Dev's attitude towards sona & Natasha

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mayu1982

@mayu1982

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Posted: 8 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: yyy
I beg to differ here

Natasha was his friend and Sona is his wife .Obviously he won't behave the same way with both of them.He treats all the women with respect .He is not a perfect guy but he is not someone who will value a person based on money .

If money was so important to him then why would he break his engagement with Natasha for a middle class girl .If his business was everything then he would not have given up on his dream project for Sonakshi .

You show your true self to the person closest to you and there are times when both sonakshi and Dev have taken each other for granted .

If Dev was afraid of Gujral's he would not have broken the engagement and regarding Natasha would destroy Dev if she had to deal with Ishwari ,Natasha is a sensible girl and we have seen how she handled her breakup .It sounds childish that a wife would destroy husband's career for some domestic issues .Even if Natasha wanted she and her father will not be able harm to Dev''s business .He is a self made man and we have seen how Gujral was unable to harm him in fact Dev could have harmed Gujrals if he wanted to .

I feel Ishwari treated Natasha better because she knew Dev was not in love with her and it was more like a arrange marriage .So she was less insecure but with Sona it was a different case.Ishwari has problems with Sona because of her insecurities not because of her financial status

Superb Post Neetu👏👏

Totally agree with you..

First of all to compare two person- they need to come to same level .. Natasha was not even his GF. He always had very formal relationship. I understand Dev is not prefect which is again normal

No one is prefect in life - Bhaiya pls come forward and raise your hand if he/she consider themselves - WE ARE Prefect and don't have any flaws in ourselves.. Never ever met anyone like this..

Wife/Hubby and friend is huge difference..I will certainly be more frank and myself with my hubby as compared to any male friend. It doesn;t mean I don't respect my hubby. Similarly if hubby is more open and express his displeasure about anything or any issue doesn't mean he disrespect his wife.

am sorry for asking some personal question - but really want to know your age dear @TM ..

Now coming to fighting/shouting part on sona - WIfe and hubby yell each other more easily because they don't consider the other person different individual.

Apno ke saath hi fight karte hai..

It is very much scientifically proven that wife and hubby fight ( not the serious one - like cheating and all that) helps them to improve their relationships.😳

Edited by mayu1982 - 8 years ago

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Sneha

@Rhy2015

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Posted: 8 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: Snehavinaya
I had always this doubt from the beginning.
I know Dev loves sonakshi. But , he says that rich ladke girls ki respect nahi karte.
Does Dev has respect for sona after they fell in love ?
We have seen Dev talking to Natasha. Always with respect.
A perfect gentleman.
Won't sona also want the same behavior towards her ?
Because Dev respected Natasha & the fact that she was very rich & important for dev's business,
Iswari didn't show that much face.

Because sona is from middle class, Dev is behaving like this.
I know he loves her immensely. But some where he takes her for granted.
Dev is allowing all these taunts . The people in the house also don't respect her.

Can anybody throw some light on this?
Would Dev be in better position if he had married Natasha.

Atleast iswari's insecurity won't be sky high.
Dev may not dismiss Natasha like he does with sona.
Because he will be scared of gujral & business.

I don't think so ...its just when u love someone,u have that right to fight n make up..it's always Dev who says sorry ...there is nothing to do with money n v can not forget the fact that ..Dev was the one who left Natasha behind without caring bout the business loss..
And he is bit rude with e'one from the beginning ...
Completely my POV

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cscs

@cscs

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Posted: 8 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: ltelidevara
To some extent I feel Yes. Dev respected Natasha but never showed such respect to Sona
I don't know if being rich is the reason but it is a fact.
Had Natasha been his wife and asked. Vicky to be the trainy first Iswari would never have asked Dev to reconsider the decision. Leave alone Iswari Vicky would not have the guts to say no.

Dev takes Sona for granted before marriage and after marriage.Shouts and shuts her up. But He wouldn't have done this to Natasha.
Even Iswari wouldn't have dared to throw tantrums. GKB would have been in her limits.
Finally Iswari Nivas and Dev's life would have been smooth and peaceful.

Natasha is a career woman. She would have left the home power to Iswari.
Sona never bothers about her much respectable profession.
Even in today's scene she says Dev brought thrill or some thing into her boring MBBs Nutritionist life

For a minute I was in shock. Then I realised. I was absolutely right. Sona cares very less of her profession. I never saw the zeal and urge to achieve new things or anything connected to it.
She hardly remembers she is a doctor.
I am of the kind who thinks that our profession is our identity.Marriage or no marriage we should always respect and care for it.
Natasha is that kind. Dev respects her. For sure.

I will come straight to the points:-

1) Natasha would have probably left her career and be a house wife. That's what she said to Dev, that she wanted to live a normal house wife life now, with home, family and kids.

2) GKB and her beta would have not taunted her because she was rich and that is the only reason. I really dunno if she would have answer the way sona replies back to GKB, because she was never shown in that situation.

3) Ishwari would have been happy because Dev's affection would not have been for Natasha. He wouldn't have even consulted her for anything.

4) Just because Sonakshi is on break after marriage that does not mean that she has no respect for her career. She wants to balance both home and job which most of working women do. She loves her work and it has been shown in the previous episodes. Just because she HAD to work for Dixits that doesn't mean she didn't had any other options.

