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Originally posted by: gemini54
Tia first of all a standing ovation for this post👏
Thank you. 🤗Some of us are. One of my sons conditions of a perfect match for him is that both families should love and respect each other as their own. He came to this conclusion not because I told him so but by the example of me and my husbands family..is it that common no but I believe it is getting there
That's exactly it. You and your husband lead an example and you made your sons understand what a respectful relationship looks like. But my complaint is to those mothers or even women who are supporting Dev and Ishwari as they are ruining an innocent woman't life to play relationship games with each other. Here Ishwari begs to get Sona back so that she becomes great in his son's eyes and here his son is begging for forgiveness for showing Asha the respect Sona has been showing his mother so that he can become great in his mother's eyes. This mother and son duo should have just left Sona and her family alone.It is all about respecting oneself we cannot command respect from others if we don't respect yourself.I think there was a Hindi movie I forget the name where the character says I am my favorite person it was cute but had a deep meaningI think that was Jab We Met. And yes, a lot of women give up their self-respect to keep the man they love in their life. They think that it's a small price to pay. But in reality, by doing that, they not only lower their own respect in their eyes but also lower their respect in their husband's eyes. Like I said that no one respects or loves a doormat, they can only pity them. If someone is satisfied with their husband's pity, then by all means give up your self-respect and be a doormat. But if you want love and respect, stand up with your dignity and respect.
Anupamaa
Kumkum Bhagya
