but can't forget what that person has done never ever...if he really want anika to stay in OM then why giving divorce paper wrapped in a gife box...again he is using sahil to make anika stay in the house.

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ancy19

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Posted: 9 years ago

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In real world it highly impossible for anyone to go through all these torture without losing her sanity...but it is entirely a different thing in GUL MATA's world.

In GUL MATA's world, the hero just has to look into the eyes of the heroine a little too long and boom heroine forgives and accepts the hero as her devta...

No connect between real world and GUL MATA's world.

Dont break your head over it LetItGo..just let it go...

watch and vent out your frustration

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Maleka

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Originally posted by: Sonikins
For me, mallu yes i can forgive if someone repents genuinely
why do we expect God to forgive our every single sin? if we can't forgive anyone else.

So yes i can forgive Shivay 😳

God is God and we are humans.God is generous beyond one's imagination.

Ok, if that's what you think.

P.S. But you were not talking to me naa?😆😆😉

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vivacious_gurl

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Posted: 9 years ago

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@Mallu... Anyone can be forgiven if they genuinely repent...

i wud forgive a person who ruined my life if i see genuine redemption... i hv personally done that... someday i shall share what happened...if i feel like but as i have forgiven i dont wanna bring it up again...

if Gul manages to give a good redemption to shivaay...so show him on a guilt trip and genuinely try to mend ways with anika... care about her well being...care about sahil... make life easier for her... show her respect... anika can and shud forgive him...coz in life its very easy to keep grudges...but remember living with grudges isnt gonna give anyone peace... however hard it is...to move on..u hv to either forgive and forget or atleast forgive...else u cant really move on.

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Maleka

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Originally posted by: TeriGalliyan
I can forgive if he truely redeem himself... but can't forget what that person has done never ever...if he really want anika to stay in OM then why giving divorce paper wrapped in a gife box...again he is using sahil to make anika stay in the house.

yes, he's so good at using weaknesses, which is purely cruel.

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livelytanu

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Forgive yes, only if he genuinely repents. 😆

Duniya mein kitne saare crimes hote hain, jo karte hain sabko phasi milte hain kya? Even they are forgiven by the law but yes they have to pay a price for that. i.e jail.

So even Shivaay can be forgiven provided he is shown repentance. If Anika forgives him just like that then there will be no redemption. 😆

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Maleka

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Originally posted by: vivacious_gurl
@Mallu... Anyone can be forgiven if they genuinely repent...
i wud forgive a person who ruined my life if i see genuine redemption... i hv personally done that... someday i shall share what happened...if i feel like but as i have forgiven i dont wanna bring it up again...

if Gul manages to give a good redemption to shivaay...so show him on a guilt trip and genuinely try to mend ways with anika... care about her well being...care about sahil... make life easier for her... show her respect... anika can and shud forgive him...coz in life its very easy to keep grudges...but remember living with grudges isnt gonna give anyone peace... however hard it is...to move on..u hv to either forgive and forget or atleast forgive...else u cant really move on.

but so much bitterness can take one's innocence forever, the entire life can change with such drastic things keep happening one by one.

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