5) Coming to Dev taking Sona for granted and not respecting her, i really wanna know what does respect mean here? He shouted at Sona because he was close to her which Natasha was never. She was just a business associate for him, nothing else. And he has given Sona her due respect from the initial phase of their relationship and even before that. Wasn't he the one who snapped mamiji for asking her to mop the floor. He might have manipulated his ways to get what he wants, he might have been rude at times, but saying that he never respected Sona is not done.

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Destiny_015

@Destiny_015

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Posted: 8 years ago

#14

Natasha was his business colleagues so he will obviously behave "cordially" with her. And kaunse taunts I don't get. The ones GKB gives ? She is a lost case anyway. Noone in Dixit family bothers what she says and not even Sona. Or Ishwari doing Naye rishte purane rishte. After marraige every couple hears this patent dialogue. So why rub it off in the skin.
Now coming to Ishwari being cool with Natasha. Simple thing. She never felt threatened of her and Dev's relationship from her. But Dev values Sona on her level. So she is not comfy with it. Dont know how else to put this but she wanted Dev to marry but not have a wife. (If that makes any sense. xD )

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vinoguna

@vinoguna

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Posted: 8 years ago

#15

I definitely think dev is better with sona... no doubts on that... the reason for his behaviour, you can only be yourself with your most loved one.. she don't judge him.. she is accepting him the way he is... you know... difficult man to dealt with ... and as for dev... he can share anything with her... and only her... not even his Mom...

And he just need some time to share the most darkest secret of his life... it's not that he don't trust her.. he just needed time to even say it, to even think bout it... i assume there will be more darker past to come...

Furthermore all the taunts are mostly in dev absence... and being sona, she will never complaint.. she is not that kind of wife... she is a strong girl who can handle anything or matter of fact anyone by herself...

And if we recall, remember how dev defended her when the taunts happens in his presence? I'm referring to the scene with gkb long back, when she asked sona to wipe the floor and also the recent one, next day after their wedding, saying he is proud to have her in life in front of everyone...

All these fights are just salt in your sweet life.. you cannot even enjoy the sweetness if there is no pinch of salt... 😳

Like the old saying you will only get mad on the people you love... just my pov... 😳

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Snehavinaya

@Snehavinaya

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Posted: 8 years ago

#16

May be I felt sad after seeing sona being treated like this in his house.
I don't know niw the track itself is so depressing that
We get feel good moments very less.
So much complications in her life.
The earlier sona knew how to deal with that.
Now I feel Dev should give full support to her in front of his mother also.
When they are alone he is saying I am lucky to have you.
When he will say sona is important for him in front of his mother?
Sorry for my rant. I want to be positive, the events are not allowing me to

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ltelidevara

@ltelidevara

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Posted: 8 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: cscs

I will come straight to the points:-
1) Natasha would have probably left her career and be a house wife. That's what she said to Dev, that she wanted to live a normal house wife life now, with home, family and kids.

Natasha will never leave her career. Her being the only daughter successor of a big Empire never allow her to do so.
Yes she said she will. But I believe she would have handled both his father's and Dev's also
She loved Dev but she for me looked today's woman practical,committed.

2) GKB and her beta would have not taunted her because she was rich and that is the only reason. I really dunno if she would have answer the way sona replies back to GKB, because she was never shown in that situation.

Natasha won't be in a situation that needs her to reply back.
GKB or Vicky they won't dare to abuse her. Reason is her being rich? May be.

3) Ishwari would have been happy because Dev's affection would not have been for Natasha. He wouldn't have even consulted her for anything.

Dev and Natasha both are in Business. There will be good rapport for sure.

4) Just because Sonakshi is on break after marriage that does not mean that she has no respect for her career. She wants to balance both home and job which most of working women
do. She loves her work and it has been shown in the previous episodes. Just because she HAD to work for Dixits that doesn't mean she didn't had any other options.

To me Sonakshi looked less committed towards her profession before marriage and after marriage also.She just cares less . That is why yesterday she said Dev came like some...in her boring Nutritionist life.

5) Coming to Dev taking Sona for granted and not respecting her, i really wanna know what does respect mean here? He shouted at Sona because he was close to her which Natasha was never. She was just a business associate for him, nothing else. And he has given Sona her due respect from the initial phase of their relationship and even before that. Wasn't he the one who snapped mamiji for asking her to mop the floor. He might have manipulated his ways to get what he wants, he might have been rude at times, but saying that he never respected Sona is not done.

Begining with initial phase up to Post marriage track Dev shouted at her, without doubt. He said sorry later. But the way he shouts at her,is unwarranted.If he really respects her he will not be that rude when Vicky issue happened.
Dev always taken her for granted. In my view. You may differ. I respect your view.

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randommusings

@randommusings

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Posted: 8 years ago

#18

Dev hardly knew Natasha..n they were not even good friends..they were business colleagues. What u describe as respect for Natasha...it was actually Dev's formal behavior with her. Dev respects Sona a lot as a person and also as a Nutritionist. Yes Dev needs to do a lot to make sure Sona gets respected by his family members but that doesn't mean he doesn't respect her.

Mami n Vicki wud nvr hav misbehaved with Natasha but since Sona has worked as an employee, both Mami n Vicki feel she doesn't deserve to be part of this rich fqmily.