hello people.
me again.
thank you so much beautifuls for the wonderful welcome and the discussion and your deep thoughts on my earlier thread.
i meant to pen down part two of SuKor; Suraj actually but thought why not deal with our bone of contentions first.
if SuKor is like listening to mellifluous Mohammad Rafi soulful number; the issues of imli, baccha and above all that rape attempt is like someone chipkaoing Himesh Reshamiyya para in that song.
errr i guess SuKor is more of kick ass rock number but meri bhavnaooko samjho.
here we go:
Suraj and Imli:
they have been companions for years. he is protective towards his own. he values those who could love him unconditionally. she did. what she had for him was blind adoration and devotion. such kind of affection from someone towards you is like a powerful drug. you get addicted to being their centre of universe. you love it. and usually you take that status for granted.
he did exactly that.
he did love her. c'mon Suraj Rajwanshi actually remembered what kind of ice-cream flavour she likes. so yeah. i guess that was love.
so why he rejected her and then why that sudden realization?
men d'uh!
men and their emotional quotient.
Suraj is out and out man's man.
give him A and then B when it comes to emotions and he is sorted.
give him A square plus B square equals C square and he will be wearing the same expressions i used to wear when confronted with complex maths problems.
utha le re baba one.
no wonder he never realized how deeply he is into Imli. it took her denouncing him to make him realize that he is no longer her centre of universe and he wants to be exactly that.
and since he is not the one to handle emotions with rationale he went berserk. like a bull in a china shop hurting and destroying everything in his wake including himself.
Baccha:
i would rather if he made out with a girl because he has some feelings for her than because he was drunk and she was available. she was his pet; under his protection. one night druken stand with her would have been so wrong.
and his feelings for the child.
between a man who denounces his unborn and wants the child dead..
and a man who loves the child truly and mourns its loss with deep hurt.. there is no contest who is the real man.
Suraj made that journey from being to put it bluntly A-hole of a man to a real man.
why the baccha was needed?
would Chakor allow her baby sister to be in vicinity let alone marry someone like Suraj without a strong reason like the unborn child?
NO!
the child was needed for that double marriage stunt. and for the twist.
am i happy about this Imli and the baccha saga?
let's say i am just about as happy as a girl would be in her those days of the month. oh you get my point!
Child issue is difficult to overlook but since we can't wish it away, change it... let us rather make peace with it.
Imli issue.. call me nuts but i don't mind this. first love and all that is truly beautiful but i believe in forever love more.
a love that would enter your heart, soul and life so completely that there would no one else who could take that place for you. in this lifetime or next.
i wish THAT kind of love for Suraj and Chakor.
yes he was terribly hurt over losing imli. but he has let her go. heck he is even staying in the same house with the girl and her new husband around and he is fine with it.
i want him to tear down any guy who dares to takes Chakor away from him.
let alone letting her go and living on his own he couldn't even think of a life without her being in it.
i want him to fall in love with her THAT way.
and then comes the rape attempt issue:
oh how i wish i could unsee it. fervently wish that it didn't actually happen.
but sigh.
there is NO justification for rape or rape attempt. NONE.
such heinous thing MUST be condemned.
and i do.
why i think Suraj thought it would be a great idea (heavy duty sarcasm) to forcibly take the girl?
because of the mindset of the UP in general. how to subjugate a woman? be a man and molest and rape. yuck!
but he stopped.
imli vision? maybe he realized the 'tere ghar main maa-behen nahi hai' concept. what he wouldn't want to be done to imli he can't do to the other girl too.
or maybe and this is a wild fantasy kind of concept... he never actually slept with her. she probably was raped by someone that day and he was too drunk to protect her and hence was trying to protect her after that in his failed way. the second theory would be a huge breather for us SuKor'ian but a part of me don't want this. i can't wish such heinous crime on even Imli.
how could Chakor be so 'ok' with him even after that?
because immediately came the him loving imli truth out. his broken state, guilt, the love that he has for her sister and the unborn, the desperation to make everything right yet helpless to do so for it is too late.. and above all letting her sister go and chose her own happiness.. this made Chakor see him in whole new light.
her compassion for him won over the contempt.
but i hope; i really truly hope they talk about this issue in the future. he offers her a truly heartfelt soul rendering apology and she must let him know that it was not ok.
if she says bhul jao jo hua so hua i will personally enter the screen and sock her.
there is nothing 'oh it happens' when it comes to such disgusting deeds. so please Suraj kindly haul yourself through coals over that issue and Chakor please let him.
and then move on both of you.
but please RESOLVE that issue. or else it would remain a dirty black spot in your beautiful tale of love.
well a girl can always hope right! and so i hope.