how sorry can a person be??...

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Straight question ... Because I see that mentality of always only judging the female lives on...
How can you throw stones while leaving in a glass house??...

How sorry is sorry enough??...

Is sorry enough for vividha not telling ravish??

Is sorry enough for her breaking his heart and breaking this marriage??

Is sorry enough for ravish blaming atharva without any proof for vv's molestation??

Is sorry enough for ravish gaslighting vv??

Is sorry enough for Ravish slapping and chaining atharva??

Is sorry enough for KK deceiving Vv??

Is sorry enough for Kk attempting to murder A??

Is sorry enough for what ankit did??

Is sorry enough for uma making her daughter live a lie knowing full well vv is dying inside??

Is sorry enough for who ever tried to rape vv??

Will sorry be enough for suzy keeping her son away from the one person he wants and the one person that might hurry the process??..

Will sorry ever be enough for vv not believing atharva??...

Is sorry ever enough...??


Why are some cases different from others aren't people still hurt , it just matters how understanding the victim is , but does that make you hurting them OKAY??


I want some answers because if you want to point a finger remember three is pointing back at you..so why not point at everyone...

Will any of these characters apologizing change any facts or do you in your believes say they where never wrong...

Or is it a dog eat dog world ??...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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well justified post kelšŸ‘ but still u l get nyc logics nowšŸ˜†šŸ˜‰
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Not sure if you are serious about the question but from my POV is that a person can never be is sorry enough.
Or another way to say it - sorry is never enough. Sorry is just a way for the perpetrator to feel better about themselves or getting rid of their guilt.

Ravish's sorry was useless and so is Vividha's.

It is only the person, who has been harmed, can decide whether to forgive or not, regardless of the sincerity of the offered apology.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Vv is sorry is not enough for many, not because she should be sorry for this and that but because she is a painpoint for many as she leaves the man she doesnt love for the man she does love.
Well not everyone can be pleased specially the ones who are extremely pissed off and we should leave it at that.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ViTharvforever

well justified post kelšŸ‘but still u l get nyc logics nowšŸ˜†šŸ˜‰


Thank you...
Well I can be as objective as I am sometimes biased...I just matters how much effort I put to understand what am talking about... Its good to look at it from another angle which still contains your views but at the same time questions them??
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Karaali

Not sure if you are serious about the question but from my POV is that a person can never be is sorry enough.

Or another way to say it - sorry is never enough. Sorry is just a way for the perpetrator to feel better about themselves or getting rid of their guilt.

Ravish's sorry was useless and so is Vividha's.

It is only the person, who has been harmed, can decide whether to forgive or not, regardless of the sincerity of the offered apology.


Why won't I be serious??...

To me too sorry is just a word ...
No matter how sorry you can be if the person is still hurt and suffering it makes no difference , you can never stop being sorry , but the person who is hurt can feel , I can forgive if not forget , because we all have to move on...

Yes you can be sorry and mean it or just say it because you have to say it , but what is done is done ...we all have to look for ways to move on without repeating the same mistakes and never forgetting , it does hurt, the things we do hurt others and there should be a limit...

But the one thing I love about humanity is empathy , if I hurt you today and you hurt someone tomorrow , why are you deserving of forgiveness/consideration and am not...

Its a two way street and at some point everyone walks both ways ... That is why sometimes its eaisier because you have been on the flip side...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Africanqueenkel


Why won't I be serious??...

To me too sorry is just a word ...
No matter how sorry you can be if the person is still hurt and suffering it makes no difference , you can never stop being sorry , but the person who is hurt can feel , I can forgive if not forget , because we all have to move on...

Yes you can be sorry and mean it or just say it because you have to say it , but what is done is done ...we all have to look for ways to move on without repeating the same mistakes and never forgetting , it does hurt, the things we do hurt others and there should be a limit...

But the one thing I love about humanity is empathy , if I hurt you today and you hurt someone tomorrow , why are you deserving of forgiveness/consideration and am not...

Its a two way street and at some point everyone walks both ways ... That is why sometimes its eaisier because you have been on the flip side...


@bold - once you have said sorry, your job is done. Forgiveness is still not in your control, you cannot force them to forgive you or logic it out. May be you are a bigger person that you can forgive them. If someone is unable to forgive you, there is nothing you can do about it.

It is not really a two-way street. Logically yes, practically no - as emotions are very powerful.
We all have selective memories. I am not sure most people appreciate the damage they are causing when they are in the perpetrator's shoes. They do when they were victimized. Plus pain and suffering are not equal. Everyone experiences these differently.



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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Karaali



@bold - once you have said sorry, your job is done. Forgiveness is still not in your control, you cannot force them to forgive you or logic it out. May be you are a bigger person that you can forgive them. If someone is unable to forgive you, there is nothing you can do about it.

It is not really a two-way street. Logically yes, practically no - as emotions are very powerful.
We all have selective memories. I am not sure most people appreciate the damage they are causing when they are in the perpetrator's shoes. They do when they were victimized. Plus pain and suffering are not equal. Everyone experiences these differently.





Exactly...am a very analytical person... So I see it that way ... Everyone feels pain and everyone suffers...and everyone one day no matter how good will go through it all...

Being through it should make it more substantial... Unless you are a narcisist

No matter how sorry you are , that doesn't change facts even when you are forgiven...

But we are all human ... As you need forgiveness we all need to learn to forgive ourselves especially when its not in your hands...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Sorry is not what they wanted, honesty is not what they expected. Sorry isn't enough because she wasn't meant to be sorry, she was meant to compromise. She's not sorry for not compromising.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Karaali

Not sure if you are serious about the question but from my POV is that a person can never be is sorry enough.

Or another way to say it - sorry is never enough. Sorry is just a way for the perpetrator to feel better about themselves or getting rid of their guilt.

Ravish's sorry was useless and so is Vividha's.

It is only the person, who has been harmed, can decide whether to forgive or not, regardless of the sincerity of the offered apology.

@bold ravish's lie din't harm any1 2 the extent of ruining sum1s life.
even if he lied abt attu not present . it din't ruin vividha's life.rather he supported & no1 thot of her as mad also.
ravish's slaps or chaining din't ruin attu's life rather it was 4 his & oders betterment.yes he shudn't'd slapped but it happened at the moment of heat bcoz any husband will react like this in that situn . only a saint who'd conquered all his senses of highest order will behave calmly.

but vividha's lie alongwid uma,ankit or KK's lies & deeds ruined oders lives.thats the diff.

rest i agree wid ur post.

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