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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tinkerfairy

Perfect post !!! All dixits are so much self obsessed with their past they just consider ranveer and sona outsider only 😕 Problem here is dev is not understanding what sona's state of mind is going through till now i have always maintained that sona is dev's bestfriend ,but Dev is not sona's bestfriend whom she can share her internal feelings ,her fears without being judged . CV's also not proving me wrong in that regard I don't know but whether they are doing it intentionally for any future arc or is this they considered "normal" .😕 P.s CV's definition for EGO is very much different .standing up for yourself is also tagged as "ego"👏

If Sona is keep on putting The Dixits' so-called problems as her own then sure she'll be opening a private "The Dixits' counseling center" where she'll be the dedicated counselor.. unpaid and unnoticed... She keeps her shop open full-time with none caring to even note down her points because it's all free advice.. 😉
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Push-pull

If Sona is keep on putting The Dixits' so-called problems as her own then sure she'll be opening a private "The Dixits' counseling center" where she'll be the dedicated counselor.. unpaid and unnoticed... She keeps her shop open full-time with none caring to even note down her points because it's all free advice.. 😉


I like the idea of Sonakshi's "The Dixits' Counseling Center"!! 👏

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shilky88

Glad at least Ranveer is talking.. But yeah he's named easily as EGOist..

Loved that part. Dev Ranveer face off.

Ranveer said it all with so much of dignity.

Na zyada na kam..perfectly apt and to the point.

I loved the way he answered every question and as a viewer I can totally make sense out of it.not sure why it isn't getting to Dev's ears.

Even Sona could not have explained it better to Dev.

Well done Ranveer!!👏👏

Though I am an ardent fan of Shaheer but for the first time I felt Ranveer earned few extra points. Specially the scene where both the males stood against each other, Ranveer looked so glorified and a person of self respect ,a person of righteousness.

Kaal Kothri -That insensitive remark of Dev just created a feeling of annoyance inside me for Dev's character.

Dev- you also came from a lower class,poor background. How could you Dev, How could you say that?

I don't know why they are making Dev react this way as if nothing has changed in between then and now.. Forget Sona's impact he has not even moved an inch from where he has started.. does that mean he will always remain the same way thus implying that The Dixits' will remain the same till they die.. moral of the story: Don't change yourself.. The world will change for you..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shilky88

Glad at least Ranveer is talking.. But yeah he's named easily as EGOist..

Loved that part. Dev Ranveer face off.

Ranveer said it all with so much of dignity.

Na zyada na kam..perfectly apt and to the point.

I loved the way he answered every question and as a viewer I can totally make sense out of it.not sure why it isn't getting to Dev's ears.

Even Sona could not have explained it better to Dev.

Well done Ranveer!!👏👏

Though I am an ardent fan of Shaheer but for the first time I felt Ranveer earned few extra points. Specially the scene where both the males stood against each other, Ranveer looked so glorified and a person of self respect ,a person of righteousness.

Kaal Kothri -That insensitive remark of Dev just created a feeling of annoyance inside me for Dev's character.

Dev- you also came from a lower class,poor background. How could you Dev, How could you say that?


Oh I am glad it's not just me who noticed this comment.

Dev is falling in my eyes speedier than light AGAIN !! 😕
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: tia.o

To answer your question, no. It's not Sona's business.


She married Dev.

But his business is not Sona's business.

His family where she is not included isn't her business.

His happiness isn't her business.

His pain isn't her business.

His worry isn't her business.

Why?

Because she is not a human being. She is a toy. And toy is there just to entertain it's owner, not to claim any rights. The sooner she understands her place, the better.

She should just focus on the time when Dev gives her attention from his busy schedule. As long as she keeps doing that, she will be living the delusion she calls a happy marriage.

Sona sure behaves like a toy.. Dev's favorite toy.. If he acts like a man who asks her to sit at home and take care of every old and new member of the Dixits', then she'll follow it like a coded program.. 😆 Only that at times her own program (brain) starts working.. but again it can conveniently get switched off with so many deviations in the Ishwari Nivas... 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: mena_k

Worst is, Neha was seen standing outside Dev-Sona's bedroom and listening to Devakshi talks or when she was hovering around and staring at in the garden area where these two were having some private romantic moments. Do someone need any other reason as to why Sona should not make Neha's business as her business. What else, should she wait for Neha to enter inside the bedroom and even that should not bother her. How in the world is that going to be possible for any normal person.

But yes, as per one of the promo's aired a while ago, Ishwari has got a wife for Dev not someone to work in kitchen, so Sona's business should only be inside the bedroom nowhere else. Dixit's Mahan hain.

Sona will be made to voluntarily allow every member of Ishwari Nivas to direct her actions.. Because that's what an ideal bahu does walking into her in-laws house.. After all its her job to take a place in everyone's heart.. Not by being herself accepting the changes but changing herself completely to keep things unchanged in her new house...😉
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: babli1

Very good post,...yes it's Sona's business for sure

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Yeah.. But if only she can really talk about it openly instead of making it look like a general gesture of being nice to everyone in in-laws😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

SO true. Even I mentioned it somewhere that I dont know about others, but the moment someone becomes the reason of my much-awaited plans cancelled, it becomes my personal matter and I have full right to poke my nose into that 🥱

Sona's patience is becoming her weakness, her understanding is coming across as her compromise with her self-respect, her apologizing for no good reason seem to be her low self-esteem given by the Great Dixits after marriage in viraasat, her meek and guilty permission-seeking questions now come across as her losing identity amidst the selfish Dixits.


I hope she joins her work back and follows her client to abroad somewhere around Paris for 2/3 weeks (like she used to chase her patients earlier 😆) and come back afresh. 🤔 THE kickass Sonakshi Bose is missing. 😵

The girl is putting her hands everywhere with no place to have for her own. She's just being nice and being nice is not a bad thing.. But being voiceless is.. She's been shut off every now and then by everyone, saying that she doesn't know anything.. Ok agree she doesn't know anything.. Do the Dixits' know everything about every situation that they are going through? Do they know that whatever they are doing is the right thing for them? If that's the case why are they still not the happy family that they dream of? Or do they think they are at their best as it is ? Can't she at least check out if she's really trying to understand her new family? She's just quietly listening to everyone.. Hope she's really observing them to voice out soon.. Needn't be her judgement but at least to share her opinions..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: pkbdas61

Looks like nothing is Sona's business even if the Dixits reactions to situations and people indirectly or directly impact her.. it is amazing to see Ishwari and Dev tell Sona to stay out of Neha issues! The same Dev who once told Sona, before marriage, that she was the solution to all his problems... the Neha-lehenga track... now feels that his problems will get compounded is Sona interferes? How convenient!

I am ok if Dev doesn't make Sona a solution to all of The Dixits' made problems.. But what I am not ok with is they blowing every problem of theirs out of proportion bringing down the entire universe stop working because they are in trouble.. 🥱
They claim to be the complicated people because of complicated situations that they have gone through.. But do they realize that such situations happen everywhere and making it simple or complicated depends upon the ways they deal with themselves and the situations...
Now that they deal with Neha's problem in their way, are they gonna solve it forever or add it to her victim diary thus keeping her the haunted or complicated soul forever in her life.. Simply by saying she's been through a lot and she deserves to be the tantrum child life long..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Yes ofcourse...its Sona's business n she's handling it really well

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