Sona's business?!!

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Push-pull

@Push-pull

Sparkler

Posted: 9 years ago

Neha staying back in the Dixits' - Is it Sona's business?!!😉

Dev's worry for his sister makes him go sleepless... The nights meant to be spent with his wife will be lost.. ofcourse it's not Sona's business to interfere...😉😆

Dev's confused state of mind keeps him busy during the day... The moments that could be spent with his wife will be missed.. ofcourse it's not Sona's business to interfere...😉😆

Dev's lifelong commitment to keep Neha happy with her to-be found new complaints and worries.. The happiness that Dev-Sona can share with each other will be forgotten... Ofcourse it's not Sona's business to interfere...😉😆

I'm only concerned with the way this girl is put through the restlessness with the way the Dixits' handle situations.. Because such things are done differently in her family... Even I wouldn't want her to go around fixing things for everyone just to pr ove her good soul.. But when it's coming back to affect her own peace of living, then sure she should look out for her own happiness if not for the others..

And while everyone is busy keeping Sona aware of what's the norms of the Dixits' family, none is interested in even knowing the values that she brings in to her new family.. And this girl is not even given a voice to put forth her viewpoints.. Are the CVs guarding her ideal bahu or ideal wife image to set an example in that league?! Or building the pressure for her to burst it open soon?! Glad at least Ranveer is talking.. But yeah he's named easily as EGOist..

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Tinkerfairy

@Tinkerfairy

Voyager

Posted: 9 years ago

Perfect post !!! All dixits are so much self obsessed with their past they just consider ranveer and sona outsider only 😕 Problem here is dev is not understanding what sona's state of mind is going through till now i have always maintained that sona is dev's bestfriend ,but Dev is not sona's bestfriend whom she can share her internal feelings ,her fears without being judged . CV's also not proving me wrong in that regard I don't know but whether they are doing it intentionally for any future arc or is this they considered "normal" .😕 P.s CV's definition for EGO is very much different .standing up for yourself is also tagged as "ego"👏

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Shilky88

@Shilky88

Voyager

Posted: 9 years ago

Glad at least Ranveer is talking.. But yeah he's named easily as EGOist..

Loved that part. Dev Ranveer face off.

Ranveer said it all with so much of dignity.

Na zyada na kam..perfectly apt and to the point.

I loved the way he answered every question and as a viewer I can totally make sense out of it.not sure why it isn't getting to Dev's ears.

Even Sona could not have explained it better to Dev.

Well done Ranveer!!👏👏

Though I am an ardent fan of Shaheer but for the first time I felt Ranveer earned few extra points. Specially the scene where both the males stood against each other, Ranveer looked so glorified and a person of self respect ,a person of righteousness.

Kaal Kothri -That insensitive remark of Dev just created a feeling of annoyance inside me for Dev's character.

Dev- you also came from a lower class,poor background. How could you Dev, How could you say that?

Edited by Shilky88 - 9 years ago

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Tinkerfairy

@Tinkerfairy

Voyager

Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: Shilky88
Glad at least Ranveer is talking.. But yeah he's named easily as EGOist..

Loved that part. Dev Ranveer face off.
Ranveer said it all with so much of dignity.

Na zyada na kam..perfectly apt and to the point.

I loved the way he answered every question and as an viewer I can totally make sense out of it.

Even Sona could not have explained it better to Dev.

Well done Ranveer!!👏👏

Though I am an ardent fan of Shaheer but for the first time I felt Ranveer earned few extra points. Specially the scene where both the males stood against each other, Ranveer looked so glorified and a person of self respect ,a person of righteousness.

Kaal Kothri -That insensitive remark of Dev just created a feeling of annoyance inside me for Dev's character.

Dev- you also came from a lower class,poor a background. How could you Dev, How could you say that?

bold part 👏

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Tia.0

@Tia.0

Sparkler

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Posted: 9 years ago

To answer your question, no. It's not Sona's business.

She married Dev.

But his business is not Sona's business.

His family where she is not included isn't her business.

His happiness isn't her business.

His pain isn't her business.

His worry isn't her business.

Why?

Because she is not a human being. She is a toy. And toy is there just to entertain it's owner, not to claim any rights. The sooner she understands her place, the better.

She should just focus on the time when Dev gives her attention from his busy schedule. As long as she keeps doing that, she will be living the delusion she calls a happy marriage.

Edited by tia.o - 9 years ago

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mena_k

@mena_k

Voyager

Posted: 9 years ago

Worst is, Neha was seen standing outside Dev-Sona's bedroom and listening to Devakshi talks or when she was hovering around and staring at in the garden area where these two were having some private romantic moments. Do someone need any other reason as to why Sona should not make Neha's business as her business. What else, should she wait for Neha to enter inside the bedroom and even that should not bother her. How in the world is that going to be possible for any normal person.

But yes, as per one of the promo's aired a while ago, Ishwari has got a wife for Dev not someone to work in kitchen, so Sona's business should only be inside the bedroom nowhere else. Dixit's Mahan hain.

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babli1

@babli1

Navigator

Posted: 9 years ago

Very good post,...yes it's Sona's business for sure

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Pehchaan.Kaun

@Pehchaan.Kaun

Sparkler

Posted: 9 years ago

SO true. Even I mentioned it somewhere that I dont know about others, but the moment someone becomes the reason of my much-awaited plans cancelled, it becomes my personal matter and I have full right to poke my nose into that 🥱

Sona's patience is becoming her weakness, her understanding is coming across as her compromise with her self-respect, her apologizing for no good reason seem to be her low self-esteem given by the Great Dixits after marriage in viraasat, her meek and guilty permission-seeking questions now come across as her losing identity amidst the selfish Dixits.

I hope she joins her work back and follows her client to abroad somewhere around Paris for 2/3 weeks (like she used to chase her patients earlier 😆) and come back afresh. 🤔 THE kickass Sonakshi Bose is missing. 😵

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pkbdas61

@pkbdas61

Dazzler

Posted: 9 years ago

Looks like nothing is Sona's business even if the Dixits reactions to situations and people indirectly or directly impact her.. it is amazing to see Ishwari and Dev tell Sona to stay out of Neha issues! The same Dev who once told Sona, before marriage, that she was the solution to all his problems... the Neha-lehenga track... now feels that his problems will get compounded is Sona interferes? How convenient!