Is this all forgivable???To you....? - Page 2

Maybe I can forgive in the long run...but if I was Annika I would run with Sahil to anywhere but won't stay there...coz it would make me go mad...'

Imagine... I was literally shivering in anger seeing the new segment...ufff had to control myself ... for one long hour I was just staring at the screen.

And even if I forgive I won't forget okay in an instance let's say I forgot but I won't TRUST never...

I have no idea how Annika being that strong person is not pulling up her defenses.

Any person would first put a show to let the other person know that ...he / she doesn't have control...here she is literally breaking in front of him and he is actually enjoying that power over her...if they show Annika happy and sing -song with Shivaay around in next few weeks...I would say they are all maniacs.

Well... I'm thoroughly disappointed Ishqbaaz became Dramebaaz and Torturebaaz...okay..my rant is over.

Hi. I am a silent member of the forum.
I didn't really want to write anything but I really want to vent out now. I am hating this track. I thought Shivaay would be different than other heroes of Gul but now he seems to be even worse than them.
Whenever I think he cant fall more,he does something which makes me further disgusted.
What he is doing to Anika is terrible.
He forced her into marriage and then he refused to accept her. He humiliated her and why did he do all this? Just bcos of a small MU. Its none of his business whom she sleeps with. He is marrying Tia so y the hell does he have so much problem with what she does. It doesn't give him a right to treat her like a rag doll with absolutely no regard for her feelings.
Throwing her into a pool just bcos she refuses to apologize,selling her home, humiliating her at each and every turn. Its all disgusting. Who can live with such a person? How can anyone love such a person? What is his redeemable quality?
Anika should never go back to him. I don't know how he will be redeemed.Gul cant glorify the crap she is showing and seeing her pattern ,m sure there will be no redemption track of Shivaay.
I had so much hope from this story and Gul ruined everything.
The only thing which will convince me now to watch this show again is when Shivaay is stripped of his power and he has to convince Anika to come back to him without using all his money and power. He has to earn her respect and love. I want to c him suffer just the way Anika is doing right now.

No I can't. May be if that person repays for their mistake, I can forgive that person,end up on talking terms with them, even be friends but putting them back on the same position is impossible. I cannot ever forget what they put me through.
Shivaay here is doing something to protect his ego which the Anika we know will never like. He is deciding stuff for her even after knowing how she feels about it. After knowing Sahil's state he should apologize. But he doesn't want to bend so he is trying to salvage himself in other ways. He is still trying to protect his Ego.
If a person cannot give up their ego for you how can they expect you to give up on your self respect just because they are really sorry.

Originally posted by: ...Tanu...

Forgive yes, only if he genuinely repents. 😆

Duniya mein kitne saare crimes hote hain, jo karte hain sabko phasi milte hain kya? Even they are forgiven by the law but yes they have to pay a price for that. i.e jail.

So even Shivaay can be forgiven provided he is shown repentance. If Anika forgives him just like that then there will be no redemption. 😆

in bold: for some crimes hanged till death is almost equal to an easy death.

Originally posted by: hamzanuha

@ Mallu - There are some things which cannot be forgiven. Anika is not a tissue paper to be used and thrown by Shivay as per his convenience.

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true, shivaay's toy treatment to anika is not at all forgivable.

Originally posted by: mineforever

Hi. I am a silent member of the forum.
I didn't really want to write anything but I really want to vent out now. I am hating this track. I thought Shivaay would be different than other heroes of Gul but now he seems to be even worse than them.
Whenever I think he cant fall more,he does something which makes me further disgusted.
What he is doing to Anika is terrible.
He forced her into marriage and then he refused to accept her. He humiliated her and why did he do all this? Just bcos of a small MU. Its none of his business whom she sleeps with. He is marrying Tia so y the hell does he have so much problem with what she does. It doesn't give him a right to treat her like a rag doll with absolutely no regard for her feelings.
Throwing her into a pool just bcos she refuses to apologize,selling her home, humiliating her at each and every turn. Its all disgusting. Who can live with such a person? How can anyone love such a person? What is his redeemable quality?
Anika should never go back to him. I don't know how he will be redeemed.Gul cant glorify the crap she is showing and seeing her pattern ,m sure there will be no redemption track of Shivaay.
I had so much hope from this story and Gul ruined everything.
The only thing which will convince me now to watch this show again is when Shivaay is stripped of his power and he has to convince Anika to come back to him without using all his money and power. He has to earn her respect and love. I want to c him suffer just the way Anika is doing right now.

Originally posted by: poemssyndrome

No I can't. May be if that person repays for their mistake, I can forgive that person,end up on talking terms with them, even be friends but putting them back on the same position is impossible. I cannot ever forget what they put me through.
Shivaay here is doing something to protect his ego which the Anika we know will never like. He is deciding stuff for her even after knowing how she feels about it. After knowing Sahil's state he should apologize. But he doesn't want to bend so he is trying to salvage himself in other ways. He is still trying to protect his Ego.
If a person cannot give up their ego for you how can they expect you to give up on your self respect just because they are really sorry.

in bold: yes that's true forgiveness maybe easy but forgetting such harsh things is not that easy.

in bold second: yes, he is and he's not ready to accept that he's wrong, he believes whatever he do in the name of protecting family's respect is justified.


Mallu

There is no way a victim can forgive his abuser n live happily wid him. If I was in Anika's place then I wud come in ACP's vision n pretend to attempt suicide n on him saving me 4m committing suicide I wid act as if I did not knew he was around but in reality I myself wanted him to see eat I was doing. I wud fight wid ACP for stopping me making him take in his van somewhere then after some questions I wud burst out crying n tell everything wat Shivaay did to me 4m d wedding day including him selling my house to hurt me n Sahil. I was then ask police protection 4m him for me n Sahil n tell him dat she was forcibly made to save Shivaay 4m Gayatri's case as well as forciy made to produce wrong proofs to save Tej n Shakti 4m girl's suicide case. Dat wid be enough for ACP to wreck havoc on Oberois again. ACP can then arrest some of SSO's bodyguards n make them blurt out d truth abt d wedding day after some beating 4m d police. Dis is sumthn I want Anika to do in d show but it will never happen as Gul is d maker of d show so I can't expect Anika to turn a bitch like Roshni Kataria.

I would be able to forgive yes.. but I would never be able to forget. Once bitten twice shy...

I personally feel that no one can easily forgive and continue on with their lives like it's shown in tv shows.if someone ruins your life for you,threatens and forces you to do something you don't want to do and still remains ungrateful and behaves like a jerk then no,it just can't happen.more over,i dont think you can ever fall in love with such a person.once a relationship gets bitter,it just can't go back to the same place it started from.